Friends quarrel over Gals!? So TRUE!!
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I really wanna share my personal experience with all of u guys. Cus I dun want any of u here to make the same stupid mistake as me.
IÂ’ve approached this gal during my Final Yr Proj as IÂ’ve mention in Approaching a gal 2. Then 2 of my frenz (so called my bro!!) get to know her thr me. In another words, without me, these 2 frenz of mine will never ever get to know her. In the first place, IÂ’m the one who approach her but rite now, these two frenz of mine seems to be much closer to her. Hey!! By rite, IÂ’m supposed to be closer to the gal cus IÂ’m the only 1 who dare to approach her in the first place. I actually have the courage to approach her but these 2 frenz of mine dun dare to. IÂ’ve broken the ice but rite now they seems to be eating it a lot more than me. So what do they treat me as? A tool? The tool which they used to break the ice then after tt they throw it away. I feel like IÂ’m being used! IÂ’m so furious and disappointed.
I feel tt IÂ’ve being transformed from a hero to zero.
Once, they went out with the gal without telling me. IÂ’m not aware of it until 1 of my frenz told me. I immediately confront them but they seem to be avoiding my questions cus they kept changing the subject. I think they are hiding things from me. No doubt abt tt. As a result, we quarreled over this issue. We actually quarrel over a gal!? I canÂ’t believe it. U readers might think tt IÂ’m petty but u r not in my shoe and u can never understand who I feel. After the quarrel, our friendship can never be the same as b4.
Moral of my story:
If you just get to know some gals, esp those pretty ones, keep them to urself. Dun intro them to ur frenz. U might think tt I’m selfish. Yes, I’m selfish. In fact, each and every single one of us is selfish. Tt’s called, “Every man for himself”. Agree? Hai~ After telling u guys all these, I feel much better now..
Comment anyone?? -
i'm sure some of u guys encountered the similar experience as me rite??
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this is ur last change...
tell her everything u feel abt her...
if not u will regret...
got her number or dont have just dont care liou...
just do it... -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
The thing is, i don mind letting my friends have the gals be in pretty gals or not.
[b]I really wanna share my personal experience with all of u guys. Cus I dun want any of u here to make the same stupid mistake as me.
IÂ’ve approached this gal during my Final Yr Proj as IÂ’ve mention in Approaching a gal 2. Then 2 of my frenz (so called my bro!!) get to know her thr me. In another words, without me, these 2 frenz of mine will never ever get to know her. In the first place, IÂ’m the one who approach her but rite now, these two frenz of mine seems to be much closer to her. Hey!! By rite, IÂ’m supposed to be closer to the gal cus IÂ’m the only 1 who dare to approach her in the first place. I actually have the courage to approach her but these 2 frenz of mine dun dare to. IÂ’ve broken the ice but rite now they seems to be eating it a lot more than me. So what do they treat me as? A tool? The tool which they used to break the ice then after tt they throw it away. I feel like IÂ’m being used! IÂ’m so furious and disappointed. I feel tt IÂ’ve being transformed from a hero to zero.
Once, they went out with the gal without telling me. IÂ’m not aware of it until 1 of my frenz told me. I immediately confront them but they seem to be avoiding my questions cus they kept changing the subject. I think they are hiding things from me. No doubt abt tt. As a result, we quarreled over this issue. We actually quarrel over a gal!? I canÂ’t believe it. U readers might think tt IÂ’m petty but u r not in my shoe and u can never understand who I feel. After the quarrel, our friendship can never be the same as b4.
Moral of my story:
If you just get to know some gals, esp those pretty ones, keep them to urself. Dun intro them to ur frenz. U might think tt I’m selfish. Yes, I’m selfish. In fact, each and every single one of us is selfish. Tt’s called, “Every man for himself”. Agree? Hai~ After telling u guys all these, I feel much better now..
Comment anyone??[/b]
That's because they are my friends.
Frm wat i can see in your case, those are not your friends.
pls abandon them -
Is it really tt serious??Originally posted by FBI:The thing is, i don mind letting my friends have the gals be in pretty gals or not.
That's because they are my friends.
Frm wat i can see in your case, those are not your friends.
pls abandon them
I mean is our 3 yrs of friendship really tt fragile??
