problematic temptations (some advice would help)

• confusedmoron

  10 Apr 06, 03:13

  sup all... i'm an 18y.o. guy this year... i've got a gf... been together for 2 years already... we haven't done it btw... but i have a problem... like most other guys i'm horny... probably worse than the rest though... (i don't harass girls tho -.-'' )... my gf doesn't wanna do it until shes alot older... naturally out of love for her i don't force her or anything mah... just accept the way things are... still i can't hold back my horniness lor... no matter how hard i try over these few years... ... so i resort to pcc'ing and watching vids alot... ... sometimes i even visualize myself with another girl who is a willing party... then i feel v guilty cos i'm like cheating on my gf already... but i don't wanna leave her just cos of my selfish temptations as i feel deep down inside tt we're meant to be together.. still can't help it... how?
• BrUtUs

  10 Apr 06, 03:20

  respect her decision... dun ever make her feel guilty cos its ur problem... as for u, u managed to survive so long without it, hold on for a few more years is no problem... continue pcc to ur porn lo... but i would recommend u to do more normal activities(travel, hobbies, sports) outside home with her... find something else to do la... treasure this gal...
• BrUtUs

  10 Apr 06, 03:21

  but how far hv u progress if any?
• alexkusu

  10 Apr 06, 03:22

  A gf once told her bf: 'I allow u to get sex frm other gals'.
  
  Is your gf that understandin? If not, then patience lor
• confusedmoron

  10 Apr 06, 03:28

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  A gf once told her bf: 'I allow u to get sex frm other gals'.
  
  Is your gf that understandin? If not, then patience lor

  -.- i wanna stay clean for her... don't wan't any risks tt will take 15 years off my life just for one night...
• alexkusu

  10 Apr 06, 03:31

  Originally posted by confusedmoron:

  -.- i wanna stay clean for her... don't wan't any risks tt will take 15 years off my life just for one night...

  how does releasin sexual tension takes 15years off ur life?
• confusedmoron

  10 Apr 06, 03:34

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  respect her decision... dun ever make her feel guilty cos its ur problem... as for u, u managed to survive so long without it, hold on for a few more years is no problem... continue pcc to ur porn lo... but i would recommend u to do more normal activities(travel, hobbies, sports) outside home with her... find something else to do la... treasure this gal... but how far hv u progress if any?

  erm... its not make her feel guilty... she doesn't know this lah... don't wanna hurt her... its i feel guilty that in my mind i cheat on her sometimes... and i'm very active atheletically... erm... into petting ba... quite heavy but we r v careful... won't go further into details... thanks for ur advice anyway...
• confusedmoron

  10 Apr 06, 03:39

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  how does releasin sexual tension takes 15years off ur life?

  heard of aids? sorry phrased wrongly... have 15 more years left to live... u do know right... it takes 15 years for HIV to develop into full blown aids... by then... gone case le... ... not worth it... anyway seeking sexual satisfaction from other girls when ur in a relationship is no different than cheating on your wife when you r married n u go shooting your load around in geylang...
• FBI

  10 Apr 06, 07:40

  Originally posted by confusedmoron:

  sup all... i'm an 18y.o. guy this year... i've got a gf... been together for 2 years already... we haven't done it btw... but i have a problem... like most other guys i'm horny... probably worse than the rest though... (i don't harass girls tho -.-'' )... my gf doesn't wanna do it until shes alot older... naturally out of love for her i don't force her or anything mah... just accept the way things are... still i can't hold back my horniness lor... no matter how hard i try over these few years... ... so i resort to pcc'ing and watching vids alot... ... sometimes i even visualize myself with another girl who is a willing party... then i feel v guilty cos i'm like cheating on my gf already... but i don't wanna leave her just cos of my selfish temptations as i feel deep down inside tt we're meant to be together.. still can't help it... how?

  don do lo, pcc is better also at least u restrain yourself.
  
  I tell u when u done it once, u will always want to do it again!
• valerieee

  10 Apr 06, 10:31

  give her some time.she is still not prepared.but if really one day u cant take it anymore,dun ever force her or u might see urself single.
• lonestar86

  10 Apr 06, 12:31

  confusedmoron, sex is not the only thing in a relationship..
  there r still many other meaningful things which u guys can do together..
  relax man.. jus try not to think abt it and u'll be fine..
  trust me..
• ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú

  10 Apr 06, 19:10

  I don't blame you for feeling that way as its a very natural thing for boys, and perhaps you havbe a high-sex drive,
  
  i would advise that you would keep yourselve busy for example help up in the cleaning of your house? just try not to think about sex-related stuff.
  
