Approaching a gal II
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I just wanna share my personal experience with u guys.
IÂ’m a poly student, currently doing my final yr project. IÂ’ve to be in sch everyday from 8.30am to 6pm for 12wks. Being a guy, of cus IÂ’ve taken note of some of the babes and I get to see them everyday. IÂ’ve approached 2 of them and managed to get their msn. Like many of you have said in forum topic: Approaching a gal, dun straight away ask for their mobile no, cus mobile no is kinda more personal. Get their msn and chat with them 1st. Remember, u gonna have patience if u wanna know gals. When the time is right, then ask her for her mobile no. ThatÂ’s the strategy. It works for me. Cus IÂ’ve got the 1st galÂ’s mobile no after chatting with her for abt 2 wks. Regarding the 2nd gal, IÂ’ve just got her msn a few days ago. IÂ’ll ask her for her mobile no when the time is right. U guys might wanna try my method.
However, b4 u approach them, thereÂ’s 2 very important points to take note:
1) Eye contact
If you get to see her everyday (ttÂ’s my case), make sure thereÂ’s eye contact between and her whenever u guys met. If she doesnÂ’t wanna look at u, u can 4get about approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she always make eye contact with u, itÂ’s good for u. Cus it means tt she has noticed u and ttÂ’s a good sign.
2) Smile
You gonna take the initiative to smile to her. If she returns her smile, then congrats and u might wanna approach her. However, if u smile to her, but she ignores u, then too bad, u can forget abt approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she smile to u even b4 u smile to her, u r in luck! Go ahead and approach her immediately. Cus uÂ’ll success. Trust me.
Last but not least, I wanna thank all of u guys for ur suggestions posted in the previous forum topic: Approaching a gal. IÂ’ve took many of ur advice b4 I approach the gals. Thanks guys.
Finally, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:
You must try. Cus if u dun try, uÂ’ll never know what u can achieve.
Good luck and all the best..
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cough cough cough..
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by having eye contacts and smile back at u doesn't mean she's interested.
she could be friendly only wor.
unless there's other reasons, if not, it's rude not to have eye contact with someone when talking to him/her leh. -
Finally, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:
Well the approach is meant to impress and in a way get to break the ice thats all not too much, not too little.Jus like yin and yang balance.
You must try. Cus if u dun try, uÂ’ll never know what u can achieve.
Good luck and all the best.. Smile
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It's worth a try, the kid did it.Originally posted by browniebaobao:by having eye contacts and smile back at u doesn't mean she's interested.
she could be friendly only wor.
unless there's other reasons, if not, it's rude not to have eye contact with someone when talking to him/her leh.
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Bravo.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
i tried all your methods but will not work....because i look like
I just wanna share my personal experience with u guys.
IÂ’m a poly student, currently doing my final yr project. IÂ’ve to be in sch everyday from 8.30am to 6pm for 12wks. Being a guy, of cus IÂ’ve taken note of some of the babes and I get to see them everyday. IÂ’ve approached 2 of them and managed to get their msn. Like many of you have said in forum topic: Approaching a gal, dun straight away ask for their mobile no, cus mobile no is kinda more personal. Get their msn and chat with them 1st. Remember, u gonna have [b]patience if u wanna know gals. When the time is right, then ask her for her mobile no. ThatÂ’s the strategy. It works for me. Cus IÂ’ve got the 1st galÂ’s mobile no after chatting with her for abt 2 wks. Regarding the 2nd gal, IÂ’ve just got her msn a few days ago. IÂ’ll ask her for her mobile no when the time is right. U guys might wanna try my method.
However, b4 u approach them, thereÂ’s 2 very important points to take note:
1) Eye contact
If you get to see her everyday (ttÂ’s my case), make sure thereÂ’s eye contact between and her whenever u guys met. If she doesnÂ’t wanna look at u, u can 4get about approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she always make eye contact with u, itÂ’s good for u. Cus it means tt she has noticed u and ttÂ’s a good sign.
2) Smile
You gonna take the initiative to smile to her. If she returns her smile, then congrats and u might wanna approach her. However, if u smile to her, but she ignores u, then too bad, u can forget abt approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she smile to u even b4 u smile to her, u r in luck! Go ahead and approach her immediately. Cus uÂ’ll success. Trust me.
Last but not least, I wanna thank all of u guys for ur suggestions posted in the previous forum topic: Approaching a gal. IÂ’ve took many of ur advice b4 I approach the gals. Thanks guys.
Finally, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:
You must try. Cus if u dun try, uÂ’ll never know what u can achieve.
Good luck and all the best.. [/b]
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i'm not very gd looking also, but i've succeed mah.
Jus keep on trying, never give up.. -
You sound more like a playboy than anything else.
1st girl.
Then 2nd girl.
