Originally posted by hopy:
i wld think otherwise dear...
when 2 person get together, as time goes by, it will lead to marriage, and after tt comes setting up a family (i know tt nowadays tt's not the case already) but then think of this...if u r saying tt girls mind becoz they r not matured enuff...hv it ever occur to u tt women's biological hv to be taken into consideration?
if a guy is younger (as we know, guys tends to mature slower-majority but then again there might be the minority, so its subjective), i dun think they wld be ready to set up a family yet while time is ticking away for the gal...
so how can u say tt girls mind n not women?
hi sweetie...i think you may have misinterpreted my opinion... but i see where you're coming from and i do understand and agree on certain aspects...
i'm not saying that girls are not matured enough (as compared to women) hence they are not willing to accept younger guys. what i'm saying is that when both guys and gals are of younger age, gals would tend to mind if the guy is younger because it is true that guys tend to be less matured compared to them (which means to say i'm acknowledging the same opinion as you feel too).
as for the biological needs of a woman (which would be more pressing as compared to the biological needs of a girl's), my opinion is that the age of the guy doesn't matter as long as he can "perform" and impregnate the woman...
in fact, physiologically, a younger man is more suitable for an older woman.
as for setting up a family, i would feel again that age doesn't matter. realistically speaking, it's the willingness to commit to each other for life that's important. financial stability is very important too in this society.
i see that we adopt different attitudes to the dating and marriage game, hence the different opinions. i won't be thinking so far ahead (marriage and family) when a potential mate comes along hence personally, i do not mind if the person is younger.
thanks for sharing your tots with me hopy sweetie.... so do i still stand a chance?