What Would Spur You On to Initiate Courtship?
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Hihi... Got a question in mind, hoping to get some views from guys out there.
In our everyday life when we are single, we cross paths with many many girls who are single too. What would be the factor(s) that would spur you on to start 'courting' her (i.e. the 'wooing' process, thinking of her 24/7, hoping she can be your girlfriend)?
Would it be...
1. Chemistry?
2. Love at first sight?
3. Her personality?
4. Something she did for you?
5. Others? -
chemistry......personality.....something he done for me (tt made me touched).........
that look in his eyes...........
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buayaism.
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Tink Buayaism is a term used to describe negative actions and deeds done by a guy to a ger ..Originally posted by sgboy2004:buayaism.
IN positve terms, the word used is caring / gentlemenly ...
whereas in negative terms; it is termed buayaism ... -
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Others.Originally posted by xavier1979:Hihi... Got a question in mind, hoping to get some views from guys out there.
In our everyday life when we are single, we cross paths with many many girls who are single too. What would be the factor(s) that would spur you on to start 'courting' her (i.e. the 'wooing' process, thinking of her 24/7, hoping she can be your girlfriend)?
Would it be...
1. Chemistry?
2. Love at first sight?
3. Her personality?
4. Something she did for you?
5. Others?
When all gers perished & she happen to be da only 1 left...... -
r u trying to find that drive to chase gers again?? hahaha well i was feeling like that for some time but then this girl came along and changed everything. personality certainly but not to a great extent. look also not to. something she did.....perhaps not because if she did, probably she is also interested and won't be hard to chase. not luv at 1st sight. chemistry to a certain extent, at least must behave and look like a couple when out on the streets. the most important thing is the comfort level with the girl, as well as her ability to understand me and be appreciative, reciprocative of what i do for her. and both she and me must be of quite happiness level when we are together/talking....the feeling of luv in short.Originally posted by xavier1979:Hihi... Got a question in mind, hoping to get some views from guys out there.
In our everyday life when we are single, we cross paths with many many girls who are single too. What would be the factor(s) that would spur you on to start 'courting' her (i.e. the 'wooing' process, thinking of her 24/7, hoping she can be your girlfriend)?
Would it be...
1. Chemistry?
2. Love at first sight?
3. Her personality?
4. Something she did for you?
5. Others? -
In short, a mix of everything?Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:r u trying to find that drive to chase gers again?? hahaha well i was feeling like that for some time but then this girl came along and changed everything. personality certainly but not to a great extent. look also not to. something she did.....perhaps not because if she did, probably she is also interested and won't be hard to chase. not luv at 1st sight. chemistry to a certain extent, at least must behave and look like a couple when out on the streets. the most important thing is the comfort level with the girl, as well as her ability to understand me and be appreciative, reciprocative of what i do for her. and both she and me must be of quite happiness level when we are together/talking....the feeling of luv in short. -
when i feel the want to be with becomes a need to be with...
and after a certain time of serious soul searching.. then i would move.. -
sudden surge in libido.
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her personality.
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All of aboveOriginally posted by xavier1979:Hihi... Got a question in mind, hoping to get some views from guys out there.
In our everyday life when we are single, we cross paths with many many girls who are single too. What would be the factor(s) that would spur you on to start 'courting' her (i.e. the 'wooing' process, thinking of her 24/7, hoping she can be your girlfriend)?
Would it be...
1. Chemistry?
2. Love at first sight?
3. Her personality?
4. Something she did for you?
5. Others? -
maybe US$1 million?
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chemistry ....Originally posted by xavier1979:Hihi... Got a question in mind, hoping to get some views from guys out there.
In our everyday life when we are single, we cross paths with many many girls who are single too. What would be the factor(s) that would spur you on to start 'courting' her (i.e. the 'wooing' process, thinking of her 24/7, hoping she can be your girlfriend)?
Would it be...
1. Chemistry?
2. Love at first sight?
3. Her personality?
4. Something she did for you?
5. Others?
after u got her, her personality comes in....
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she's got big boobs
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actually depends on what u looking for in a gf. for me is as mentioned above. u must ask yourself what u lookin for. if u dunno, then try dating to find out what u yourself wants 1stOriginally posted by xavier1979:In short, a mix of everything? -
It's been a long time since I last dated. I guess for me chemistry really mean smthg, and more often than not, I want to make sure the girl is the one for me, then I would initiate courtship...Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:actually depends on what u looking for in a gf. for me is as mentioned above. u must ask yourself what u lookin for. if u dunno, then try dating to find out what u yourself wants 1st
In the meantime, though lonely, I'm enjoying the freedom and liberty as a bachelor. Hee...
Another thing came to my mind: If there is a group of girls whom they know one another, and you date each of them individually, would gossip follow? -
for me, every 6mths i will find a gal to date usually abt that period. so yearly date abt 2 gals over some dates and see how it goes. not suitable nvm loh. to make sure the gal is for u, dating is not so impt but the contact wise is more, as in thru conversations, sms, daily chat. 4 me, dating comes in only when that stage of communication is reached. i tried single dating b4 that comfort lvl is reached, simply spoil the "feel". i think the other party most prob will think likewise if dunno each other well unless she is the open type. i find it impossible to tackle individual gal in a group. unless u very friend with the group and some are attached and left a few. but choose the correct 1 then go 4 it. dating out other will surely invite gossip. but then again, if u dun mind breaking this friendship with the group, go ahead.Originally posted by xavier1979:It's been a long time since I last dated. I guess for me chemistry really mean smthg, and more often than not, I want to make sure the girl is the one for me, then I would initiate courtship...
In the meantime, though lonely, I'm enjoying the freedom and liberty as a bachelor. Hee...
Another thing came to my mind: If there is a group of girls whom they know one another, and you date each of them individually, would gossip follow? -
I would suggest asking them all out together for a dinner gathering or just sitting down at some cafe to chit chat.Originally posted by xavier1979:Another thing came to my mind: If there is a group of girls whom they know one another, and you date each of them individually, would gossip follow?
In a group, it's probably easier to 'identify' who is likely to talk to you more and look at you in a attractive way. Body language like that will 'reveal' someone among them who is really interested in you. Hmm, saves you the time to date them individually and ponder if anyone of them shows more interest in u doesn't it?
I see the light.