Are there really no girls that believe in Virginity?
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Heard about alot of things from my friends about them and their gfs. Its like most of the time, the couples will definitely have sex after a certain period of relationship. I don't have any friends whom never have sex with their gfs. Why is it that gals can't really control themselves till marriage. I have friends who are still single kept on complaining knowing how loose girls can be, they have no confidence in Singapore girls and chose to marry or get into relationship abroad, e.g thailand, china, taiwan, hong kong rather than in Singapore. Comments please... -
No demand,no supply.
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compared to taiwan, the girls there are more open. girls here are consider conservative already.
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start from yourself. don't do it with your gf(if got)Originally posted by thesiger:
Heard about alot of things from my friends about them and their gfs. Its like most of the time, the couples will definitely have sex after a certain period of relationship. I don't have any friends whom never have sex with their gfs. Why is it that gals can't really control themselves till marriage. I have friends who are still single kept on complaining knowing how loose girls can be, they have no confidence in Singapore girls and chose to marry or get into relationship abroad, e.g thailand, china, taiwan, hong kong rather than in Singapore. Comments please... -
Originally posted by Pyoro:start from yourself. don't do it with your gf(if got) Good one
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Pls dun generalise.
If a girl did it with someone she loves, i dun think she's loose, at least she dun sleep around. -
Sometimes if it is the right time, there are no regrets.
Of course there cant be too many right time
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need to shift the ppc curve...
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yala...
y should virginity be held as a such affecting issue...
this is the matter between the 2 of them...
wats the consequence? how much u luv each other? how do u treat sex
?Is it something u wanna enjoy? is it someone u wanna enjoy wif?
all the answers will b differentiated by different personality, isnt it?
mayb to tat gal, sex is an enjoy, therefore it is her free to get her own happiness isnt it?
somemore, a sex affair may be a best memory along ur life, isn it?
Do enjoy ur life, in any ways, juz make sure u r doin the rite things, for either u urself or others... -
ya loOriginally posted by Patrik:No demand,no supply.
if guys dun demand girls can save their virginity -
I dun believe that SG guys will hold out if u with ur GF.. it takes 2 to tango man.. but nowadays..most dun believe in sex after marriage. Too much TV n too westernised. we are to blame. A new age has dawned... u need to go for younger ones..those like in high school.
Chances of them corrupted..is lower. he he! But if u bang thier ass... the topic will just repeat itself.. -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:I dun believe that SG guys will hold out if u with ur GF.. it takes 2 to tango man.. but nowadays..most dun believe in sex after marriage. Too much TV n too westernised. we are to blame. A new age has dawned... u need to go for younger ones..those like in high school. Chances of them corrupted..is lower. he he! But if u bang thier ass... the topic will just repeat itself..
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i would like to believe that most of the time it's the guy who actually asks for it from the girl. if the girl doesn't do it with the guy, he'll leave her - so the young girl gives in.
and if the girl actually initiates, the guy can always say "NO" right? not necessarily the girls are loose ah.
what about those boys that go to geylang? what do you call those? -
Girls like to FALL IN LOVE, Guys like to MAKE LOVEOriginally posted by juz_A_gal:i would like to believe that most of the time it's the guy who actually asks for it from the girl. if the girl doesn't do it with the guy, he'll leave her - so the young girl gives in.
and if the girl actually initiates, the guy can always say "NO" right? not necessarily the girls are loose ah.
what about those boys that go to geylang? what do you call those? -
When a man falls in love, he wants to go to bed.
When a woman falls in love, she wants to talk about it.
Women need a reason to have sex
Men just need a place.
A man is as good as he has to be and
a woman is as bad as she dares to be.
Men live by forgetting, women live on memories.
Some observations between the genders when it comes to sex. -
+1!Originally posted by kym:When a man falls in love, he wants to go to bed.
When a woman falls in love, she wants to talk about it.
Women need a reason to have sex
Men just need a place.
A man is as good as he has to be and
a woman is as bad as she dares to be.
Men live by forgetting, women live on memories.
Some observations between the genders when it comes to sex.
keke... -
I dont believe in virginity.. WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL???? gosh.. everyone is so backwards. Doesnt matter if you have it or not. You are still YOU! Nothings changed.
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True, True!Originally posted by sexiserene:I dont believe in virginity.. WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL???? gosh.. everyone is so backwards. Doesnt matter if you have it or not. You are still YOU! Nothings changed.
