why are girl nowdays so realistic?
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Something that came to my mind when i read these posts:
Men always claims that women are realistic animals,
but men themselves are living in a world of fantasy.
No offence......
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Originally posted by windjammer:welcome to the real world but honestly speaking , up till now i haven't met a sg girl who isnt like that
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Originally posted by oldbreadstinks: but honestly speaking , up till now i haven't met a sg girl who isnt like that
agreed mabbe young gals 18 or 19 still believe in true love lor...so welcome to the real world 
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Haix...
Something that came to my mind when i read these posts:
[b]Men always claims that women are realistic animals,
but men themselves are living in a world of fantasy.
No offence...... [/b]
Not all guys live in fantasy...
But although i pity those tat lived in fantasy...
I wouldn't also agree all women are realistic also...
But is just that gals dun actually understand guys and guys dun understand gals...
But if they really do one day, I dunno wat will happen... -
yap...
not all girls are like tat...
but when they are, its better too stay away and inform others
(haha... )
there are still those simple minded girls...
soon soon soon you may meet one...
=)
all the best....
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of coz I am not saying all girls are k...
there are 100 kind of people...
but I feel that SG girls nowdays very material driven...
All they care is themselve and themselve...only live in their own world and matter alot about what they wear, where they go, what car their bf drove....its no longer like our mother's time...
so....Is there really true love?
I believe there still are...but minority -
There is still true love out there. A bit of luck maybe, and cultivation. Time plays another factor.
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Whoever marries u is one lucky guy who can have peace of mind till his death........Originally posted by KittynMeow:no one needs to be an island... just think that whether guys or gals, we should be accountable for ourselves... and in that sense, gals shld try to earn our own keep instead of thinking or depending on spending our guy's money.... -
got, go malaysia lor, there got a lotOriginally posted by vistra84:yap...
not all girls are like tat...
but when they are, its better too stay away and inform others
(haha... )
there are still those simple minded girls...
soon soon soon you may meet one...
=)
all the best....
but seriously, i have a better impression of malaysian girls,they're much more hardworking, after sec school any sg girls i meet always seem to think about how to take advantage of others -
which mean most girl,rite.no money no honeyOriginally posted by ditzy:Well, offside she could just be kidding with you. But not all girls like that. Dun worry, ur find ur true love eventually. Trust me on that. -
Not all SG girls, however juz want to point out a fact that my mama told me.. The trend seems to be like more SG girls are like HK gals.. like you've said, material driven and stuff.Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:of coz I am not saying all girls are k...
there are 100 kind of people...
but I feel that SG girls nowdays very material driven...
All they care is themselve and themselve...only live in their own world and matter alot about what they wear, where they go, what car their bf drove....its no longer like our mother's time...
so....Is there really true love?
I believe there still are...but minority
But thinking on the other hand, why do they have to be material driven if they have security? One point may be that to those material driven girls, their men cannot give them security in a lot of sense that's y they turn to materials.
They are alot of reasons for their behaviour, some good some bad? But I believe we should keep an open mind to them.. Who knows? Everything happens for a reason. -
Look at it guys, at least now they are only material driven and not SEX drive,.... imagine if one day they were to 'change' and start going after 'better/more' sex or something ... then we guys would have had it man !!!!
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Heh... thanks for "seeing me so up" to think that I'm still studying...Originally posted by bus:I believe most of the forumer here are either still schooling or have yet to work in the society.....Well, if my guess is correct then I should say U might not understand what I am trying to convey but if majority of U here are currently working in the society for many years then U will understand my message here.
When a gal wanted to go steady with a guy, she will look for
1. what the guy can provide her e.g Does he have a stable job, educational level of the guy, Income Amt etc...
Someone mentioned that the gal he knew at the Trade Fair is looking for a guy who had a car! Well, some gals still have this type of mentality......Some choose to remain single if they cannot find someone that fit her bill as she will lower down her expectations....
Apart from this, I forget to mention. More and more people are single nowsaday due to many many reasons and some do so due to "unrealistic expectation".....meaning what they expect 10 years ago, he/she still expects to find someone who can behave/react etc..to what he/she wants, likes etc...........
I personally met a gal who is older than me thru friend introduction...guess what...
During the 1st meeting, she told me : "there is no true love in this world"!
During the 2nd meeting, she told me about her past relationships with her EXs....
During the 3rd meeting, she told me how her ex will react and sound like expecting me to do the same!!!
Thru informal telephone chatting, she told me she used to tell her single friends that "Guys' promises cannot be trusted"!!!!!
I did sound to her my liking for her but after many many waiting, she hinted to me the 2 can only be friend...well, she also hinted to many guys before me that they can only be friends etc etc...
I have a heart to heart talk with her and tell her straight that the REAL problem is not with the guy, the REAL problems are with U!!!
