shop till your boyfriend drop
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i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying. damn that what i hate about love you alway gotta fork out the green
is there a way to tell her i am not paying for her stuff and not damage my relationship with her at the same time or should i just break up -
just tell her lor...if she gets angry over it ,then that means that she continue to be with you is becuz of money...not love...
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I know of girls who prefer to pay for their own thingsOriginally posted by sleeper_hold_sarap:i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying.
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U could do a search
Lingos.
She prefers to buy her own bling bling
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Most girls won't anyhow spend their bf money.
U are being taken advantage of!
Tell her frankly u are broke. Ask her to pay herself. -
hmm,thats ur luck lor,i dun even dare to ask my exes to pay for my stuff
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Yes, breakup before u get into debt. Incompatiblity in spending habits between partners always spells doom in a relationship.Originally posted by sleeper_hold_sarap:i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying. damn that what i hate about love you alway gotta fork out the green
is there a way to tell her i am not paying for her stuff and not damage my relationship with her at the same time or should i just break up -
ahhahahahahOriginally posted by sleeper_hold_sarap:i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying.
i wish that happens to me!!!
me pay for my own shopping......but im happy about it
gers dun have to rely on guys, esp the financial part..... -
erm, i personal loves 2 shop too.. but i doesn't always ask my bf 2 pay it.. Onli for sometimes long long time once.. And except for those movie tics, food, blah blah.. Normally i shop den pay myself.Originally posted by sleeper_hold_sarap:i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying. damn that what i hate about love you alway gotta fork out the green
is there a way to tell her i am not paying for her stuff and not damage my relationship with her at the same time or should i just break up
Maybe u can tell her nicely tt, u are not tt rich tt can always pay things for her blah blah.. den c wads her reply 2 u den decide lor..
aniwae i surppose she is around 20+ and surppose she is working so therefore she should have e money 2 pay up if she wans 2 shop.. Not like me.. 16 nia.. still find no job.. sob~~ 
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den lik that i wan to date a rich gf....no need to pay for her shopping spree. -
test your gf lar
one day forget to bring your wallet
see if she is willing to pay for you
if she isn't , she is what you call a sponge -
i would prefer to pay for myself loh...bu tuo bu qian.
it is kinda strange to hav ur bf paying for ur shopping? -
a bit here and there, but no everytime..
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no leh, i wil pay myself..unless the guy is willing to pay for me..oso depends on the cost, if too $$$, oso paiseh..
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actually depends lah.. lastime dating he pays everything...
but i was working then so still pay abit myself n more of his..keke... -
if she buy pan ties and bra s and k o tex i den mind payying -
if she buy tube top mini , micro mini spag halter necks cheongsam 1/2 cut night gown aorso dun mind paying...wait hor i check my wallet got enuff marnee or not.........wat veri exp leh -
Just my 2 cents worth..Originally posted by sleeper_hold_sarap:i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying. damn that what i hate about love you alway gotta fork out the green
is there a way to tell her i am not paying for her stuff and not damage my relationship with her at the same time or should i just break up
you're being used i guess.. being a girl myself, i would only expect my bf to pay for simple meals, movie tix and drinks.. other than that, shopping for clothes and stuff, i wouldnt want or allow him to pay for it..
you may want to clarify things with her by asking her why are u settling her shopping bills nicely? but i think there's no use carrying on this relationgship if she's out there for your money.. do think twice.. -
just testing my sytem
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you are taken advantage of! dump her! i will never ask my bf to buy stuff for me, not even if he offered! ok lah, now i do since we're planning to get married soon... cause he gotta learn to take care of me, and also i'll not be working after marriage.
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I'm a girl and I pay for my own things. Maybe the occasional meal or movie ticket, he pays!
I think you're being taken for a ride -
Yep, I also only pay for the meals, movie tickets, drinks. Never buy any buy any things for her unless there a special reason(birthday, etc)Originally posted by o0sadd0o:Just my 2 cents worth..
you're being used i guess.. being a girl myself, i would only expect my bf to pay for simple meals, movie tix and drinks.. other than that, shopping for clothes and stuff, i wouldnt want or allow him to pay for it..
you may want to clarify things with her by asking her why are u settling her shopping bills nicely? but i think there's no use carrying on this relationgship if she's out there for your money.. do think twice.. -
From my view, u r in serious trouble.
What kind of qualities do u look for in ur partner? Did u ever ask urself?
Seriously speaking, did she ever tells u tat she loves u? If she did, i can tell u tat she loves u for being her 'cai tou'.
Of coz every woman will be elated if her bf gets her someting out of the blue or on special occassions, it will be sweet. But it shouldn't be all the time.
Isit tat u pamper her too much? and she got used to it tat u will be the 1 paying for all the expenses when u both were out on a date? And u paisay to ask her to pay on her own becuz u feel tat it should be the guy paying.
And u r scared tat things might turned ugly if u ask her to foot her own bills rite?
She's spoilt......u should know. She loves herself more than she loves u, and is taking things for granted. She felt tat u wil definitely foot the bills for her cuz she's so used to it.
If She often whines and grumbles or show a black face if she cudn't get wat she wants, den wat r u waiting for?
Even if u come from a rich family, i dun tink u deserve to pay for everytin. Even if ur family prints s'pore currencies.
If a person truly loves u and wana spend the rest of their life wif u, wud he/she bear to spend so much of ur $? If its me, i can say wo bu she de hua wo nan peng you de $ to buy expensive stuffs and so on.
Do some soul searching tonight... so far wat has she done for u? Is she really the right one for u? Do u tink she will change becuz of u?
I m not trying to rub salt into ur wound, but i felt tat u deserve a better girl. -
CLAP X1000000 CHEERS.... totally agreed.....Originally posted by kiekie:From my view, u r in serious trouble.
What kind of qualities do u look for in ur partner? Did u ever ask urself?
Seriously speaking, did she ever tells u tat she loves u? If she did, i can tell u tat she loves u for being her 'cai tou'.
Of coz every woman will be elated if her bf gets her someting out of the blue or on special occassions, it will be sweet. But it shouldn't be all the time.
Isit tat u pamper her too much? and she got used to it tat u will be the 1 paying for all the expenses when u both were out on a date? And u paisay to ask her to pay on her own becuz u feel tat it should be the guy paying.
And u r scared tat things might turned ugly if u ask her to foot her own bills rite?
She's spoilt......u should know. She loves herself more than she loves u, and is taking things for granted. She felt tat u wil definitely foot the bills for her cuz she's so used to it.
If She often whines and grumbles or show a black face if she cudn't get wat she wants, den wat r u waiting for?
Even if u come from a rich family, i dun tink u deserve to pay for everytin. Even if ur family prints s'pore currencies.
If a person truly loves u and wana spend the rest of their life wif u, wud he/she bear to spend so much of ur $? If its me, i can say wo bu she de hua wo nan peng you de $ to buy expensive stuffs and so on.
Do some soul searching tonight... so far wat has she done for u? Is she really the right one for u? Do u tink she will change becuz of u?
I m not trying to rub salt into ur wound, but i felt tat u deserve a better girl.
I date with some girls before... they r really nice.... i pay for them e movie e drinks.... but when they buy their stuff, they will inisist to pay for them self...
=) glad~ cause i am supportin myself now... hahahaha -
mayb u can post ur problems in AA, coz i dun see u r having much of help here.Originally posted by sleeper_hold_sarap:i finally got the anwser why girls love to shop the reason...............................................................their boyfriend is paying. damn that what i hate about love you alway gotta fork out the green
is there a way to tell her i am not paying for her stuff and not damage my relationship with her at the same time or should i just break up