I just dated some girl yesterday, it was awesome... Sometimes it wasn't that the guys wouldn't do what it takes to be a gentleman, it is totally unfair to pin all the blames on the guys alone. You need to look at the big picture you know. Let me say for example, yesterday we went to this resturant, and I pulled a chair out for the lady, and she sits on it and I push the chair in for her. Nice. But yesterday is the only single time in all my dates throughout my life, that the girl knows what I was doing. Most of the ladies, they normally ignore the gesture and pick their own seat, and guess who looks like the clown holding the damn chair? Another example ok, most of the dates I would be paying for everything, but the girls don't realize sometimes guys can be broke too and splitting the bill would be a nice gesture on their part. But they just expect the guys to pay for everything you know, and they expect to be driven home like a princess, come on, the guys worked really hard for their money too you know. Alright, forget about the money issue, I am willing to pay for everything because I don't always belong to the category of "broke" guys, but occassionally when my business ain't doing well, I go broke, it's a fact. So, I paid for everything, at the end of the date, what did the girl do? They go home unsatisfied because you did not send them home. They don't thank you for the dinner or movies, say if you did watch any movies. They don't give a damn, no appreciation, nothing, they expected everything to be done to perfection, anything less means you're not a gentleman. But anyway, I know there will always be someone different, someone special, and yesterday was a very special date for me because of the personality of my date. I did pay for all the stuff, but I did not send her home, I did however walk her to the train station. I was so shocked when she thanked and show a hug of appreciation. I was totally dumb folded because up till yesterday, no girl I have brought out actually show any appreciation. So sometimes, it wasn't just the guys ok? Girls need to play a part too.