1. U cannot commit yourself to a new relationship because of fear that the guy will hurt U again
2. Stop living in the past as U will get to NOWHERE......
After the heart to heart talk, we NEVER contact again...she is like disappear into thin air..Well, I must wake up this person even at the expense of losing her as ONLY her can help herself..Well, all the best to her and if she can get over her past(I don;t think she will), she might still be able to find her happiness, if she cannot then too late for her.
there are many different types of people around, whether guys or gals and everyone has different expectations and attitudes towards life, love, relationships and marriages.
If you are inferring that all women are as you said from that one incident you cited above, I'm sorry to say that you may have been mixing with the wrong kind of gals.
In any case, there are plenty of women who are much older than 16 years old, don't live in the past and think differently from the materialistic ones.... and i do admit a lot of the humble ones i know are already happily married. And they were not looking at things like income or job or status or any of that sort of thing when the whole relationship started.
I'm stating my own opinion but I think there are other women like me too...that when thinking about who is a right partner, we are looking for the person who can "complete" us...in character, attitudes, and other aspects which may have nothing to do with $$. -
well, not all gals are materialistic. though cash and cars are necessary, these are just the tangibles in life. Seek out for the intangibles, then you'll find real life in it
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Money makes the world go round.
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hi guys/girls..
I'm new here..however would like to state my opinion...I think it wouldn't be right to generalise girls like that....there are those who like money and those who prefer true love...we guys have to also admit....don't we all love money too?...it's just to what extend....
of course of all things being equal...ie. u like 2 guys just as much etc...it will be more senseable to choose the one that is more "well off"...can u blame them for trying to live in a more confortable world?...don't we all want that?...but I'm really against those who look at the money aspect...I feel that they are nothing more than hoo****...sorry for the word but...think about it...there's really no difference...u pay for both of them and u get to enjoy them.. -
mm... mi new here too... wat i tink is like not all girls r so materialistic. although there r some who r, but still, there r many out there who r searching for true love... like wat i always say to my friend, wealth may be gone, looks may faded but wat nv change is e innerself.. so if looking for a partner, wat is important is their character not other factor. so marcus, dun give up... one day u will find someone who really appreciate u..
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Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:well...recently fallenfor a girl i know at a trade fair...
then ended up quite close and I really wanna make her mine...
but guess what...
she said she is very material driven and only like boys with their machine...cars...
why nowdays girl so damn realistic?
can't they look abit further?
isn't there any true love around?
yes? I mut be a condemn bachelor then..
if like cars, go get it herself.
If cannot afford, then ask her go get a car model.
At least she is straight forward to you, so you can totally eliminate her from your life hahaha.
Get a girl who enjoys your accompany, not a girl who needs your company (or maybe i should say MACHINE?) -
I think theres no arguements to this saying.Originally posted by shandower:Money makes the world go round.
But money shouldn't be of too much significant.
Cause there are lots more things that makes the world go round.
LIke... Love? Love to animals, to human kind, to parents, to friends,to that someone special, to the blue sky, to the green trees...
Its a wonderful world when we talk in terms of money huh. -
well...the society is so damn realistic, everyone is so materialistic...so think abt it...maybe really its a revenge from gers out there huh? For thousands of years...guys have been flirting around when their love one suffer...so now the other way round? keke...haiz... money money money... well...she will love me becoz of who I am and not what I possess...so...FateD.ren ming
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Hello?Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:well...the society is so damn realistic, everyone is so materialistic...so think abt it...maybe really its a revenge from gers out there huh? For thousands of years...guys have been flirting around when their love one suffer...so now the other way round? keke...haiz... money money money... well...she will love me becoz of who I am and not what I possess...so...FateD.ren ming
U trying to start a revolt or new revolution or something?
U think too much la...
Relac...
There are different pple in life who wans different things...
If there are different pple in life, there bound to be materialistic and non-materialistic women...
If there's is no materialistic women out there, would we have notice those non-materialtistic?
I also agree with Nat tat all things happen for a reason...
But why start the topic in the first place ? -
well...if she is really so materialistic,then i think youe should go and find another girl then,its not worth for you to be sad over her,there sure will be beta girl than her out there,so don't be sad ya...all the best to you and hope that you could find your right one soon....
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well...recently fallen for a girl i know at a trade fair...
then ended up quite close and I really wanna make her mine...
but guess what...
she said she is very material driven and only like boys with their machine...cars...
why nowdays girl so damn realistic?
can't they look abit further?
isn't there any true love around?
yes? I mut be a condemn bachelor then.. [quote] Well, we r at the same boat. I have been searching for the so call true love.... I always thought tat true love still exist but after three years of exploration, i'm still two hands empty. Lets face the realistic, we r coming to the era tat money talks. Tat also go for relationship n love. Only the love from our parents r the true n sincere one... Lets pray hard tat next week toto winner will be ours. Den i'll turn from the filthy poor guy to a filthy rich guy n this is when i get "true love" [quote] -
haha...
toto?
erm...u must be more realistic wor! -
SO THAT'S MEAN THE DAY TIME GALS AND NIGHT TIME GALS HAVE NO DIFFERENT....? SINCE BOTH AFTER THE SAME THINGS....
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