Flings, one nite stands......Ladies, what is your stand?
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Used to be active in flings and one nite stands but seriously do not really know the reasoning behind these stuff.. since i have lots of male views, why not someone tell me from the lady's perspective.
Why have flings and one nite stands (sad to say, most of them are with married or attached females)
Do you do with friends or acquaintances and why (interestingly, only one of my partners is my friend)
Just for curiosity since getting married soon -
hmmn.. well personally I won't really do it with someone I know.. or someone I do kinda well, I don't know for me it takes away the "stranger" feel from the whole thing.. I prefer guys that I just know or don't really know. :-)
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what talkin u...Originally posted by noonedelete:hmmn.. well personally I won't really do it with someone I know.. or someone I do kinda well, I don't know for me it takes away the "stranger" feel from the whole thing.. I prefer guys that I just know or don't really know. :-)
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stupid people can't get it ha ha ! ;-)
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Reasons? Can be a few.Originally posted by swinger69:Used to be active in flings and one nite stands but seriously do not really know the reasoning behind these stuff.. since i have lots of male views, why not someone tell me from the lady's perspective.
Why have flings and one nite stands (sad to say, most of them are with married or attached females)
Do you do with friends or acquaintances and why (interestingly, only one of my partners is my friend)
Just for curiosity since getting married soon
Looking for excitment
Partner not able to satisfy
Revenge -
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huh???Originally posted by noonedelete:hmmn.. well personally I won't really do it with someone I know.. or someone I do kinda well, I don't know for me it takes away the "stranger" feel from the whole thing.. I prefer guys that I just know or don't really know. :-)
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pls re phrase.. i really catch no balls. -
Originally posted by noonedelete:stupid people can't get it ha ha ! ;-) oh.. okie...
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interesting......must flings have that sort of sensation? it helps in orgasms?Originally posted by noonedelete:hmmn.. well personally I won't really do it with someone I know.. or someone I do kinda well, I don't know for me it takes away the "stranger" feel from the whole thing.. I prefer guys that I just know or don't really know. :-)
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ah.......excitement..........Originally posted by elindra:Reasons? Can be a few.
Looking for excitment
Partner not able to satisfy
Revenge
partner not able to satisfy? mmmm......damn i better satisfy my other half....hehe
revenge? is it worth it? -
hmm i thought u went throught it before?
what were your views then?would it difer from a girl's viewpoint? -
one night stands.
ladies, what is your stand?
joke
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Waahhh revenge quite a stupid reason... afterall, e gal is at e losin end loh... if u wanna take revenge on ur bf/ex... juz need to act intimate.. i mean if u really hav one night stands... he wouldn't noe whether its real... can juz lie to him or wat...Originally posted by elindra:Reasons? Can be a few.
Looking for excitment
Partner not able to satisfy
Revenge -
Well, i guess my views were probably nothing new. They were to me just like companions. It was just sex and intimacy, nothing more..... further more they can have weeks without communication with me and still can meet up for it...probably my sex skills have nothing that they can shout about?Originally posted by beavan:hmm i thought u went throught it before?
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quite true.....but i guess gals and guys on equal grounds now.....even though it is for revenge, i think gals do select their tools of vengeance. they probably wun do with anyone who can't attract them.....if not, i probably will have millions of gals liao. heheOriginally posted by Enilec:Waahhh revenge quite a stupid reason... afterall, e gal is at e losin end loh... if u wanna take revenge on ur bf/ex... juz need to act intimate.. i mean if u really hav one night stands... he wouldn't noe whether its real... can juz lie to him or wat... -
i feel tat if u thk u can accept it, y not, we r adults , we know wat we r doin', jus dun regret it..however, gals tend to be "loo gee" abit, becoz pregnancy is somethg we do not wan..
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Originally posted by noonedelete:stupid people can't get it ha ha ! ;-)
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i hope ur dick rots!
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dun so bad lah....u tried to have a flings with a guy with alot of chest hair but kena rejected b4 is it??Originally posted by FireIce:i hope ur dick rots! -
Sounds like a good way to know which female forumite is up for a one nite stand huh?Originally posted by swinger69:Used to be active in flings and one nite stands but seriously do not really know the reasoning behind these stuff.. since i have lots of male views, why not someone tell me from the lady's perspective.
Why have flings and one nite stands (sad to say, most of them are with married or attached females)
Do you do with friends or acquaintances and why (interestingly, only one of my partners is my friend)
Just for curiosity since getting married soon
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yar.. gers always on e losin end... if e gal get pregnant, e guy will deny it n show u their butts... but den... if u wan to do it, u shd hav already taw of e consequences already... but youngsters nowadays treat it like nothin serious... call me old fashion... but i believe in doin it with someone u really love n wan to spend e rest of ur life with... not someone u juz call n say hey wanna hav sex n den juz do it for doin it... haizzzz.... corrupted....Originally posted by 101wish:i feel tat if u thk u can accept it, y not, we r adults , we know wat we r doin', jus dun regret it..however, gals tend to be "loo gee" abit, becoz pregnancy is somethg we do not wan..
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haha.....true. but nowadays gals are more independent....they actually take pills and carry condoms around.....Originally posted by 101wish:i feel tat if u thk u can accept it, y not, we r adults , we know wat we r doin', jus dun regret it..however, gals tend to be "loo gee" abit, becoz pregnancy is somethg we do not wan.. -
haha.......that may be a good idea....except that i am getting married soon.Originally posted by cooleo:Sounds like a good way to know which female forumite is up for a one nite stand huh? -
haha....but not really. if dna proves that the guy fathers the child, the court can order the guy to provide maintenance money to the gal to bring up the childOriginally posted by Enilec:yar.. gers always on e losin end... if e gal get pregnant, e guy will deny it n show u their butts... but den... if u wan to do it, u shd hav already taw of e consequences already... but youngsters nowadays treat it like nothin serious... call me old fashion... but i believe in doin it with someone u really love n wan to spend e rest of ur life with... not someone u juz call n say hey wanna hav sex n den juz do it for doin it... haizzzz.... corrupted.... -
i think fling is abt excitement & string-free relations.. u can walk away without committing and responsibility..Originally posted by swinger69:Used to be active in flings and one nite stands but seriously do not really know the reasoning behind these stuff.. since i have lots of male views, why not someone tell me from the lady's perspective.
Why have flings and one nite stands (sad to say, most of them are with married or attached females)
Do you do with friends or acquaintances and why (interestingly, only one of my partners is my friend)
Just for curiosity since getting married soon
personally i nv try fling b4 but i find ppl whp try them r reli daring. they r those type of ppl who wum care much, i would say they r ppl who can take in in ur stride...