Originally posted by NemesisAlien:
What would you do if ur gal is 2 timing u ?
What would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing you ?
What would you do if you cannot seem to trust her ?
What would you do if people reported that she was seen kissing another man ?
what would you do if she admits somethings but not all , and has absolutely no remorse about it ?
What would you do if your initial inclination is to smash and destroy but has absolutely shattered heart and no more will to cause chaos n entropy ?
What would you do if these happened when u just lost your job within days ?
What would you do ?
There is nothing to do if she has already 2 timed you. Have a heart to heart talk with her and see what when wrong. Ask her if she still wants to carry on the relationship because there is no point going on if she still wants to flirt around. You will have to access the situation from her answers.
Well, trust once broken is hard to rebuild, but it still can be. However, it needs help from both parties, so she will have to live with you checking on her and stuff like that. But this is necessary to rebuild a relationship. At the same time, you will also have to keep your emotions in check and not jump to conclusions all the time.
Well, you can confront her about it and see what she says. Is it just a friendly kiss (Is she open minded) or those deep throat french kiss, or there can be something more to it. Bear in mind your approach or she may become defensive.
If she has no remorse, better try to find out if there has been crack signs in your relationship whihc you failed to detect. Access and see if you both want to fix it and carry on. If not, there is no point holding onto a failed relationship. You might be together for a long time, but if it does not work, move on. There is nothing worse then clinging onto a relationship there is going no where.
I would say that you are also getting matured emotionally as what good can you do if you destroy stuff? Did they offend you?
With the current economy, things happen, and bad things tend to happen together. Keep a chin up and start looking for a new job. Can't do much can you? You can just sit at home and mop and cry but that won't get you anything.