Approaching a gal II
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Gd luck!Originally posted by lonestar86:icic.. thanks for ur advice..
btw, 2day is 14 Feb..
Happy Valentine's Day..!! (also my B'day..)
Anyway, jus now she gave me something sia.. Totally unexpected..!!
some choco wrapped in nice light pink n blue wrapper..
so sweet.. Hahaz..
Left only 3 and a half wks to go b4 my proj ends..
i need to work harder to know her better..
hopefully, manage to get her mobile no b4 the end of the proj..
Wish me gd luck..
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luck
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Hey, u so courageous and hardworking, i'm sure u'll have ur rewards soon.
Even if these 2 doesn't work out (touch wood), i'm sure u would have learn something from these experience, and next time u can approach even more girls, and u will eventually get one that u like a lot! -
Thanks. I appreciate it.Originally posted by hongchang:Hey, u so courageous and hardworking, i'm sure u'll have ur rewards soon.
Even if these 2 doesn't work out (touch wood), i'm sure u would have learn something from these experience, and next time u can approach even more girls, and u will eventually get one that u like a lot!
Yes, hongchang, u r right. Treat every approach as a learning journey.
I must say IÂ’ve learned a lot from these experiences.
Currently, IÂ’m single and I hope my dream gal will come along.
Gonna be optimistic about life.
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In the meantime, enjoy the freedom you have as a single lah.Originally posted by lonestar86:Thanks. I appreciate it.
Yes, hongchang, u r right. Treat every approach as a learning journey.
I must say IÂ’ve learned a lot from these experiences.
Currently, IÂ’m single and I hope my dream gal will come along.
Gonna be optimistic about life.
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Jus wanna update my progress with the 2nd gal..
Hmm.. I must say we r getting closer..
Till now, weÂ’ve chatted everyday..
2 more wks to go b4 our proj end.. -
seems lik pple is fallin...
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Hmm... Project dateline needn't be your love DEADline. Can still keep in touch.Originally posted by lonestar86:Jus wanna update my progress with the 2nd gal..
Hmm.. I must say we r getting closer..
Till now, weÂ’ve chatted everyday..
2 more wks to go b4 our proj end..
Just to share: I read somewhere that there are 5 levels of communication in relationships:
Level 1 = Speech courtesy only, i.e. "Hello", "Good-bye"
Level 2 = Work-related, i.e. "Do you know how to do this?"
Level 3 = Objective opinions, i.e. "I think he should..."
Level 4 = Sharing at a sentimental level, i.e. "Feel so sad today..."
Level 5 = Intimate secrets (things you wouldn't share otherwise)
For your reference. Gd luck! -
xavier1979, thanks for ur info. I really appreciate it..Originally posted by xavier1979:Hmm... Project dateline needn't be your love DEADline. Can still keep in touch.
Just to share: I read somewhere that there are 5 levels of communication in relationships:
Level 1 = Speech courtesy only, i.e. "Hello", "Good-bye"
Level 2 = Work-related, i.e. "Do you know how to do this?"
Level 3 = Objective opinions, i.e. "I think he should..."
Level 4 = Sharing at a sentimental level, i.e. "Feel so sad today..."
Level 5 = Intimate secrets (things you wouldn't share otherwise)
For your reference. Gd luck!
According to xavier1979Â’s info, I think we (the 2nd gal and me) are at lvl 5.
Cus yest we were talking abt a particular topic which suddenly bring back lots of her past memories and she started to talk abt it. She said tt those memories r actually meant to be a secret cus not many ppl know abt it. Even her current bf (sheÂ’s attached!! Sob~
) didnÂ’t know it and I believe she doesnÂ’t want him to know it. Anyway, she has told me a lot of her past. In addition, she also said tt IÂ’m the only one who she has told abt her past in the entire Final Yr Proj batch of students. I cannot be 100% sure abt what she has told me is true but thereÂ’s 1 thing IÂ’m really sure of it tt, I trust her. IÂ’m also glad tt she actually trust me. Last but not least, the Final Yr Proj is ending soon in less than 2 wkÂ’s time. IÂ’m going to miss her. Once again, I think IÂ’m going to ask her for her mobile no when the time is right. Hope IÂ’ll success.. -
Qian Men Men Gui #15 : Always know her base before plotting.
Must always know if she is attached anot...dats the most impt piece of intel u want to know discreetly ASAP -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
oh no...i tink she is now treating you like one of her girl frens instead...the type she goes to when she has problems...too comfortable for your own good oledi...
xavier1979, thanks for ur info. I really appreciate it..
