do gals like guys to masturbate?
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Do it itz ok... But not too extreme... Den become addiction.Originally posted by tha_schizophrenic:how come? i thought most guys do it so i find it quite a norm? -
After reading such a load of...erm...stuff you guys were saying..justifications to masturbations and stuff....what i think is... girls masturbate too ! How come guys like what they do . Lets be honest guys..dont tell me u dont like when girls masturbate!
n they dont like what that guy does. anyways lar.. i think u guys too eng. Bo So Ho Cho. but cheers..this is what forums are about =P -
Originally posted by kawa:My girlfriend also dont like me to jack myself. She thinks that its a pervertic act.
However, she do like me to masturbate her. She feels very "song" aka terrific sexual sensation. Indeed, this is also a before-sex warm up., which will make her "watery" down there. She feels that gys who jack themselves are akin to gays who play with each other (sodomy). But she wouldnt mind if it's a girl who masturbate the guy, which the gal must be her and the guy is me.
She said that UFM 100.3 "sex in the air" mention that guys like you should sit down and talk with the girl to understand more about her feelings. And that this kind of thing cannot be forced. Sometimes, i do feel the urge.... So I take the pressure off by looking at SGgirls website and sg forum to laugh off at the weird threads and funny response.
There was once that i was really "sexually excited" at night while asleep. i dreamt of a beautiful girl on top of me, and at that moment, made me had a wet dream! It was then that I truly knew what is "wet dream", spontantenous ejaculation without any physical motion. That was the one and only I had till now. I guessed it's because I was sexually derived for more than 4 weeks.
Hence, you may try to have wet dream instead loh! This is a loop hole, right?
About the thing that your girl dont like you to do her too, maybe it's because she is conservative, and that in her mind, she feels that this is not morally right and against nature. Catholics preach no masturbation as it is not "procreation". But I ask myself this question: Why do the beings in the animal kingdom masturbate? I.e. Dogs mount onto the legs of girls or even male owners to "rub" their parts, my chinchilla use its mouth to "tug" and "pull" it's erected penis, dolphins "rub" onto surfaces of "i cant remember what" to satisfy their desire. WHY WHY WHY then is it against nature? Animals dont have religion, dont have laws, and that they only have this needs: Eat, Sleep, Forage, Play, Procreation, Sex!!!!
Conclusion: Masturbation is good! and it's not wrong lest you urself feels that it's wrong! Gals, if you dont want him to do it, help him do it!
wah ......
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x2Originally posted by SGpork: wah ......
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I think masturbation is a normal thing to do. All guys masturbate. It's not perverted, just a way of letting off steam. Just because u dun understand doesn't mean masturbation is perverted. Guys n gals are different, physically and hormonally. We have different needs. We find masturbation enjoyable but that doesn't make us perverts or lose interest in sex. Sometimes we do it becos it's more convenient than to engage in sex as sometimes our partners may not want it.
Men cannot understand women when it comes to shopping, like buying shoes or bags when they have enough to set up a shop. But we dun call them perverts rite? It's just that we dun understand them but we realise that ladies have such a need. So pls understand that men who masturbates are not perverts. Unless he stares at men photos and jerks off.....then maybe u should get worried.
Any man who denies that he masturbates has no self confidence. We all do, I can assure u ladies. Even if by now u still think masturbation is perverted, u can't help it but still love men rite? -
I believe its perfectly normal for us guys to jack off by oursleves having fantasy of some pretty models we read in FHMs, or watch on TV etc etc...I believe gals do the same too....
my wife would have fantasies reading sexual novels or when we do erotic VCDs....
i read from a newspaper article recently saying from studies of recent surveys shows that women are increasingly watching adult videos, having the same liking for porno as we guys...
i felt it good news cus the women, can finally share wat we guy like....
hope i dun sound like a pervert
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haha...this topic reminded me of a news articles i came across years ago...
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90% of the guys practice masturbation while only 0.9% of the ladies do.
I wondered has the statistic changed now?
we guys are more prone to masturbation becus we become sexually aware earlier in life...the most earliest and basic thing we did to be aware is how we pee...
guys have more contact with their sexual organ during peeing while ladies dun really do till maybe when they are older... -
Hmm...I think maybe the statistic not so accurate? Maybe 90% of the guys who masturbate out of the 100% is willing to admit that they do masturbate. And only 0.9% out of 100% of the ladies is willing to admit that they masturbate?Originally posted by brembo:haha...this topic reminded me of a news articles i came across years ago...
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90% of the guys practice masturbation while only 0.9% of the ladies do.
I wondered has the statistic changed now?
we guys are more prone to masturbation becus we become sexually aware earlier in life...the most earliest and basic thing we did to be aware is how we pee...
guys have more contact with their sexual organ during peeing while ladies dun really do till maybe when they are older...
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haha, yah right bro...i would like to think it that way too...Originally posted by parn:Hmm...I think maybe the statistic not so accurate? Maybe 90% of the guys who masturbate out of the 100% is willing to admit that they do masturbate. And only 0.9% out of 100% of the ladies is willing to admit that they masturbate?
actually look masturbation in the correct light, it is actually recommended in all the sexual therepist books cus it is the perfect way to discover your own body... -
You intro her jack rabbit and that will change her perception of musturbation forever!
