Being a player...

• bennykim85

  2 Dec 03, 06:22

  i was just wondering.....i'm a bit of player,....
  
  i just need to know whether girls actually find the whole 'player' thing attractive because it makes girls realise how popular you are and are attracted to the fact that you're a bad boy. i know that all girls have a soft spot for bad boys but how do they react to a player? is it just a huge turn off?
• boy in blues

  2 Dec 03, 06:51

  Originally posted by bennykim85:

  i was just wondering.....i'm a bit of player,....
  
  i just need to know whether girls actually find the whole 'player' thing attractive because it makes girls realise how popular you are and are attracted to the fact that you're a bad boy. i know that all girls have a soft spot for bad boys but how do they react to a player? is it just a huge turn off?

  incidentally, i was just wondering if guys find gal players attractive, since their popularity is evident.
• FireIce

  2 Dec 03, 10:20

  uuuhhmm.....play wat?
• the Bear

  2 Dec 03, 10:27

  i wonder..
  
  players.. do they respect people, do they respect themselves?
  
  do they see their "conquests" as prey? victim? or what?
  
  oh well... their lives.. not mine...
• tare

  2 Dec 03, 18:12

  a true player wouldn't need to ask such a qns......
  
  if u're a player wannabe... well... enuff said....
• sillyme

  2 Dec 03, 18:14

  Originally posted by tare:

  a true player wouldn't need to ask such a qns......
  
  if u're a player wannabe... well... enuff said....

  that's exactly my thoughts... a player wouldn't care... they are too full of themselves too..
• Nata|ie

  3 Dec 03, 02:13

  Originally posted by tare:

  a true player wouldn't need to ask such a qns......
  
  if u're a player wannabe... well... enuff said....

  If u're a player... i think u're not a good one. Seems like you dunno the "game" really well and that players dun ask such questions..
  
  Maybe u shld brushen up ur "playing skills" ya?
• tare

  3 Dec 03, 02:50

  Originally posted by Nata|ie:

  If u're a player... i think u're not a good one. Seems like you dunno the "game" really well and that players dun ask such questions..
  
  Maybe u shld brushen up ur "playing skills" ya?

  if u're a good player, u should be answering the qns rather than diverting to tell others to brush up their "playing skills"....
• Nata|ie

  3 Dec 03, 12:12

  Originally posted by tare:

  if u're a good player, u should be answering the qns rather than diverting to tell others to brush up their "playing skills"....

  Hahhaa I'm not one
• tare

  3 Dec 03, 12:44

  Originally posted by Nata|ie:

  Hahhaa I'm not one

  if tat's so, base on wat grounds did u judge me as a player, be it good or not?
• KittynMeow

  3 Dec 03, 13:38

  hahaha..... seems like there's a miscomm somewhere between nata|ie & tare...
  
  anyway... a real player prob have too many dates on his schedule than to spend time here asking questions like that...
• tare

  3 Dec 03, 13:43

  *piak forehead* alamak natalie is directing to the original post har? aiyoh dun quote me then.. I thot wat.......... *paiseh*
• F.O.S

  3 Dec 03, 13:50

  can anyone explain what is player?
• tare

  3 Dec 03, 13:58

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  can anyone explain what is player?

  one who play?!
• F.O.S

  3 Dec 03, 18:44

  Originally posted by tare:

  one who play?!

  I know but in this topic play what
• sillyme

  3 Dec 03, 18:46

  Originally posted by tare:

  one who play?!

  donch plray plray ah!
• Nata|ie

  4 Dec 03, 23:45

  Originally posted by tare:

  *piak forehead* alamak natalie is directing to the original post har? aiyoh dun quote me then.. I thot wat.......... *paiseh*

  hahhaa.. sorry then?
  
  Anyway.. I think "playing the field" is sooo "out" now.. lolz oopsie.. no offence thou.
• noahark

  7 Dec 03, 13:21

  Girls will be more attracted to guys if they've have confidence, able to carry themselves well and how gentlemanly they are.
• wuming78

  7 Dec 03, 13:25

  play·er ( P ) Pronunciation Key (plr)
  n.
  1. One that plays, especially:
  a. One who participates in a game or sport.
  b. A gambler.
  c. One who performs in theatrical roles.
  d. One who plays a musical instrument.
  2. An active participant: a major player in world affairs.
  3. The mechanism actuating a player piano.
  4. A machine that reproduces recorded audio or audiovisual material
• wuming78

  7 Dec 03, 13:26

  stil wondering wich player they toking abt...
• acidwolf

  9 Dec 03, 21:43

  I don't think he meant ball games.
• boy in blues

  9 Dec 03, 21:53

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  I know but in this topic play what

  play people's feelings.
• Master -_-

  9 Dec 03, 22:02

  i'm a baller
• PhiskerOne

  10 Dec 03, 21:00

  I don't know how players act in Singapore, but usually in Australia if a girls knows you're a player, she tends to ignore you, sure she might flirt with you, but thats all you're going to get. Hence I think that girls generally speaking don't find it attractive.
  But this bad boy thing is a strange phenomenon too, some girls like it some girls don't. When I was younger and use to tag (grafitti) some girls were interested in every aspect of my life and others thought I was immature, I guess it just depends on the girl.