According to xavier1979’s info, I think we (the 2nd gal and me) are at lvl 5.
Cus yest we were talking abt a particular topic which suddenly bring back lots of her past memories and she started to talk abt it. She said tt those memories r actually meant to be a secret cus not many ppl know abt it. Even her current bf (she’s attached!! Sob~ ) didn’t know it and I believe she doesn’t want him to know it. Anyway, she has told me a lot of her past. In addition, she also said tt I’m the only one who she has told abt her past in the entire Final Yr Proj batch of students. I cannot be 100% sure abt what she has told me is true but there’s 1 thing I’m really sure of it tt, [b]I trust her. I’m also glad tt she actually trust me. Last but not least, the Final Yr Proj is ending soon in less than 2 wk’s time. I’m going to miss her. Once again, I think I’m going to ask her for her mobile no when the time is right. Hope I’ll success..
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
What if she is shy?
1) Eye contact
If you get to see her everyday (ttÂ’s my case), make sure thereÂ’s eye contact between and her whenever u guys met. If she doesnÂ’t wanna look at u, u can 4get about approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she always make eye contact with u, itÂ’s good for u. Cus it means tt she has noticed u and ttÂ’s a good sign. -
if she's shy, then u must be daring..Originally posted by askxyz:What if she is shy?
cus if u r shy too, nothing will work out for the both of u.. -
Originally posted by rainee:oh no...i tink she is now treating you like one of her girl frens instead...the type she goes to when she has problems...too comfortable for your own good oledi...
So it tt gd or bad?? -
of cos bad lah...majiam u go fishing, wasted a tonne to lures, hten all u fished up is a bootOriginally posted by lonestar86: So it tt gd or bad??
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it is not good...for girls basically they separate guys into two categories...potential bfs or those that can just be frens to them...so if you are too nice to her until she comes running to u for her problems, then I think she only treats you as a fren...esp when she is attached already.Originally posted by lonestar86: So it tt gd or bad?? -
Oh no..Originally posted by chunyong:of cos bad lah...majiam u go fishing, wasted a tonne to lures, hten all u fished up is a boot 
then what am i supposed to do?? -
yah, there are 2 classes. One is Knight in Silver Armour and the other is White Horse Knight. For the 1st one, u are expected to fend her and solve her problems. The latter is expected to take her where she want to go and have all the fun with her. The 1st one while always will be by her side but will enver have the chance to ride the horse with her, not unless until the Horse Knight is gone.Originally posted by rainee:it is not good...for girls basically they separate guys into two categories...potential bfs or those that can just be frens to them...so if you are too nice to her until she comes running to u for her problems, then I think she only treats you as a fren...esp when she is attached already.
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1) Stop fishing, u can always go else where to fishOriginally posted by lonestar86:Oh no..
then what am i supposed to do??
2) Treasure the boot u fished up. Its yours already -
hmm.. then i think it's better to be jus frenz ba..Originally posted by rainee:it is not good...for girls basically they separate guys into two categories...potential bfs or those that can just be frens to them...so if you are too nice to her until she comes running to u for her problems, then I think she only treats you as a fren...esp when she is attached already.
tt might be gd for the both of us..
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well, u can always keep contact and maybe wait until the Horse Knight is gone then u can jump up the White horse and hopefully remain on until the end.Originally posted by lonestar86:hmm.. then i think it's better to be jus frenz ba..
tt might be gd for the both of us.. -
Hai~ i doubt i'll do tt..Originally posted by chunyong:well, u can always keep contact and maybe wait until the Horse Knight is gone then u can jump up the White horse and hopefully remain on until the end.
cus i dun wanna be consider as the 3rd party..
anyway, wanna thank u guys for giving ur comments..
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Wahaha... I agree!Originally posted by chunyong:Qian Men Men Gui #15 : Always know her base before plotting.
Must always know if she is attached anot...dats the most impt piece of intel u want to know discreetly ASAP
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IÂ’ve chosen option 2, ttÂ’s treasure the boot IÂ’ve fished up. I wanna treasure and cherish the friendship between her and me. I dun expect too much, jus wanna be her gd friend..Originally posted by chunyong:1) Stop fishing, u can always go else where to fish
2) Treasure the boot u fished up. Its yours already -
Finally, IÂ’ve got her mobile number after chatting for 1 whole month!
She doesnÂ’t trust guy easily, ttÂ’s y I was kena rejected when I ask her the 1st time..
Proj ending in 1 wkÂ’s time..