youngster nowadays...sigh..
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did anybody notice tat youngster nowadays r just getting out of hand? when they need help they just order like u owe them your life...really jaik lat..
just for instance a kid wan to fix pc come into my shop tok like he the sultan of the uae... wah kaoz....
any similar experiences??
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Its okie lah, I old already, meant to get picked on and bullied anyway.
Kids will be kids. -
all these symptoms boil down to their upbringing.
if u think this is bad, u should see how their parents behave. -
lucky i not the hot headed 1 like 5 yrs ago if not i sure f**k them upside down
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ya...most kids are spolit brats these days... -
Punish Them!!!!!! Punish Them!!!!!! Re-instate coporal punishment in schools!!! Give teachers the CANE!!!!!!
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i agree!Originally posted by www:all these symptoms boil down to their upbringing.
if u think this is bad, u should see how their parents behave.
if they are to blame, the society, and the environment in wich they were brought up, all have to share the blame.
oh and some parents are plain disgusting. its no wonder kids are wat they are. -
i agree kids nowaday r getting soft... think they can get anything they want by just using mouth... must use the POW treatment i kena before 1... water treatment, jerry can pt...etc...
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i agree kids nowaday r getting soft... think they can get anything they want by just using mouth... must use the POW treatment i kena before 1... water treatment, jerry can pt...etc...
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Hi to all! I agree that many kids now are a little spoit and agressive in their behaviour, but this cannot be the result of blaming the parents on the whole.
It has also to do with the environment in which the child is being put into that changes and influences the minds of these kids. As parents, they will love their child no matter what. They will try their best to bring the child up and teach the child good things, including not sparing the rod. But, when they go outside the house, friends and people that they are mingering with has some influence in developing the mindsets of theirs - be it good qualities, or bad ones.
So, the most important thing here is that the renewal of the mind (changing the way they think) is the only key to changing their behaviour; and not just being angry and do nothing.
Just offering an alternative thought... -
Waaa...cant even tok to them...how to change their mind?? Nvm, i hope they degrade into some lump of sh**. Hahahaha.... too bad for them. Survival of the fittest.Originally posted by keuriseudo:Hi to all! I agree that many kids now are a little spoit and agressive in their behaviour, but this cannot be the result of blaming the parents on the whole.
It has also to do with the environment in which the child is being put into that changes and influences the minds of these kids. As parents, they will love their child no matter what. They will try their best to bring the child up and teach the child good things, including not sparing the rod. But, when they go outside the house, friends and people that they are mingering with has some influence in developing the mindsets of theirs - be it good qualities, or bad ones.
So, the most important thing here is that the renewal of the mind (changing the way they think) is the only key to changing their behaviour; and not just being angry and do nothing.
Just offering an alternative thought...
No pt toking to them lah. Let them rot and spent all their parent's money. Hopefully, they will send their parents to old folk's home. Waaaaoo.... ought to wake up a few ideas.
Govt is trying too hard to change too many things. sigh...luckily, i dun belong to their era. -
Well, you can always implement Battle Royale Singapore, Sentosa can be dat island.
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parents too busy to discipline, teachers can't touch them...
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Yah...I agree...think government should concentrate more on cultivation of the mind in the youngsters before our country become a country of ah bengs and ah lians. Too much of those 'jiang hu' types of hongkong movie in sg liao.
Will our future politicians be a ex-ah beng and behaved like taiwanese politicans?