Knn, how many girls you want?
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Frickin inspirational
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You sound more like a playboy than anything else.
No mah. I'm not a playboy
1st girl.
Then 2nd girl.
Knn, how many girls you want?
Knowing them doesn't mean i wanna date them rite??
I've no ill intention whatsoever.
Just wanna befriend with them.
As simple as that.
IÂ’m enlisting soon, ttÂ’s y I wanna know more pretty gals b4 goin into the army mah.
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CB, now want to sian me some more.Originally posted by lonestar86:No mah. I'm not a playboy
Knowing them doesn't mean i wanna date them rite??
I've no ill intention whatsoever.
Just wanna befriend with them.
As simple as that.
IÂ’m enlisting soon, ttÂ’s y I wanna know more pretty gals b4 goin into the army mah.
May i know how old r u?? -
lets him go sian u lar. he's thinking you're a gal.Originally posted by charlize:CB, now want to sian me some more. -
lmaoOriginally posted by S_T_F_U:lets him go sian u lar. he's thinking you're a gal. -
CB, now want to sian me some more.
i'm not trying to sian u..
jus wanna know ur age..
y can't u just tell me ur age?? -
i'm not trying to sian u..Originally posted by charlize:CB, now want to sian me some more.
jus wanna know ur age..
y can't u just tell me ur age?? -
sum ppl are secretive about their ages. dun kpo go ask ley.Originally posted by lonestar86:i'm not trying to sian u..
jus wanna know ur age..
y can't u just tell me ur age?? -
yah lor...sometimes when guys smile at me i smile back oso, cos my face already quite 'dao' look liao. but doesn't mean i'm interested in them oso.Originally posted by browniebaobao:by having eye contacts and smile back at u doesn't mean she's interested.
she could be friendly only wor.
unless there's other reasons, if not, it's rude not to have eye contact with someone when talking to him/her leh.
ANd when guys keep lookin at you..sometimes will ' gin' back..does tat mean i am interested too? -
Things doesnÂ’t always turn out to be the way I want them to be..
Rem the 2nd gal last time I was talking abt..
IÂ’ve been chatting with her in msn for the past 1 wk n I must say we can get along very well..
We chat abt anything n everything under the sun..
This afternoon, I asked her for her mobile no..
But I didnÂ’t managed to get it..
+ 
She replied something like, “…not very convenient… we keep in touch thr msn ok?”
Then I answered yes..
What exactly went wrong??
IÂ’ve absolutely no idea..
I doubt IÂ’ll ask her again..
Hai~~ -
Different girls have different comfort levels. In your case, it may a greater challenge than you initially thought. Try to make her feel comfortable with your friendship first, i.e. being a sincere friend in every way. No need to rush things. Gd luck!Originally posted by lonestar86:Things doesnÂ’t always turn out to be the way I want them to be..
Rem the 2nd gal last time I was talking abt..
IÂ’ve been chatting with her in msn for the past 1 wk n I must say we can get along very well..
We chat abt anything n everything under the sun..
This afternoon, I asked her for her mobile no..
But I didnÂ’t managed to get it.. +
She replied something like, “…not very convenient… we keep in touch thr msn ok?”
Then I answered yes..
What exactly went wrong??
IÂ’ve absolutely no idea..
I doubt IÂ’ll ask her again..
Hai~~ -
wat should i do after getting their hp no.
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Gd qns..Originally posted by hiyohi:wat should i do after getting their hp no.
SMS them gd nite msg loh..
Actually, it's up to u.. -
The reason y yest I asked for her mobile no was bcus she actually told me tt our horoscope r compatible..Originally posted by xavier1979:Different girls have different comfort levels. In your case, it may a greater challenge than you initially thought. Try to make her feel comfortable with your friendship first, i.e. being a sincere friend in every way. No need to rush things. Gd luck!
then I thought the time is right to ask her..
But i was wrong..
Hmm.. xavier1979, u mean i shld ask her for her mobile no again next time?? -
I would say get to know her better first. Phone # can come later.Originally posted by lonestar86:The reason y yest I asked for her mobile no was bcus she actually told me tt our horoscope r compatible..
then I thought the time is right to ask her..
But i was wrong..
Hmm.. xavier1979, u mean i shld ask her for her mobile no again next time?? -
icic.. thanks for ur advice..Originally posted by xavier1979:I would say get to know her better first. Phone # can come later.
btw, 2day is 14 Feb..
Happy Valentine's Day..!! (also my B'day..)
Anyway, jus now she gave me something sia.. Totally unexpected..!!
some choco wrapped in nice light pink n blue wrapper..
so sweet.. Hahaz..
Left only 3 and a half wks to go b4 my proj ends..
i need to work harder to know her better..
hopefully, manage to get her mobile no b4 the end of the proj..
Wish me gd luck..