How gal react when she knew someone is going after her?
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How would a gal who belongs to those who EXPECT the guy to take initiative REACT if the guy likes her?
Will she becomes a bit bo chap, act not interested, will out of a sudden not that responsive to guy's calls/SMS to TEST the guy?
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i wanna know too
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too general liao....got alot of types of gals mah...Originally posted by bus:How would a gal who belongs to those who EXPECT the guy to take initiative REACT if the guy likes her?
Will she becomes a bit bo chap, act not interested, will out of a sudden not that responsive to guy's calls/SMS to TEST the guy?
Any comments? -
I seriously have bad impression of girls playing hard to get.
Cant be bothered to entertain them.
Dun be a bitch.
Sg girls think too highly of themselves.
We're only a small fish in a freaking big pond.
To compare to the Thais,Venezuelans and Indians, say even China, sg girls are no where lor.
No offence to the majority of the sg girls on the whole, just dislike who think they're damn pretty kind. Pleazzsseee..... -
then at the first place wat for u go after her? duhz.Originally posted by Insightist:I seriously have bad impression of girls playing hard to get.
Cant be bothered to entertain them.
Dun be a bitch.
Sg girls think too highly of themselves.
We're only a small fish in a freaking big pond.
To compare to the Thais,Venezuelans and Indians, say even China, sg girls are no where lor.
No offence to the majority of the sg girls on the whole, just dislike who think they're damn pretty kind. Pleazzsseee..... -
Dohz....u haf to know them 1st to see thru their colours? u mean like u will know wat's inside a present before opening it?...
It can also be when either being friends with her or knowing the girl through some one else.
N get it...i didnt mention anything about going after a girl who palys hard to get.
I said i do not like.... -
I have a bad impression of girls too but certainly not everyone of them, some of them are good ..Originally posted by Insightist:I seriously have bad impression of girls playing hard to get.
Cant be bothered to entertain them.
Dun be a bitch.
Sg girls think too highly of themselves.
We're only a small fish in a freaking big pond.
To compare to the Thais,Venezuelans and Indians, say even China, sg girls are no where lor.
No offence to the majority of the sg girls on the whole, just dislike who think they're damn pretty kind. Pleazzsseee.....
As u said, "small fish in big pond" or wadever ...
there are many pretty girls outside or inside who are good ...
it's quite unfair to judge by the small amount of them...
So why be bothered with those "pretty" girls u mentioned ? lol
They don't have to be pretty to make ur life better .. they can make ur life bad sometimes, think about it ..
Personality and character comes first ...
Make ur life happy... that's how life should be
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most gals play hard to catch lah... drives men nuts.
but some do it without realizing it...... -
well.. something bad happened to me back then ...Originally posted by bus:How would a gal who belongs to those who EXPECT the guy to take initiative REACT if the guy likes her?
Will she becomes a bit bo chap, act not interested, will out of a sudden not that responsive to guy's calls/SMS to TEST the guy?
Any comments?
I am in love with a girl
For some reason, suddenly many people found out about that and news spread to her and she knew about it, she never talk to me again and one day her friend pass me a letter indicating that the both of us are impossible and she teat me as her good friend .. *pui*, damn it ....
"Did I even say I like her"
So from that day onwards, my impression towards girls is "Friends forever" -
mostly play hard to get......Originally posted by bus:How would a gal who belongs to those who EXPECT the guy to take initiative REACT if the guy likes her?
Will she becomes a bit bo chap, act not interested, will out of a sudden not that responsive to guy's calls/SMS to TEST the guy?
Any comments? -
u just say tt because u couldnt get her right???? cool it pal........its not ur fault nor her faultOriginally posted by Insightist:I seriously have bad impression of girls playing hard to get.
Cant be bothered to entertain them.
Dun be a bitch.
Sg girls think too highly of themselves.
We're only a small fish in a freaking big pond.
To compare to the Thais,Venezuelans and Indians, say even China, sg girls are no where lor.
No offence to the majority of the sg girls on the whole, just dislike who think they're damn pretty kind. Pleazzsseee..... -
Hi, everyone out there. Sorry for posting a "sensitive" topic that remind U all of your SAD past. Sorry for that.
Well, I can only say some gals did not appreciate the chances they had whenever there is "someone" out there caring for them. The Gal will tell him "it is best to remain as friend". When this guy decided to leave her, she will try to savage the situation, some cases it work but for other cases, maybe the guys already had someone else in mind and do u think this guy will give up the one that agreed to go steady with him for the one who say "It is best to remian as friend"?
Gals out there, do think about it. U gals afraid that U meet/commit to the wrong one BUT we guys are also scared that U all wasting our time if U all are taking we guys for a ride. -
well if u wanna play games.. then play it well and dun be a sore loser..
let's just say a girl is out to play hard to get to really screw around with a guy's mind.
then u play with her by giving her the attn she wants and try to get her to fall in love with you, and then dump her ass.
if u can't do it, then u lose, if u can then u win.
notice i said, this is for game players....
if u aren't one, i'm sure u can find PLENTY of others who aren't either. watever suits ur needs gals and guys, no complaints, just winners or losers in a game, like any other. -
It's just a chance that everybody wants ...Originally posted by jOhO:well if u wanna play games.. then play it well and dun be a sore loser..
let's just say a girl is out to play hard to get to really screw around with a guy's mind.
then u play with her by giving her the attn she wants and try to get her to fall in love with you, and then dump her ass.
if u can't do it, then u lose, if u can then u win.
notice i said, this is for game players....
if u aren't one, i'm sure u can find PLENTY of others who aren't either. watever suits ur needs gals and guys, no complaints, just winners or losers in a game, like any other.
