What would you do if ur gal is 2 timing u ? :(
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Originally posted by zrahf:its seems to b the end of e relationship for me, would b diff...but gonna get thru it.
wad tokin u
kns like so simple ...Originally posted by ditzy:Tell her, if she prefers "him", by all means. My loss is your gain.
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Well, if she is justifying her cheating ways as you being not open-minded enough, I really suggest you move on, especially if you have concrete proof.
It's not the guy's fault as a rule. Girls make mistakes too. In this case, I guess she does not have the guts to admit it, or either that she doesn't want to drop the bomb and wants you to make the move to break up.
Well, I can't stand it if my guy is screwing around, but I will not go around destroying things to vent my anger. If you have done everything constructive that can possibly save or mend the relationship and she is not being cooperative, maybe its time to move on. Better that you invest your feelings on someone who appreciates it
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I guess many pple muz have had the same exp. I'm no exception. Better still.. my first relationship. As wat pple say, the first cut is the deepest. Anyway, as wat elindra has mentioned, the most impt thing is to find out if ur gurl apologetic and serious in the relationship. If not, there is no point to carry on or even pretend as though nothing has hap. True, it hurts now. But in the future there will be many more times ur trust and love will be exploited. Ur heart is not a toy ya. From wat i observe, ur gurl ( or now maybe ex le) dun seem to be one bit remorseful or show any consideration for ur feelings. In my opinion, leave her. Dun live in denial. Pasture is greener on the other side.
But of course, sometimes it may not be entirely her fault. It could be due to ur inadequacies as a bf, tt's why she turn to others maybe. Den again, she could juz be a big flirt. Nonetheless, that does not justify her extracurricular activities.
In the case of my 1st gf was, in my opinion, extremely fickle-minded. She flirted with another guy during an overseas exchange trip. When she returned, i sensed sth was amissed. However, i juz swiped it off. Tot i was oversensitive. Well, in the end she came clean and initiated a breakup. At least she was honest. LAter, she ask to get back tgt again. After some tot, she's no longer worth it man. Dun of course she3 bu4 de2 la. But it's the best soln made. As time went by, she had a long-list of had-been crushes.
Though occasionally i do reminsce and think abt her, but i believe tt was the best decision for myself. So i do URSELF a favour.
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Hey tanz peeps , u ppl r e best , still e story is she came back n say sori LAH ...
den next day F me upside down ( i've no idea y )
Den sori LAH again ....
man wad a screw up tis is ....
Lost in limbo ... kns sia ....
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What would you do if ur gal is 2 timing u ?
What would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing you ?
>> of coz angry n stop c'ing her... but she cum back, i stop hearted, den back wif her.... but she.... so i stop le.... stupid of me lolx...
What would you do if you cannot seem to trust her ?
>> i decided not to c her le... 4get liao~
What would you do if people reported that she was seen kissing another man ?
>> if i dun realli tt like her, i will pretendin nth.... if i realli lik her, i would like her to tell mi y... if i like her n my mood is bad... sorry, byebye...
what would you do if she admits somethings but not all , and has absolutely no remorse about it ?
>> she feel nth wrg wif tt... so i pretended i duno her...
What would you do if your initial inclination is to smash and destroy but has absolutely shattered heart and no more will to cause chaos n entropy ?
>> actually i wanna ans this qns, but too chim le
What would you do if these happened when u just lost your job within days ?
>> well... unlucky things cum all-together... wad can i do~ get her back? i rather find a new job...
What would you do ?
>> jiu de bu qu, xin de bu lai.... got go den gt new things ma... -
Fxxx her big time and break up wif her.best is u take some photos for us to c.
telephone number provided is the best
anyway,if she do it once,she will surely do it again.break up lah.....
no point in talking....
job also can find again mah....or maybe it time to take a long break alone -
Ditch her and give other gals a chance
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What would you do if ur gal is 2 timing u ?
1. cut off contact from her totally. it's obvious she doesn't even RESPECT you, so why should you still put up with her sht? you deserve a better woman, buddy!
What would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing you ?
What would you do if you cannot seem to trust her ?
What would you do if people reported that she was seen kissing another man ?
what would you do if she admits somethings but not all , and has absolutely no remorse about it ?
What would you do if your initial inclination is to smash and destroy but has absolutely shattered heart and no more will to cause chaos n entropy ?
What would you do if these happened when u just lost your job within days ?
What would you do ?
2. STAND UP AGAIN! DON'T GIVE UP! ARE YOU GOING TO LET HER LAUGH AT YOU FOR BEING A LOSER? DON'T LET HER CHALLENGE YOUR AUTHORITY! SHOW HER WHO'S BOSS! MAKE HER REGRET THAT SHE CHEATED ON YOU! MAKE HER CRAWL BACK AND BEG YOU!
3. set a short term goal for yourself, and work towards it. it'll help you to rid this matter from your mind.
that's all i can say
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nuke them when they're having sex
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Since she 2 timer, u should pretend u dun know anything abt it. den u can treat her as a sex toy to satisfy ur sexual need n at the same time start finding suitable gal to be ur next gf... When u find a suitable one, ditch her.
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Hmm u providing e nukes ?Originally posted by sgFish:nuke them when they're having sex -
walk away without even looking back
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kick the other guys' ass!!! then swear at ur girl, THEN walk away without looking back. and if the guy look for u.. KICK HIS SORRY ASS AGAIN!!!
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like tat ah?
she 2 time me means she flirt around....tis dun looks like the other guy's fault so i will 2 time her back lor since the matual relationship had turn out like tat.....y want such a b i tch to be ur gf? cannot be trusted....so s l u t y....reminds me of my ex....
who zao sai me when i was prowling in dieppe barracks 1 weekend nite, week b4 2001 x'mas....... too bad lor find another 1....maybe the next 1 will be ur wife soon....hard to say.....
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well if the other guy knows then he should get his ass kicked, if he dono anything u kick his ass he would be super pissed lol.
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No sense of respect for u. No consideration of ur feelings. Prosmiscuous. Untrustworthy. Enough reasons to ditch her?
But first find out who the guy is. If brother/relatives/cousin den u might have maligned her. If it's some other guy.. dump her.
Oh ya.. revenge is optional but strongly encouraged. Ideas are above. -
Well i dono tis guy , but i kno wat he looks like , 2 bad i dono how 2 insert pics , or i put here ...
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Originally posted by NemesisAlien:What would you do if ur gal is 2 timing u ?
What would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing you ?
What would you do if you cannot seem to trust her ?
What would you do if people reported that she was seen kissing another man ?
what would you do if she admits somethings but not all , and has absolutely no remorse about it ?
What would you do if your initial inclination is to smash and destroy but has absolutely shattered heart and no more will to cause chaos n entropy ?
What would you do if these happened when u just lost your job within days ?
What would you do ?
Very easy to answer all the questions above, just take it easy and stay cool, don't take it too seriously, life is short, so be happy and learn to "accept the way she or he" is and understand each other's need and interest
Jobs You can find another good job out there, you just need to be patient 
Here's some recipies for you :
Honesty is the best policy in a relationship, it's not easy to do it but you have to start doing it now, practice and practice If you love someone you have to forgive and forget and start all over again, you have to apply all those TLC - Tender - Love and Care ingredients to your patner and Add abit of Honesty and Trust and a touch of Warmth 
So don't worry be happy