Originally posted by pro_r:
help me...i dunno how
Gentlemen, young men,
Remember this for LIVE "Attracting gals is far more better than Wooing gals" simple fact is that you woo she run you attract she woo you.
Its might sound kind of out of this world at first but think again pls its for you future and the rest of your life.
"Attraction is not a choice" when a gal is attracted to you she will go after you, and she is helpless about it!
"Trying to play hard to get" I believe everyone had heard this before, and yes its very true, she will play hard to get on you when you go after her, because to women "Anything that is easy to get is of low VALUE" so you should be the one who should do this to her and not the other way round.
Never never never spend too much on a gal you first mat, what for? You don't know her yet so first date just buy her coffee will do, and only on the ten date then you can see if you wanna buy her a meal of other inexpensive stuff. DO NOT BUY THINGS FOR HER TO IMPRESS HER, she will not be impressed, because what she want is in the Man's character.
So what women want, its simple yet no so easy to do if you are a "nice guy" type. They want a MAN a real MAN who is in control of his own emotion, a man who can decide, who know what he wants, who is a little crazy, funny and a little chocky, and confident of course, who can make her do things, a little rough sex that will make her explore! Rock her baby ROCK HER!
Ok so is everyone with me here, if you are a "nice guy" type, you really got some work to do, you have to re-wire your mindset, your belief system man, course NICE GUY SLEEP ALONE! Not asking you to be a jerk, just be yourself.
"Be yourself" again simple but yet deep. if you are nice guy you will be yourself by buying her stuff, expensive meal sending her home and blah blah blah like she is the queen and start telling her how good she is how pretty she is..... on the first date.... hey wake up NEVER DO THAT!!!! you must be crazy to do that..... remember you are there to qualifiy her to see if she is your type do you want he as a fren or deeper... gf or sex buddy...etc
"Qualifying the Gal" in order to do that you will need to have your own set of value and principal, else how you know if she's the one you want to lay, marry or just friend right.
"How to get to Know gals" Firstly you never tell them you like her cos THEY WILL FREAK OUT!!! remember you just know them what the hell are you to know who she really is thus for you to like her! so play it cool.... get to know her, and if you wanna approch her don't sound like a wussy.... because you are not doing anything bad to her (unless you have bad motive then pls see a doc) REMEMBER! WHEN YOU TALK TO HER you must not always have this motive like you are getting something from her, or thinking you are doing something bad... you are just talking to her.... no problem man. In short, talk to her you are not into something bad man... play it cool... crack some jokes make her laugh make her day, if you wannna ask her number after that its cool if she reject just ask again like "come on i will just call you 500 time a daysand make your cell explore!" just some funny staff but if she really not comfortable about it, its ok man there are 1001 reason why gals are not ready... there are million more out there man, your dick is still intact so no problem, and after that you gain in exprience and confident you still gain.
There are more... so for now just get the right dressing style for yourself make yourself look best.... re-wire your mindset if you have to, and go out there and have real FUN. CHEERS!!!!