I hope not...faster save money lah....so if want to run in the future, still can run. -
i'm a youngster myself..... only 17 years old... I strongly agree that the teenagers and youngster nowadays are getting out of hand... what I can say is that they are still very childish and haven't grow up yet.. I believe that when they reach 18 and went NS, they will tend to grow up like a man and regret on their teenager past... don't worry... just take that we give them a few more years to be childish... hahaha... how I wish I can enter NS soon... want to learn things from NS
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lets change place, i dun wan to go.Originally posted by sg1987:i'm a youngster myself..... only 17 years old... I strongly agree that the teenagers and youngster nowadays are getting out of hand... what I can say is that they are still very childish and haven't grow up yet.. I believe that when they reach 18 and went NS, they will tend to grow up like a man and regret on their teenager past... don't worry... just take that we give them a few more years to be childish... hahaha... how I wish I can enter NS soon... want to learn things from NS
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Originally posted by sg1987:i'm a youngster myself..... only 17 years old... I strongly agree that the teenagers and youngster nowadays are getting out of hand... what I can say is that they are still very childish and haven't grow up yet.. I believe that when they reach 18 and went NS, they will tend to grow up like a man and regret on their teenager past... don't worry... just take that we give them a few more years to be childish... hahaha... how I wish I can enter NS soon... want to learn things from NS
You really want to go NS so badly?
Hmm..you can go to CMPB and tell them that...sure they will be very nice to you and ask you to sign on. Very easy one...just need to put your paw prints there and you're done.
After that...prepare yourself for lots of extras, confinements, guard duties, minor exercise, major exercise, battalion exercise, division exercise, LRI, half-marathon runs/training, SAF Day Parade, National Day Parade and say goodbyes to all your weekends.
Or...you can change place with gaoyue, if they allow...hahaha.... -
yes.. parents love their kids. but perhaps in wanting to do the best for their kids they inevitable exhibit and model poor social behaviour.Originally posted by keuriseudo:Hi to all! I agree that many kids now are a little spoit and agressive in their behaviour, but this cannot be the result of blaming the parents on the whole.
It has also to do with the environment in which the child is being put into that changes and influences the minds of these kids. As parents, they will love their child no matter what. They will try their best to bring the child up and teach the child good things, including not sparing the rod. But, when they go outside the house, friends and people that they are mingering with has some influence in developing the mindsets of theirs - be it good qualities, or bad ones.
So, the most important thing here is that the renewal of the mind (changing the way they think) is the only key to changing their behaviour; and not just being angry and do nothing.
Just offering an alternative thought...
and parents are supposed to be role models for their children.
e.g. mrt train pulls to a stop. a parent gathers his kids around him, and when the train door opens, rushes into the train without waiting for passengers to alight, so as to get seats for his kids.
love? yes. poor social behaviour and role model? even more! wat kind of impression is this going to leave on impressionable kids if done over and over again? -
Originally posted by wuming78:
Errrmm...bad impression?
yes.. parents love their kids. but perhaps in wanting to do the best for their kids they inevitable exhibit and model poor social behaviour.
and parents are supposed to be role models for their children.
e.g. mrt train pulls to a stop. a parent gathers his kids around him, and when the train door opens, rushes into the train without waiting for passengers to alight, so as to get seats for his kids.
love? yes. poor social behaviour and role model? even more! wat kind of impression is this going to leave on impressionable kids if done over and over again?
I guess we should blame those incapable parents for not teaching their children well. People get married because of love, money and sex. They happily plugging in and out of each other everynight and when they have a child, they are not mentally-prepared for it. Not that they don't know that their plugging exercise will bring them a baby, but their mind is not mature enough to handle a family life yet. They think...hmm...I got a good and stable job, wonderful wife/husband, maybe I should be getting a baby before it is too late?
So the question is, are they prepared to take on the responsibilities of being a good father/mother to their child?
The fact is that they are not prepared at all. Like going into a classroom to take a sudden exam. Well, if they pay enough attention in the class normally, they would have done fairly. People indulge themselves in their own enjoyment and happiness and they failed to pay attention to life itself. So when the time comes for them to become their own parents, they realised that they didn't have the tolerance and patience and discipline for the children...most of them completely clueless about it and these people often seeks the advice of their peers who have already had children before them.
So...make sure you are really ready to take on the heavy and long-term responsibilities of a parent before you pop one out.
