please help.......how to reject girls in China
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I am now working in China. after two years, almost lost my self control. please help...heard too many family tragedies, I hv a happy family in Spore.
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castrate.
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Look, do not succumb to the way side wild flowers.
Your action and determination ensure the unending happiness of your whole family (including your parents and siblings). Be strong and spend your time in this forums rather than in the KTV or whatever. Talk to your family more often, ask them to call you from Singapore which is much cheaper than calling from China.
Remember your marriage vows. Save all the money that you can save for your family and future needs, and not on those wild flowers. Show whoever girls you meet with the family photo/s of yours. Best wishes to you. -
everybody please post your AIDS photos here........
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bring your family to china.Originally posted by forestor:I am now working in China. after two years, almost lost my self control. please help...heard too many family tragedies, I hv a happy family in Spore. -
Fuck them and tell them they Suck in bed lor.. they will get the hint one....
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They want foreign passport . . .
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thanks for friends out there take the time to read and post advises and sorry to those find it bore.
Castrate? definately not a solution as that is only the root but not the cause.
for my case, not the wild flowers that kills but the "friendship" that kills. "Lady friends" that care about and take good care of you when you are sick, encourage you when you are down, do their best to resolve you problem.
my PA is one of them, sister of my good friend so, my accountant also...more.
me not a night lover, me no spend night in KTV or what ever, me doing what pisces8 advised, thanks to you pisces8, me chat with my wife, kids back in Spore over internet for any free nights in China but belive me, that doesn't help much in China. atleast for my case.
settle my family in CHina is an option but not a solution for now as my kids are still young and Spore is a better place for their education. my wife is running her own family business and got her own set of problem, she can't just walk away.
me can't resign for the sake of my family back in Spore. the living standard in Spore in high and me can't affort to live on with the starting pay now a day company is offering.
me feel very lost and pressurize. just can't understand why be nice to people can end with problems. me think me no good in handling "friendship". -
I think you must be a very hard working guy. Hard working guy every girl likes.
Do remember, at home you are supported by family members around you. When in foreign country you have only your friends (including workmates) that you can call upon for help. Friends do include girls. YoursÂ’ friends help may be without conditions but they do make you feel a sense of need to repay certain gratitude from you. Gratitude does not mean love. It could be an ang pau at the end of the job.
Do remember one man cannot stand on two boats at the same time. Your wife, your children are there for you and you for them for the rest of your life. Just think of what will happen to them if there is any trouble with you.
It is Ok to threat those good to you well. However there is a limit that you can go, no matter how good your friends are. Be strong, do not err. Best wishes. -
How often do you come back Singapore to see your family?
Your family should live together with you.
This is a family.
Sooner or later, you should bring them over.
How long are you planning to work in China alone?
Some of my friend have contract for oversea assignment 3 years etc.
In that case perhaps still can endure a while more.
If your job posting is permanent and you are not going to leave this job
because Singapore job offer low salary.
Then either you or your wife must sacrifice one of your job and
be together as a family.
Some forum members recommend pass time come to Sgforums or
some others want you to treat those pretty young china girls as normal friends only even they treat you super nice.
All this would not really help you in long term.Originally posted by forestor:thanks for friends out there take the time to read and post advises and sorry to those find it bore.
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i am very hardworking too leh.. why no gal like mi???Originally posted by pisces8:I think you must be a very hard working guy. Hard working guy every girl likes.
Do remember, at home you are supported by family members around you. When in foreign country you have only your friends (including workmates) that you can call upon for help. Friends do include girls. YoursÂ’ friends help may be without conditions but they do make you feel a sense of need to repay certain gratitude from you. Gratitude does not mean love. It could be an ang pau at the end of the job.
Do remember one man cannot stand on two boats at the same time. Your wife, your children are there for you and you for them for the rest of your life. Just think of what will happen to them if there is any trouble with you.
It is Ok to threat those good to you well. However there is a limit that you can go, no matter how good your friends are. Be strong, do not err. Best wishes.
my work mate here is my only fren here too... sighz.. sianz.. -
YES, CPTMiller, you are the one. family life is more important, me need to work out a future plan together with my wife. work some time blinded me.
without a target or direction me may ends up no way and thats why me felt lonely and lost.
thats what we going to do,
me alone the first month,
wife kids visit me and company me for last week of second month (kids school holiday) tour in China!!!!
me come back to Spore the end of third month.
station in China, OK la.
thanks Pisces8, be a responsible man get to be hard working. 13hrs a day, 5.5 days a week.
thanks, thanks, thanks friends, ease thats the feeling now. -
jUST DONT CARE ABOUT THEM
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becareful wor heard some of these girls cheat money de