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Clap, Clap!! Totally agree with ya....Originally posted by Origami:I think masturbation is a normal thing to do. All guys masturbate. It's not perverted, just a way of letting off steam. Just because u dun understand doesn't mean masturbation is perverted. Guys n gals are different, physically and hormonally. We have different needs. We find masturbation enjoyable but that doesn't make us perverts or lose interest in sex. Sometimes we do it becos it's more convenient than to engage in sex as sometimes our partners may not want it.
Men cannot understand women when it comes to shopping, like buying shoes or bags when they have enough to set up a shop. But we dun call them perverts rite? It's just that we dun understand them but we realise that ladies have such a need. So pls understand that men who masturbates are not perverts. Unless he stares at men photos and jerks off.....then maybe u should get worried.
Any man who denies that he masturbates has no self confidence. We all do, I can assure u ladies. Even if by now u still think masturbation is perverted, u can't help it but still love men rite?
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for me, it's okay for guys to masturbate.
if he never masturbates..that's weird. not normal.
i'm not saying that i like my bf to masturbate, but hey..it's like a need for guys. can get a headache if u hold it too long.
it's fine as long as he doesn't do it too often, like everyday. twice a week is still okay lah. -
Last time i saw a website about masturbate. The Doctor advice for guys not to masturbate too much. if your you will get your memberi lost(forgetful) and your back bones weaken. so keep your spems guys
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How much is too much?? o_O
I'm sure most of the girls doesnt like guys to masturbate, cos we would always think that the guys are always thinking of other girls instead of your own gf when masturbating, so we actually get jealous and dun like guys to masturbate.Originally posted by Evanglion:Last time i saw a website about masturbate. The Doctor advice for guys not to masturbate too much. if your you will get your memberi lost(forgetful) and your back bones weaken. so keep your spems guys
And u say ur gf doesnt like u to do her too, i understand.. Cos its a feeling like, if u start to like masturbating, u feel different already. Like, not guaiguai nu (or.. virgin lady) liaox... understand?? =)
And girls like love to be as pure as possible, best is sex involved after marriage. No sex, masturbate kinda shows that the love for her is great, meaning u can hold back all those stuffs cos u love her. =)
Hope i help answer your questions.. =) -
wow.Originally posted by miwitch:How much is too much?? o_O
I'm sure most of the girls doesnt like guys to masturbate, cos we would always think that the guys are always thinking of other girls instead of your own gf when masturbating, so we actually get jealous and dun like guys to masturbate.
And u say ur gf doesnt like u to do her too, i understand.. Cos its a feeling like, if u start to like masturbating, u feel different already. Like, not guaiguai nu (or.. virgin lady) liaox... understand?? =)
And girls like love to be as pure as possible, best is sex involved after marriage. No sex, masturbate kinda shows that the love for her is great, meaning u can hold back all those stuffs cos u love her. =)
Hope i help answer your questions.. =) -
well..i find it common..even though my gf dun like me to do it..i ask all the guys..are you that stupid to tell ur gf that u just masurbate..thats damn stupid..
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I guess it's jus a matter of how she see things..Originally posted by lameist:well..i find it common..even though my gf dun like me to do it..i ask all the guys..are you that stupid to tell ur gf that u just masurbate..thats damn stupid..
Nope, we dun tell... -
Better to have a healthy relationship so that it will stay longer. Girls are very sensitive to these "sex" issues. Hence, if you cannot tahan, do it yourself when you're alone without her. =)Originally posted by bassnod:sometimes just cannot wait lah. what to do then? -
Haiz, obviously you don't trust your gf... How to have a healthy relationship when you can't trust each other!?!?Originally posted by lameist:well..i find it common..even though my gf dun like me to do it..i ask all the guys..are you that stupid to tell ur gf that u just masurbate..thats damn stupid..
Haiyo.. and speaking out for religion: Masturbation is bad not because of what you do. But what you think. When you masturbate, you are lusting after a girl(or a guy) and that is unhealthy.
Do you know why you guys keep feeling pressure building up when you don't masturbate? Because you keep thinking about it, because you have gotten used to the sexual pleasure involved.. Lemme ask u this, what is the difference in withdrawal symptoms between drugs and masturbation? None, admit that you have cravings and yearnings for masturbation after you've stopped for a few days.
Try to involve yourself in vigorous activities that leave you too tired to masturbate, or have accountability with your partner. Then, you'll either forget about it after awhile and your conscience will help you stay on the right track. Seriously, I know you all are supporting it because it is something you love and can't bear to have torn down, but think about it... Is sex for you to enjoy? Or issit to create more children for God.
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Why not tell her that you misses her a lot when she's not around? So...you had to masturbate with her in your mind, but you felt guilty and have to confess to her.Originally posted by lameist:well..i find it common..even though my gf dun like me to do it..i ask all the guys..are you that stupid to tell ur gf that u just masurbate..thats damn stupid..
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She's probably a nun in her past-life and hope that you can be her monk in her present-life.Originally posted by bassnod:any of u out there who have a girlfriend please tell me why my girlfriend do not like me to masturbate. she do not let me masturbate and do not let me masturbate her either. why?
Joking only...
One tip: Seduce her! -
Is the doctor a female one by any chance?Originally posted by Evanglion:Last time i saw a website about masturbate. The Doctor advice for guys not to masturbate too much. if your you will get your memberi lost(forgetful) and your back bones weaken. so keep your spems guys