So fragile tt i must break off all ties with them b'cus of a woman!?
I know u guys might be thinking tt y am i making such a big fuss over this issue.
The truth is, man quarrel over 2 things:
1) Money
2) Woman
It's true! So damn true!!
Even blood related brothers turn against one another when comes to woman.
I used to think tt woman will never be the cause of conflicts among my frenz and i. But I was so wrong!!
Keep this in mind, "every man for himself"
Btw, i'm 20 yr old. FBI, how old r u?? -
how bout this.... gal prefer ur friends over you? friends more attractive to the gal than you?
A friend told me once: "Never fight with a friend over a girl. The girl will leave you one day, but friends will always be with you"
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I'm not sure abt this..Originally posted by alexkusu:how bout this.... gal prefer ur friends over you? friends more attractive to the gal than you?
A friend told me once: "Never fight with a friend over a girl. The girl will leave you one day, but friends will always be with you"
But she seems to be very friendly with every guy..
She treats every one of us the same..
Btw, she's attached and the 2 frenz of mine are attached too.. -
I have to agree on this..Originally posted by alexkusu:A friend told me once: "Never fight with a friend over a girl. The girl will leave you one day, but friends will always be with you"
but sad to say, the fact is, many of us are fighting over gals..
although we know tt it's really foolish to fight over woman, we are still doing it..
i think it's human nature..
the ugly side of our nature..
Hai~~ -
my workplace guys share the girls one leh
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i dun get what u mean..Originally posted by kopiosatu:my workplace guys share the girls one leh -
its alright, u don't have to get it.Originally posted by lonestar86:i dun get what u mean.. -
happen before..
i just listen n walk away. -
Enjoy it while you can, you only get to be in poly once....
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I had a similar unfortunate experience once.
Good friend misunderstood that I was wooing the same girl that he was interested in. In the end, we went thru' a 'Cold War' period. Sigh.
And the girl became attached to another guy. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
i am 16 going on 17.
Is it really tt serious??
I mean is our 3 yrs of friendship really tt fragile??
So fragile tt i must break off all ties with them b'cus of a woman!?
I know u guys might be thinking tt y am i making such a big fuss over this issue.
[b]The truth is, man quarrel over 2 things:
1) Money
2) Woman
It's true! So damn true!!
Even blood related brothers turn against one another when comes to woman.
I used to think tt woman will never be the cause of conflicts among my frenz and i. But I was so wrong!!
Keep this in mind, "every man for himself"
Btw, i'm 20 yr old. FBI, how old r u??[/b]
Yes it really can b that fragile.
ONe really have to step out, either u or your friend. If not a big major war will really occur.
I am not saying u must break off tie with them but the thing is when they date the gal out they didn't ask u out too?
So wat does that means? IF they are really your true friends they will ask u out too if it was a fair competition.
But wat they had done purely shows that how selfish they are
So y do u need such friends?
Really man..
It's abit sad then only now then u know their true colors -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
i tell u man.
[b]I really wanna share my personal experience with all of u guys. Cus I dun want any of u here to make the same stupid mistake as me.
IÂ’ve approached this gal during my Final Yr Proj as IÂ’ve mention in Approaching a gal 2. Then 2 of my frenz (so called my bro!!) get to know her thr me. In another words, without me, these 2 frenz of mine will never ever get to know her. In the first place, IÂ’m the one who approach her but rite now, these two frenz of mine seems to be much closer to her. Hey!! By rite, IÂ’m supposed to be closer to the gal cus IÂ’m the only 1 who dare to approach her in the first place. I actually have the courage to approach her but these 2 frenz of mine dun dare to. IÂ’ve broken the ice but rite now they seems to be eating it a lot more than me. So what do they treat me as? A tool? The tool which they used to break the ice then after tt they throw it away. I feel like IÂ’m being used! IÂ’m so furious and disappointed. I feel tt IÂ’ve being transformed from a hero to zero.
Once, they went out with the gal without telling me. IÂ’m not aware of it until 1 of my frenz told me. I immediately confront them but they seem to be avoiding my questions cus they kept changing the subject. I think they are hiding things from me. No doubt abt tt. As a result, we quarreled over this issue. We actually quarrel over a gal!? I canÂ’t believe it. U readers might think tt IÂ’m petty but u r not in my shoe and u can never understand who I feel. After the quarrel, our friendship can never be the same as b4.