But as long as the elder generation is there, and keep on passing down the morals and ethics about the abovementioned topic, there will still be a large mass of group who thinks that by losing virginity prior to marriage will be wrong. This fact is compounded by Moral Ed in school, colleges and then again in university. It's similar to mind-control.
Hence, no matter how much you agree towards having sex prior to marriage, or how many people out there who believe so, the majority will still be against it. It's how the norm is, and it's hard to eliminate, because once a person who follows the above precept and have sex before getting married, they will often be casted and ignored if the news spread.
It will still take a long long time before everyone can come to unison and believe that sex is right before marriage. I doubt that will ever happen... -
so you gonna get yrself laid just to prove em wrong? or to show that you are free?Originally posted by renorenal:True, True!
But as long as the elder generation is there, and keep on passing down the morals and ethics about the abovementioned topic, there will still be a large mass of group who thinks that by losing virginity prior to marriage will be wrong. This fact is compounded by Moral Ed in school, colleges and then again in university. It's similar to mind-control.
Hence, no matter how much you agree towards having sex prior to marriage, or how many people out there who believe so, the majority will still be against it. It's how the norm is, and it's hard to eliminate, because once a person who follows the above precept and have sex before getting married, they will often be casted and ignored if the news spread.
It will still take a long long time before everyone can come to unison and believe that sex is right before marriage. I doubt that will ever happen... -
We have all heard it before, virginity is the greatest "gift" a woman can give to her husband. This is the cornerstone in the upbringing of most young women. Society has come up with words to describe women who have lost their virgnity ( slut, loose women and easy lay) without the sacrament of marriage. The onus is on women to uphold moral values. Conversely, there are no similar derogatory terms to describe men who engage in premarital sex.
While traditional values exist, other factors influence the sexual behaviours and attitudes of young people. One of these is the fact we are in the age of sexual liberation. Madonna and MTV where sex is the "in" thing. Virginity is outdated and archaic, totally out of tune with the modern age. Virgins are missing out on the collective experience of truly modern women, those who know exactly what sex is. Virgins are stereotyped as awkard, straitlaced and uptight prunes.
Conflicting pressures from different social institutions have trapped today's young women in the middle. To keep or to loose her virginity. Either way, she becomes a stereotypical image, the loose nonvirgin or the old fashioned virgin. Either way she's judged. The middle ground may be virginity is a sign of women's control over their bodies. They refuse to give in to sexual liberalism nor are they old fashioned or devoutly religious. Virginity is an informed choice some women make. -
dis qn too serious for me liaoz.. but i think whether gals are virgins or not is not the main concern.. if you truly loves her.. den u will accept her as her..
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This is exactly what im saying. Girls weather they are virgins or not are still GIRLS. Guys too. So what is wrong with people?? Do they have the right to judge us? So what if I had sex with a few guys? This means I'm hot, and guys love that.Originally posted by weiwei:dis qn too serious for me liaoz.. but i think whether gals are virgins or not is not the main concern.. if you truly loves her.. den u will accept her as her..
To be a virgin or not a virgin.. Pah.. what a waste of time. Lets talk about something else like "has anyone ever tried having sex in an aeroplane before?". -
This is exactly what im saying. Girls weather they are virgins or not are still GIRLS. Guys too. So what is wrong with people?? Do they have the right to judge us? So what if I had sex with a few guys? This means I'm hot, and guys love that.
To be a virgin or not a virgin.. Pah.. what a waste of time. Lets talk about something else like "has anyone ever tried having sex in an aeroplane before?".
Would love to try with you someday
pls leave your contact and email to all of us guys thankyou u -
If you touch yourself down there.. does that mean you loose your virgin?
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Originally posted by sexiserene:
Well juz take it easy.... each finger got their own usage.... at time 1 another maybe hinderance... at times it's so useful... Stay cheerful... be urself... live fullest! I respect ur above sentence!
This is exactly what im saying. Girls weather they are virgins or not are still GIRLS. Guys too. So what is wrong with people?? Do they have the right to judge us? So what if I had sex with a few guys? This means I'm hot, and guys love that.
To be a virgin or not a virgin.. Pah.. what a waste of time. Lets talk about something else like "has anyone ever tried having sex in an aeroplane before?".