I also feel disgusted and pity those parents who don't know how to discipline their kids. What kind of future generation are we producing and rearing for? This topic probably piss me off more than anything else when I go out. Is Singaporeans mental-growth on par with our economy-growth?
I certainly do not want to be an incapable parent in the future. And will definitely slap my kids silly if they ask me to chop seats for them in the MRT. -
its true.. aloto parents start having kids without knowing the responsibilities. they think tt they only have to pay for the kid and make sure hes living well and tts it. they dont realise tt as parents they play the MOST important part in the education of the kids. and so unknowingly they transmit all the wrong values and models to their kids. shang liang bu zhen xia liang wai. tts the meaning...Originally posted by parn:I guess we should blame those incapable parents for not teaching their children well.
So the question is, are they prepared to take on the responsibilities of being a good father/mother to their child?
I also feel disgusted and pity those parents who don't know how to discipline their kids. What kind of future generation are we producing and rearing for? This topic probably piss me off more than anything else when I go out. Is Singaporeans mental-growth on par with our economy-growth?
I certainly do not want to be an incapable parent in the future. And will definitely slap my kids silly if they ask me to chop seats for them in the MRT.
parents should learn about parenting styles and how to bring up kids before they even start to have one, and not be obsessed about learning how to make the kids learn better and become geniuses. -
zhe ge shi jie bu ying gai shi zhe yang de, ren ye bu ying gai shi zhe yang de.
translation : this world should not be like dat, humans also should not be like dat. -
Pity them and count yourself lucky you're not one of them. -
hahaha... but I still want to study first before I get in NS... haha
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Originally posted by Misogynist:Punish Them!!!!!! Punish Them!!!!!! Re-instate coporal punishment in schools!!! Give teachers the CANE!!!!!!
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Hi all!! Still can't to get to sleep... this topic really disturbs me...
I can say Im strict towards my students and raises my voice when the students does misbehave...
But den after sometime in a school, I was given one of the worst NT class for a beginning teacher of a month. Harsh treatment only invited more troubles for myself e.g. fights in class, vulgarities used on teachers, speak and insult teacher in their dialect which teacher dun understand, molest their classmate, do not attend sch neither bring books or school bags to school. They are creating a rebel in class and wanna show the teacher that they want to have their own ways.
After a while i understood that corporate treatment does not work as ive sent too many students to the P's office for canning for open defiance and absconding from school. I used the soft approach and definitely it works.
First of all, oways use the "I' message... everything starts with the teacher (personal life experiences can be used in here) Ive oways told them how i behaved in sec sch and how i achieve to what I am now... (of coz in between add some 'stories')
Secondly, as a form teacher or subject teacher, oways spend more time with the slower students or those students in gangs, get to noe them more and understand why they are not performing in school. And this is wat i did... i oways have to work till 9pm in the nite so that i could finish my admin work and lesson preparation because earlier in the day i was trying to building a rapport with my students either lunching or chatting normally in their lingo..
Thirdly, if they have unsupportive parents, the teachers will need alot of patience and call the parents up. We haf to be thick skinned and let them understand their child's performance in school. If they parents do not show concern, let them noe... 'As teachers, we are trying our very best to bring out the talent in your child, and we definitely need your support in making the parents proud of their child in the society in the near future. We aint complaining to you but we do need to let u understand what is going on in school as your child spends half their day in school with the teachers. The school can only help you to a certain limit as eventually, you are the parents.' There are times threats haf to be used on parents who turn abusive....(confidential)
Actually, it is partly due to parents over concern for a kid that they had adored their child far too much and so their child misbehave in school thinking they can haf they ways. But they are disciplined from the school, they complain to their parents wif a difft story.. so as teacher, the school and I do keep a record black and white and sometimes wif a witness asking the offender to sign on a piece of paper and den will send to parents to inform them.
But den again its not entire all the parents at fault because their child can be an angel at home but out for mischief in school because of peer influence... so pls do not blame entirely on the parents...
I was juz speaking from a teacher's point of view (Abit too lengthy i noe..)