I believe nobody would like to play this game forever..
Maybe u are right, try ur best in this game, do the best
Win or lose, who knows ... -
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i think.....that there are many girls that do this. one theory is that they want to check out this guy, see if he's persistant or not. the other type is....well.....just LC larh. so all the best to all u out there that are looking for the right one, coz it's gonna b a long and hard trip as i know this journey too well =).
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can we guys just treat the girls how they treat us? She bo chap then you bo chap lor. She worry liao then you show your concern and tell her lor.
This trick for me work a number of time. -
To NeonTetra,
Well, im not justifying myself by saying that i "cant get the grapes say the grapes sour" cos infact i've seen situations or rather experienced cases where girls play hard to get by hinting to the guys to take the initiative but when the guy makes the move, the girl starts acting all funny like you committed a crime or something. Now that's screwed. I am not sure if that falls under the category of playing hard to get. But it's just that there's this attitude thingy in sg girls that they really think too hihgly of themselves, for those who know who they are. But then again, like others said, it's not all of them. I am just pointing that group. Again, we're under the topic of "How a gal reacts when she knew someone is going after her?", and i'm just giving my honest opinion. -
i love tat.....Originally posted by jOhO:well if u wanna play games.. then play it well and dun be a sore loser..
let's just say a girl is out to play hard to get to really screw around with a guy's mind.
then u play with her by giving her the attn she wants and try to get her to fall in love with you, and then dump her ass.
if u can't do it, then u lose, if u can then u win.
notice i said, this is for game players....
if u aren't one, i'm sure u can find PLENTY of others who aren't either. watever suits ur needs gals and guys, no complaints, just winners or losers in a game, like any other.
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Agree ..Originally posted by Insightist:To NeonTetra,
Well, im not justifying myself by saying that i "cant get the grapes say the grapes sour" cos infact i've seen situations or rather experienced cases where girls play hard to get by hinting to the guys to take the initiative but when the guy makes the move, the girl starts acting all funny like you committed a crime or something. Now that's screwed. I am not sure if that falls under the category of playing hard to get. But it's just that there's this attitude thingy in sg girls that they really think too hihgly of themselves, for those who know who they are. But then again, like others said, it's not all of them. I am just pointing that group. Again, we're under the topic of "How a gal reacts when she knew someone is going after her?", and i'm just giving my honest opinion.
That's why I think being single is the best .. Cheers ....
although u will feel loney and bored, rather then being pulled into this endless game ... -
make friends first then u decide to woo them rite? means while woo-ing them they play hard to get? Then u can simply f*uck the hell off from those girls. Wat abt those guys that fool with girls money, feelings & body. Duhz dun comapre la. Its life either u win or lose. If u lose just get on with life. Do i even have to grumble if the toilet aunty play hard to get when i want toilet paper from her?Originally posted by Insightist:Dohz....u haf to know them 1st to see thru their colours? u mean like u will know wat's inside a present before opening it?...
It can also be when either being friends with her or knowing the girl through some one else.
N get it...i didnt mention anything about going after a girl who palys hard to get.
I said i do not like.... -
Hate girls who play hard to get...
They have the ability to twist guys around with their damn little finger...
Poor guys...
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To bjork,
I feel your usage of harsh and crude words in your arguement is totally uncalled for. Again, playing hard to get usually equates to the girl leading a guy on. How often than not is that true? If a girl is just plain totally not interested, she can not lead the guy on in the first place. If she states it clearly in the first place, and the guy continues in his pursue, and he suffers, i wont blame the girl. It's his own freewill.
However, upon knowing a guy is after her, and she'snot interested, but continues to allow him to woo her for undisclosed reasons, now that's a bit too much. -
save ur comments to urself i dun need them neither do i wan them, much appreciate if u could do tat.Deciding to Woo her a not is ur choice how do u expect her to stop u from liking or chasing after her? Ignore u? if she does ignore u wat will u say again. Dao? I believe its the independent choice of one if they decide to woo someone even if she give u the hints or not. Its still ur choice if she decides to reject ur advances. So dun blame them if they not interested yet allow him to continue the chase. It might be his own willingness. If u know at the first place she aint interested in you. get urself out of the game rather then waiting to be shame.Originally posted by Insightist:To bjork,
I feel your usage of harsh and crude words in your arguement is totally uncalled for. Again, playing hard to get usually equates to the girl leading a guy on. How often than not is that true? If a girl is just plain totally not interested, she can not lead the guy on in the first place. If she states it clearly in the first place, and the guy continues in his pursue, and he suffers, i wont blame the girl. It's his own freewill.
However, upon knowing a guy is after her, and she'snot interested, but continues to allow him to woo her for undisclosed reasons, now that's a bit too much.