Approaching a girl
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Hi,
One more question. Suppose that I walk up to that girl and ask for her e-mail. Suppose that I managed to get it.
Now, if I e-mail her every few days or so, wouldn't she get the idea/conception that I'm a online pervert/paedophile/would-be rapist etc.?
Thanks.
Annonymous. -
y get email get msn lah.anyway u get to see her everyday just go up tok to her will do.
Try to know wat type of ger she is dan if u think she also interested in u dan get her number lor.
fang chang xian tio da yu..... -
Nah, the problem is that she has this friend who is occasionally with her, except those few lucky days when she's alone.
Besides, the interval of the train seems to be pretty short, coming every 3 - 5 minutes and there she boards the train!
These are the two major obstacles.
Her friend may make fun of her and tease her in front of everyone in school if I talk to her in front of that friend. In turn, she will get freak out and ignore me! -
Dear Mr Xeon, could you please give regular update on your progress of developing a relationship with this girl..
This is very interesting..
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i agree... u should give regular update on your progress of developing a relationship with this girl...
So we can give u advice what we think ....
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/me only sit one side and eat popCOrn.
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If you never throw the stone , How will you ever get the pond to ripple, A cheeky wink and a smile goes a long way to breaking the ice
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I don't like the idea of chatting up a girl... I only asked a girl for her number once, and she gave it to me becoz we were school mates... eh, we are getting along well as friends right now tho...
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did try b4 at my work place.
overrall success rate is over failure rate.
gal dun like guy to ask straight for their number,,
start any conversation first ba...
start wat conv u got to crack your head
crack more to keep conv going
get her msn first ba
if she often online good luck to u -
When will you approach the girl?Originally posted by NewKidOnBlock:Nah, the problem is that she has this friend who is occasionally with her, except those few lucky days when she's alone.
Besides, the interval of the train seems to be pretty short, coming every 3 - 5 minutes and there she boards the train!
These are the two major obstacles.
Her friend may make fun of her and tease her in front of everyone in school if I talk to her in front of that friend. In turn, she will get freak out and ignore me!
I can't wait your story..... -
Originally posted by Camellias4me:
Scenario:
See her almost everyday? Wat happened to the magic SMILE?
Juz act like she's a neighbour, smile [b]abit 1st.
See if she "knows" u. If she acknowledges u, DON'T approach her as yet. The next time u see her again, smile MORE. 
After a few more times.. more familiar den u approach.
U can try going up to her & say hi.. ask her if she lives ard ur estate. Before dat, check the time for the next train approaching. Nothing longer den 2 mins in case if she doesn't respond, u can still save urself (& her) frm all awkwardness.
U don't haf to get her number so fast. Ask for an email or msn wadever. More of a subtle approach as not to freak her out. Gd luck! [/b]
Target in sight.You are nervous,your heartbeat is very fast but you strike a confident posture and walk towards her.You think that this will be a major turning point in your life.You tell yourself "I not gonna screw up".For the past few days you had did what Camellias4me advised you to.5 metres away and closing.Suddenly a guy appears and they hug tightly.They walk into the train holding hands,the gal totally oblivious of your presence... -
smile lah.....afetr a few more days of smiling...u guys become familiar...then say "hi" lah.....sounds so lao tu...but it works lah.....
then take your time to chat and suggest keeping in touch via communication means like msn, hp or watever....
gives u a chance to assess whether she is same girl of your dreams anot too... scarly she open her mouth and u smell something unbearable, then how???
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(1)start by having a smile !! (how big or small nvm! as long as she can see u smile can liao)
(2)so she either smile back or nv smile back
(3)assume she smiles!!!,
(4)one day, u purposely dont let her see u (stand behind etc), dan u two enter thru the same door dan nearer to her, u smile more!!
(5)if she those courteous kind she sure smile back! u need a bit of ladyluck too! maybe she start to ask where u go etc.. dan TA-DA....
all starts will a smile
worked a few times for me although this process needs patience... else she thinks u despo -
Scenario:
Target in sight.You are nervous,your heartbeat is very fast but you strike a confident posture and walk towards her.You think that this will be a major turning point in your life.You tell yourself "I not gonna screw up".For the past few days you had did what Camellias4me advised you to.5 metres away and closing.Suddenly a guy appears and they hug tightly.They walk into the train holding hands,the gal totally oblivious of your presence...
LOL !!!!
But if she already had a guy , wouldn't had NewKidOnBlock already noticed him ? -
Even if u get her num. She will start playing hard. Not tt easy one. It is real fucked. Anyway, good luck.
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i oso feel like asking a gal's number .. she working at some icecream store .. the walls one the like make shift one .. at 1 shopping mall .. quite pretty .. haha .. *dreams*
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When u get her number, make sure u call her. Then wait 10 days and call. then 3 days....then later 1 day. Its the 10-3-1 system.
U wont seem so desparate or needy to her and she is very likely to return your interest in her -
My frend! One step at a time...Originally posted by NewKidOnBlock:Hi,
One more question. Suppose that I walk up to that girl and ask for her e-mail. Suppose that I managed to get it.
Now, if I e-mail her every few days or so, wouldn't she get the idea/conception that I'm a online pervert/paedophile/would-be rapist etc.?
Thanks.
Annonymous.
a. eye contact
b. smile
c. She acknwoledge (if no after 3 attempts give up) and smile back
d. approach and make conversation
e. after some conversation either first time or after meeting a few times then ask for number or email
f. THEN U TALK ABOUT CALLING OR EMAILING HER. -
dun try whipping the phone and saying those cheesy stuff.. i'll walk away and never board the same train ever again if i were her...
do it subtly. do that eye contact and smile thing first. then, on THE day, write a small note about you wanting to be friends with her and pass it to her. smile when you do so... i think she's less likely to get freaked out. after you give already, you can edge away, give her time to read and think.
look at her reaction. then, the next day, just smile at her the whole journey. se her reaction.
if all is positive, you may now talk to her. that's the way to court decent looking girls. -
1) Walk towards her...
2) Say "Bye Bye"...
3) Walk away...
She's bound to get all confused and curious...
If u r lucky enuff, she will be asking u the next morning...
A conversation starts...
Without the awkwardness... -
*looks briefly at starblue and smiles sweetly for 3 secs...and looks away*Originally posted by starblue:dun try whipping the phone and saying those cheesy stuff.. i'll walk away and never board the same train ever again if i were her...
do it subtly. do that eye contact and smile thing first. then, on THE day, write a small note about you wanting to be friends with her and pass it to her. smile when you do so... i think she's less likely to get freaked out. after you give already, you can edge away, give her time to read and think.
look at her reaction. then, the next day, just smile at her the whole journey. se her reaction.
if all is positive, you may now talk to her. that's the way to court decent looking girls. -
you're not going to pass me a note next are ya?Originally posted by alexkusu:*looks briefly at starblue and smiles sweetly for 3 secs...and looks away* -
Just don't use the ever lame line of "Can we be friends?"
Jeez, that line is bullshit, you barely even know her and you want to be friends?
Make conversation about duh topics and don't try be overly intelligent or witty. If she's still schooling, bitch about your school and how you're totally unprepared for this monster test you're taking today and you're so freaked out, you just need someone to talk to. Something along the lines of there, try to tread on common ground and see if you get lucky. -
finally.... i thought i was onli shy kid in the block does like hey
wanna make frens line DON TRY IT i got turn down by a ger it sae the line is too old ... and she is so damm fine... wat a ger....