Moral of my story:
If you just get to know some gals, esp those pretty ones, keep them to urself. Dun intro them to ur frenz. U might think tt I’m selfish. Yes, I’m selfish. In fact, each and every single one of us is selfish. Tt’s called, “Every man for himself”. Agree? Hai~ After telling u guys all these, I feel much better now..
Comment anyone??[/b]
I actually like this gal for more then a year and this friend (3 years friend) he knew abt it.
THen after some time this gal break off with her guy and then i proceed with my wooing. NOte this is the 2nd time i am wooing.
SO after a few days i told my friend i want to woo her, he suddenly told me he wants to woo her too.
SO we agreed to have a fair competition.
adter some months of wooing, i can say i am v close to winning due to some factors.
But in the end she choose none!
THe reason i believe is because she don wish me and my friend to get hurt during this season. If she choose either one then either of us will b hurt.
At the same time she has nth to lose 2 if she choose none.
Thing is i don get it, why must my friend compete with me when i already told him that i like her?
And a guy like him who don really treasure realtionship, i don think he is worth it.
So this guy kinda spoil it be it intentionally or not. -
I think it was intentional. He probably wanted some fun.Originally posted by FBI:i tell u man.
I actually like this gal for more then a year and this friend (3 years friend) he knew abt it.
THen after some time this gal break off with her guy and then i proceed with my wooing. NOte this is the 2nd time i am wooing.
SO after a few days i told my friend i want to woo her, he suddenly told me he wants to woo her too.
SO we agreed to have a fair competition.
adter some months of wooing, i can say i am v close to winning due to some factors.
But in the end she choose none!
THe reason i believe is because she don wish me and my friend to get hurt during this season. If she choose either one then either of us will b hurt.
At the same time she has nth to lose 2 if she choose none.
Thing is i don get it, why must my friend compete with me when i already told him that i like her?
And a guy like him who don really treasure realtionship, i don think he is worth it.
So this guy kinda spoil it be it intentionally or not. -
yeah that FUking jerk..Originally posted by shade343:I think it was intentional. He probably wanted some fun. -
Next time if you have nothing to do, you go do the same thing lor.Originally posted by FBI:yeah that FUking jerk.. -
no la i not that evil haha. If i know i will not fight with my friendsOriginally posted by shade343:Next time if you have nothing to do, you go do the same thing lor. -
I can understand how u feel..Originally posted by xavier1979:I had a similar unfortunate experience once.
Good friend misunderstood that I was wooing the same girl that he was interested in. In the end, we went thru' a 'Cold War' period. Sigh.
And the girl became attached to another guy.
Cus when woman is being involved, our gd frenz might become our foe..
Although thereÂ’s peace after the 'Cold War' period, deep inside us, we know tt our friendship is no longer the same as b4..
I can forgive, but I doubt I can forget..
Hai~ -
ItÂ’s like tt..Originally posted by FBI:yeah that FUking jerk..
Cus like what IÂ’ve mentioned..
When woman is being involved, our gd friends might become our foes..
IÂ’m really sad to say tt..
Hai~ -
ThereÂ’s no such thing as fair competition..Originally posted by FBI:
SO after a few days i told my friend i want to woo her, he suddenly told me he wants to woo her too.
SO we agreed to have a fair competition.
In this world, everything is unfair..
TtÂ’s y u gonna be fierce..
Ask the gal out b4 ur frenz does..
And if u have made a decision like wanting to woo the gal, keep it to urself..
Dun tell anyone esp ur gd frenz..
Remember, “Every man for himself”. Keep this in mind.. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
i don want woo gals liao la.. forget it la, b gay la.
[b]ThereÂ’s no such thing as fair competition..
In this world, everything is unfair..
TtÂ’s y u gonna be fierce..
Ask the gal out b4 ur frenz does..
And if u have made a decision like wanting to woo the gal, keep it to urself..
Dun tell anyone esp ur gd frenz..
Remember, “Every man for himself”. Keep this in mind..[/b] -
FBI i support u. now u know women is nothing but trouble. one year ago i discover my gf is nothing but problem i decided to break off and find comfort in guy.