a scensertive question

• LuVPiNk

  14 Jul 05, 10:38

  i am a gal tat hv a bestest bf that i ever wanted.. my problems is that eveytime when we want to do "that" i only allow him to S**K my (.)(.) or lick mi, Finger mi n the furthest we went is he lick my below... i understand that for some gals.. it feel gd but ffor mi.. i felt uneasy as i tink that my below is smelly.. but he sae not...
  
  i wan to make him happy but i really dun wan get baby at my age...
  n sex is a NO NO for mi..
  
  ani ideas?
• shadowlunar

  14 Jul 05, 15:27

  Ever heard of a conception preventive method called Condom?
• stellazio

  14 Jul 05, 15:29

  sounds like my good bud gf who didn't want him to perfom oral on her as she feels sorry for him.well after awhile it'll be ok.no use feeling sorry for the guy if he wants to do it let him.but practice safe sex please.
• heavenlyfire

  14 Jul 05, 16:06

  just keep things this way till you get used to the whole things, morover you are still young.
  
  and yes, your thinking is correct. I am sure you don not want to add on to the number of unwed mothers. Their cases can be very sad.
• LuVPiNk

  14 Jul 05, 19:30

  ermm so can ani one pm mi n tell mi the ways of how to do it...
  thkx to all..
  
  n ya.. no offence but i dun trust condoms... not 100% safe wat...
• shade343

  14 Jul 05, 20:00

  Ask him wear condom lor...
• LuVPiNk

  15 Jul 05, 14:46

  Originally posted by shade343:

  Ask him wear condom lor...

  but is not hundred% safe rite.. ermm nvm thank for ur tips too..
• tut4nkh4m3n

  15 Jul 05, 14:48

  how old are you in the first place?
• tut4nkh4m3n

  15 Jul 05, 14:49

  if you're underage, don't do it, that's the best.
• tut4nkh4m3n

  15 Jul 05, 14:52

  Originally posted by LuVPiNk:

  i am a gal tat hv a bestest bf that i ever wanted.. my problems is that eveytime when we want to do "that" i only allow him to S**K my (.)(.) or lick mi, Finger mi n the furthest we went is he lick my below... i understand that for some gals.. it feel gd but ffor mi.. i felt uneasy as i tink that my below is smelly.. but he sae not...
  
  i wan to make him happy but i really dun wan get baby at my age...
  n sex is a NO NO for mi..
  
  ani ideas?

  first time you'll definitely feel uneasy.
• gypises

  15 Jul 05, 14:56

  Nothing in the world is 100% safe. And that includes condom.
  Therefore, the best way I can think of is to abstain from sEx and remain celibate till ur marriage. It may sounds conservative but to heed my advise or not is up to u. Whatever decision u made, juz make sure u do NOT regret and U MUST be prepared to bear the consequences.
• LuVPiNk

  15 Jul 05, 15:09

  ermm i'm 18.. ermmm i really wan it to b veri safe for mi but i oso wan him happi too.. he is doin the same thing to mi most of the time n somtime if gets too high.. he wans it but i dun.. haiz...
  now my next question is... kindly can u all pm mi wit wat u do wit ur gal or guy wen horny in bed?
  can share some experience of ur's? hehez.. mayb gif mi some ideas too...
  ermm no offence ooh...
• tut4nkh4m3n

  15 Jul 05, 15:13

  oh man, tough luck for your boyfriend.
• gypises

  15 Jul 05, 15:23

  Young lady over there, pardon me for being blunt.
  The point I want u to understand is.... No matter how strong ur relation / bond with ur present bf is, it doesn't means that he'll be ur husband in future.
  Yet u want to try ways and means to satisfy him, it'll not get u to anywhere.
  But if u both wanna try the "forbidden fruit", be mature enuff to think of the consequences. There's no other alternative for u, like wat u said... u wanna make him "high" yet u wanna have a fool-proof method. I dun think there is...
• LuVPiNk

  15 Jul 05, 15:27

  hiaz.. hate to admit.. but wat sae is true... ermm his a nice guy.. but his not those see other gals or keep think abt sex type...ermm tink i maintain tis way can le... thanks for ur advice...
• Grasprt

  3 Aug 05, 00:31

  Originally posted by LuVPiNk:

  i am a gal tat hv a bestest bf that i ever wanted.. my problems is that eveytime when we want to do "that" i only allow him to S**K my (.)(.) or lick mi, Finger mi n the furthest we went is he lick my below... i understand that for some gals.. it feel gd but ffor mi.. i felt uneasy as i tink that my below is smelly.. but he sae not...
  
  i wan to make him happy but i really dun wan get baby at my age...
  n sex is a NO NO for mi..
  
  ani ideas?

  Gurlfren...if u think ur below is smelly then try taking a shower 1st. Or better yet have a sensual bubble bath together and clean each other up nicely before getting down and dirrty
  
  Can i ask u a personal question? Are u shaven? Coz if u were then u wouldn't hav a problem with being smelly too. Clean shaven is the way to go and i bet your bf would lurve u for it too
  
  Thats my 2 cents worth anyhow....let me know what u think.
• Grasprt

  3 Aug 05, 00:36

  Originally posted by LuVPiNk:

  ermm so can ani one pm mi n tell mi the ways of how to do it...
  thkx to all..
  
  n ya.. no offence but i dun trust condoms... not 100% safe wat...

  Ummm...babe....if not condoms then what? Castration?
  
  Condoms are the most convenient, cheap and sufficient birth control there is out there. It may not be 100% effective but at least it is still about 98% safe. What more do u want? Chasity belt with a lock and key?
  
  If u wanna take extra precautions then u could try a condom and some spermacide too that would kill all his lil fishies. Unless ur bf has Super Fishies! lol
  
  
• A7Fold

  9 Sep 05, 16:07

  Go shower then find honey and pour it over your pussy and make it wet and tasy then tell him ready for serve pls don leave any thing unlick
• renorenal

  9 Sep 05, 18:45

  You are going to be engaged in sex anywayz, so if you don't want to have any babies, oral contraceptive pills (progesterone only pills) is the best, and is much safer compared to condoms.
  
  Condoms are 98% safe, but OCP is 99.8% safe.
• anh9anh

  22 Sep 05, 00:00

  OK, i think it's impossible !!! Let's do it now or never ! Dont say too much !!! OK, good night you all !!!
• xIaOvInAz

  22 Sep 05, 00:22

  lol...very nonsense
• guessme

  22 Sep 05, 09:56

  mind to share your 1st time?
  
• linngg

  22 Sep 05, 20:07

  GURL- follow ur feelings. dis was wad happened to mi last tym. but let mi tell u. dun regret if u giv him ur first tym. dere's no second chance. u might wan to make him happi. YES! but if u force urself. u HAPPI MAHS? ask urself dis.. r u readi for it? as on whereby u two horny all dis? mayb ask him finger u? or u bj him? as long as u all dun engage in sex if u r nort ready~
• Kouyou

  23 Sep 05, 18:45

  dun do thing that will let u regret the rest of yur life. no man is completely trustworthy... j/k
• leon_lai89

  23 Sep 05, 18:56

  Originally posted by LuVPiNk:

  ermm i'm 18.. ermmm i really wan it to b veri safe for mi but i oso wan him happi too.. he is doin the same thing to mi most of the time n somtime if gets too high.. he wans it but i dun.. haiz...
  now my next question is... kindly can u all pm mi wit wat u do wit ur gal or guy wen horny in bed?
  can share some experience of ur's? hehez.. mayb gif mi some ideas too...
  ermm no offence ooh...

  when horny? i buy a shield in order not to get myself pricked