  If one day you are too much, try explaining to your galfriend, i am sure she will be understand, but ithere no excuse to use after all its about your self-control.
  
  *cheers*
• Ito_^

  10 Apr 06, 19:37

  need date drugs?
• xavier1979

  10 Apr 06, 23:50

  High sex drive isn't your fault, so no need to feel guilty about it.
  
  If PCC helps you to relieve the sexual tension, so be it. But I'm pretty sure there are some matters in life interestingly enough to distract you from your horny thoughts.
  
• confusedmoron

  11 Apr 06, 03:08

  Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:

  I don't blame you for feeling that way as its a very natural thing for boys, and perhaps you havbe a high-sex drive,
  
  i would advise that you would keep yourselve busy for example help up in the cleaning of your house? just try not to think about sex-related stuff.
  
  If one day you are too much, try explaining to your galfriend, i am sure she will be understand, but ithere no excuse to use after all its about your self-control.
  
  *cheers*

  ok thanks..
• SixSentinels

  11 Apr 06, 18:35

  Originally posted by confusedmoron:

  sup all... i'm an 18y.o. guy this year... i've got a gf... been together for 2 years already... we haven't done it btw... but i have a problem... like most other guys i'm horny... probably worse than the rest though... (i don't harass girls tho -.-'' )... my gf doesn't wanna do it until shes alot older... naturally out of love for her i don't force her or anything mah... just accept the way things are... still i can't hold back my horniness lor... no matter how hard i try over these few years... ... so i resort to pcc'ing and watching vids alot... ... sometimes i even visualize myself with another girl who is a willing party... then i feel v guilty cos i'm like cheating on my gf already... but i don't wanna leave her just cos of my selfish temptations as i feel deep down inside tt we're meant to be together.. still can't help it... how?

  i know u dont love ur gf alot. if u love her alot you'll think of her and masturbate or look at her photos and pcc or u can imagine u 2 having sex then u masturbate to that...but u dumb dumb go imagine of other girls hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaahhh
• lonestar86

  13 Apr 06, 00:18

  Originally posted by SixSentinels:

  i know u dont love ur gf alot. if u love her alot you'll think of her and masturbate or look at her photos and pcc or u can imagine u 2 having sex then u masturbate to that...but u dumb dumb go imagine of other girls hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaahhh

  IÂ’ve to disagree with this. In my opinion, if a guy loves a gal, heÂ’ll not think of her when masturbating. On the other hand, heÂ’ll think of some other gals which is exactly what confusedmoron has done. I think he has done the right thing. When IÂ’m masturbating, I never ever think of the gal who I like. I always think of some other hot, sexy and voluptuous gals who IÂ’ve seen on the street. Hahaz..
• olala

  13 Apr 06, 00:31

  guess ur over 18?
  go speed!adrenalin rush sure to occupy u...BELIEVE mE!
• pwnz0r

  18 Apr 06, 13:24

  It's very normal to pcc while fantasizing of other girls. Just make sure its not your mom you're thinking of, you sick bastard (like that ol friends episode).
• lonestar86

  18 Apr 06, 13:51

  Originally posted by pwnz0r:

  It's very normal to pcc while fantasizing of other girls. Just make sure its not your mom you're thinking of, you sick bastard (like that ol friends episode).

  u gonna be kidding.. how would anyone think of his mum when pcc??
• equlus84

  19 Apr 06, 14:44

  Eat cornflakes lor, and do lotsa of workout.
  
  eh.......no kidding man. I seena documentory b4 that say that the kelloggs cornflake was produced as a product not onli to fill ur stomach in the morning, but also something to suppress ur sexual urges.
• alexkusu

  19 Apr 06, 14:47

  i think...she will succumb to your horniness
• ah_cleo

  19 Apr 06, 19:48

  jus respect her like wad u are doing now lo.. and dun pcc so much la.. later leg wobbly.. pcc too much can become hobby and net time when u reali do it, shoot out very fast den both party cant enjoy the real pleasure of sex.. control is the key.. use the time to go gym la.. tone up den can also protect ur gf.. if ppl wan do something to do, see u big size already scare half liao..
• n4rcosis

  20 May 06, 13:53

  problem...?
  
  what problem?
  
  now i have a problem after reading the post, what is pcc? or was it ppc? javascript:emoticon('')
  Question
  
  someone enlighten me please....
• Dinosaure16

  20 May 06, 16:31

  wad's ppc pcc is pa chiu cheng means musterbate lo