will good friends ever become a lover?

• toiletbowl86

  28 Mar 04, 23:28

  i once was told by my friend that when the both of you are good friends,u both will never engage in a relationship with each other.know what i mean?its like u know that someone so long a time that u have nth to explore in him/her.comment.
• FireIce

  28 Mar 04, 23:30

  there's a possiblity.......
  
  some ppl go all out to search for THE ONE....but actually THE ONE is just right in front of u all the while.......
  
  fate plays a part.......
• HENG@

  28 Mar 04, 23:31

  certainly
• donjng

  28 Mar 04, 23:34

  I guess good friends would mean that you already past the stage of lust and sex for each other!
• DeadPoet

  29 Mar 04, 02:03

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  there's a possiblity.......
  
  some ppl go all out to search for THE ONE....but actually THE ONE is just right in front of u all the while.......
  
  fate plays a part.......

  x2. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
• narz

  29 Mar 04, 02:16

  i don't believe in platonic friendships. (or at least i noe it may never happen to me.)
  
  so yes, given the right circumstances, opportunities, good friends may jolly well become a couple.
• s|nNeD

  29 Mar 04, 02:32

  certaintly... why not... i dun see why your good fren can't be your lover...
  
  if things work out evetually to a stage as such... just accept it loh.
• chris_pattz

  29 Mar 04, 09:23

  a good friend is a fantastic lover, love started with friendship in it,
  
  of course there's possibility.
  
  
• claud

  29 Mar 04, 09:28

  Originally posted by chris_pattz:

  a good friend is a fantastic lover, love started with friendship in it,
  
  of course there's possibility.
  
  

  i agree.. it all starts from being friends in the first place, moving on stage by stage.. if both parties feel tat they can be more than friends.. den they proceed
• Dj_Shadow

  29 Mar 04, 14:01

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  there's a possiblity.......
  
  some ppl go all out to search for THE ONE....but actually THE ONE is just right in front of u all the while.......
  
  fate plays a part.......

  I have to agree with u... Coz i fail to c THE ONE right in front of me...
• I-like-flings(m)

  29 Mar 04, 14:35

  how i wish my good fren can be my gal too.. she is so chio, smart, nice, sweet.. too bad got bf already.
• xking

  29 Mar 04, 14:45

  If known for a long period say more than 5 yrs le.....
  super unlikely (but anything can happen). This is coz if got feelings long time ago will have le. So long le...oredi treat each others more like siblings than lovers lo
  
  
• JeweL81

  29 Mar 04, 14:50

  To me, its almost impossible to get into a relationship with my best friend.
  
  But i believe in being the best of friends with my bf , which is soul mate.
  
  Baby there's something about you that
  I can hold on to
  I'm going to hold on to that
  Baby there's something about you that
  I can hold on to
  I'm going to hold on to that
• Sir_Horny

  29 Mar 04, 15:10

  it's almost impossible
• xavier1979

  29 Mar 04, 21:21

  I guess not.
  
  When a girl says she only treat you as a 'good friend', it's a signal that she want no more than what is present between the two of you.
• tha_schizophrenic

  4 Apr 04, 14:05

  good friends may become lover, but buddies should remain as such.
• piinkmiink

  4 Apr 04, 14:55

  its possible.i dated my 6 year friend,but broke off after a mth or so..not sure if will ever bcome frens again..but i know its possible
• Dj-Xyotai

  23 May 04, 20:58

  i had a friend that we knew each other for long time and she was the one i wanted and she was enjoying being with me but when i ask her she said (that wasnt a good idea) i ask why? she said that in couple their sometimes fight and that she didnt want to lose me . why get in a fight with her when im happy with her :/ she didnt want to understand so i stop asking her why because i didnt want that she get tired of me asking why ( i didnt want to lose her too )
• marlboro

  23 May 04, 21:02

  If all things works out then fine. If it doesnt, you're losing a lover AND a fren
  
  Wouldnt take tat risk unless 100% sure. Its always better to have a good fren who'll always be by ur side than one more ex-lover.
  
  my 2 cents worth
• X k

  24 May 04, 14:15

  all it takes is a little spark(a statement, a moment of accident(hold her hand or knock into her & etc)
• browniebaobao

  24 May 04, 14:27

  Can..one very good example..my frens..
  
  know each other in sec sch..very good frens for years..then after graudation they go steady..this month will be 2 years. still very loving and strong. I think be frens first will be better coz already know each other very well..
• LazerLordz

  27 May 04, 22:53

  I totally agree with that.
• thoreldan

  27 May 04, 23:04

  i opposite leh, like a girl very much , woo her without sucess, in the end now turn up to be best friend.
  
  she like to ask me advice on further studies, work, relationship , etc....
  maybe we just no fate to be a couple only very good friend.
  
  
• _attitude_

  27 May 04, 23:08

  erm well.. i don't think that would happen.. but well, some one told me bfore that a bgr relationship is like too very close friends who are just more intimate with each other...
• the Bear

  27 May 04, 23:19

  be friends... and if love happens, it happens
  
  and revel in it