Big problem here... Read b4 post...
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Guys...
I dunno how to start this...
Okie...
It's like this...
I went into a relationship with someone...
However it's been only few days when i suddenly had no feelings...
I noe it's bad and i'm proberly a jerk...
But it just tat the feeling faded and I'm not just making any excuse...
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that's the problem of getting into a relationship too fast. i experienced that as well, but that was like at least 10 yrs ago already.
i felt like a bastard and a jerk too, like what u r feeling now. i dunno how to initiate a break-up and purposely played punk and went MIA. eventually, i was caught by her so-called "brothers" and nearly got beaten up.
but heng i never "took any advantage" of that girl, and all i needed to do was to apologise. but i still kena slapped and the girl ran away in tears after that...
i really felt like a piece of sh!t, or trash, or jerk, or whatever u can name. felt so so sooo bad and sorry.
i really dunno how to advise on what u shud do now, becoz up till now i still dunno how to handle such situation.
all i can do now is to prevent myself from getting into a relationship too fast. -
Quickie ah...Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:I went into a relationship with someone...
However it's been only few days when i suddenly had no feelings...
I noe it's bad and i'm proberly a jerk...
But it just tat the feeling faded and I'm not just making any excuse...
Anyone got a suggestion ???
1) Stop the relationship and let her know how U feel. or
2) Do something bad and let her hate you and leave herself.
but i think it's better you tell her straight how you feel lor... rather than dragging it and hurt her more.
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the 'wa eh ka jio' ger?Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:that's the problem of getting into a relationship too fast. i experienced that as well, but that was like at least 10 yrs ago already.
i felt like a bastard and a jerk too, like what u r feeling now. i dunno how to initiate a break-up and purposely played punk and went MIA. eventually, i was caught by her so-called "brothers" and nearly got beaten up.
but heng i never "took any advantage" of that girl, and all i needed to do was to apologise. but i still kena slapped and the girl ran away in tears after that...
i really felt like a piece of sh!t, or trash, or jerk, or whatever u can name. felt so so sooo bad and sorry.
i really dunno how to advise on what u shud do now, becoz up till now i still dunno how to handle such situation.
all i can do now is to prevent myself from getting into a relationship too fast.
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if u clearly know that u have lost interest in her, do let her know.
many a times, breaking up is not entirely a bad option.
after all, you could find yourself making the same decision if you drag it any longer.
the difference is that she gets to suffer more. -
buy insurance before breakup just in case
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why ur mind is always this???Originally posted by audlenelee:the 'wa eh ka jio' ger? -
kill ur'self
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Randy Rabbit was right, let her know, how you feel and if she stongly insist to be with you,... then... just try to love her, but you got to let her know you are trying hard and also not to take advantage of her. At least if you failed both of you can still be friends. Trust me it works.
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just let her know in an apologetic way.... chang tong bu ru duan tong... no point draggin it on if nothing is goin to come out from it.
its not gonna benefit the both of you. -
dun drag... the ger will hate u for it...
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:...
Guys...
I dunno how to start this...
Okie...
It's like this...
I went into a relationship with someone...
However it's been only few days when i suddenly had no feelings...
I noe it's bad and i'm proberly a jerk...
But it just tat the feeling faded and I'm not just making any excuse...
Anyone got a suggestion ???
You had never fell in love with that girl.
Cheers -
Lust n Love r often confused as each other...
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:...
Guys...
I dunno how to start this...
Okie...
It's like this...
I went into a relationship with someone...
However it's been only few days when i suddenly had no feelings...
I noe it's bad and i'm proberly a jerk...
But it just tat the feeling faded and I'm not just making any excuse...
Anyone got a suggestion ??? let her read this post. she will leave you before you can say 'jerk'. -
coz the rest of the PTTs always remind me of it?Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:why ur mind is always this??? -
OK then...
I shall be harsh and end this today...
Thanks for all the ideas, comments and help...
Thanks alot... -
Okie done...
Finally it's over...
But a lesson learned... -
sigh..Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:Okie done...
Finally it's over...
But a lesson learned... -
Why sigh ?
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acid...i would say tat u shld try to break up wif her faster if dont hav the feeling for her anymore...it save her more heartbreaking feeling...& like wat previously had said...if she really insist to b wif u...try n love her...sometime love will grow after some time being together...n after tat u will not wanna leave her if u really fall in love wif her...watever it is...juz try ur best to make ur stand clear...n make a wise decision...i support u all the way
gd luck
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dig up old post 4 wat?