Originally posted by jojobeach:Please stop the hypocrisy lah.
You are just exploiting her sad situation to fulfill your personal needs.
You don't need to marry her to help her. There are many other ways to help a person get out of poverty.
yep don;t procreate halflings
Originally posted by Tcsaaa:hey, can provide more info?
I am not well versed in foreign brides. But I know of another married to a russion tooand they have 2 kids now.
whatever
went to chiang mai in march this year. while on a one day trip fm chiang rai to neighbour country. ( forget what country, very poor type ) by small boat. b4 going bk to the boat, suddenly, i take out my wallet. to everyone, there r beggers. to me, they r poor kids. give out 20 baht each. mostly younger kids. abt 10 kids. not a lot of money.
bk on the boat, ya whole boat full of singaporeans. someone say i generous. i told him my salarly not more than 2 k. i dare to say every single one of them is richer than me. but only i give. so i must be the only hypocrite ppl, n not the boat full of singaporeans.
to my fellow singaporeans, 200 baht means money.
to me, 200 baht is what i can do for these young poor kids at that point of time. if only i can get my hands on bill gate money.
TS asking for help and advice... how come everyone climbing up on their moral pedestals and scolding him? foreign wife is human being, but TS is human being as well.
it ok de, let them say what they want. i got many pressing issues in my head at the same time. if they were me, whatever gods they have also cannot help them.. tks lyzalynn..
Originally posted by BadzMaro:I am not well versed in foreign brides. But I know of another married to a russion tooand they have 2 kids now.
russians are cool. no PRCs please, too common, like rats
Originally posted by Lyzalynn:TS asking for help and advice... how come everyone climbing up on their moral pedestals and scolding him? foreign wife is human being, but TS is human being as well.
forgein wives? is TS getting married for love or just religion faily or peer pressure to ROM?
Originally posted by Lyzalynn:TS asking for help and advice... how come everyone climbing up on their moral pedestals and scolding him? foreign wife is human being, but TS is human being as well.
Exactly. The problem here is TS don't treat women as human beings.
He wishes to exploit them for selfish gains.
Women from poor countries are like pigs. To be bought, consumed and bones discarded for a price.
if he really wants to help these women, he should empower them , not take advantage of them.
Originally posted by Tcsaaa:it ok de, let them say what they want. i got many pressing issues in my head at the same time. if they were me, whatever gods they have also cannot help them.. tks lyzalynn..
I am not against men marrying foreign women. But you have so many unresolved problems on hand, yet you want to go be a hero to another unfortunate soul ?
what make u think any woman wants to marry into your pile of problems ?
You can't even save yourself, you really shouldn't try to save another, cuz both of you will just sink together.
for goodness sake, leave these poor women alone for now, go back when u are in better shape, financially and emotionally.
right now, you cannot save them, and they cannot save you.
Originally posted by jojobeach:I am not against men marrying foreign women. But you have so many unresolved problems on hand, yet you want to go be a hero to another unfortunate soul ?
what make u think any woman wants to marry into your pile of problems ?
You can't even save yourself, you really shouldn't try to save another, cuz both of you will just sink together.
for goodness sake, leave these poor women alone for now, go back when u are in better shape, financially and emotionally.
right now, you cannot save them, and they cannot save you.
more like own self got problem still wanna bring more problem in. for those women, they got problem, as long as they can throw some burden to another men - cool rite?
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
more like own self got problem still wanna bring more problem in. for those women, they got problem, as long as they can throw some burden to another men - cool rite?
We get it that men wants to be "hero" to boost their ego.. and we totally wouldn't deny them that.
Many guys want to act hero.. only to be discovered they are just ZERO.
It's scary to think these poor women have absolutely no idea what they are getting themselves into with men like TS.
Originally posted by jojobeach:We get it that men wants to be "hero" to boost their ego.. and we totally wouldn't deny them that.
Many guys want to act hero.. only to be discovered they are just ZERO.
It's scary to think these poor women have absolutely no idea what they are getting themselves into with men like TS.
i don;t agree totally. those foreign women cum on dont tell me they are virgin down and up? they are so good in acting you can believe they are houlier and virginier than mary
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
i don;t agree totally. those foreign women cum on dont tell me they are virgin down and up? they are so good in acting you can believe they are houlier and virginier than mary
If they are really so sinister, why would any man want to " save " them ?
Be honest and let these uneducated women know exactly what you are.
Dont pretend to be something you are not. If they choose to get married to a financial wreck, that's their choice. If they choose to marry a deadbeat ex husband, that's their choice... If they want a diehard Mama boy, they better be informed well ahead of time.
Buying a bride doesn't allow the woman time to get to know the man, that's why men and women date...to get to know each other before the big leap.
Marriage after some time of dating is already a gamble. Marrying blind is a BiGGER gamble... Now why would any man fresh out of divorce want to jump into it again?
Originally posted by jojobeach:If they are really so sinister, why would any man want to " save " them ?
Be honest and let these uneducated women know exactly what you are.
Dont pretend to be something you are not. If they choose to get married to a financial wreck, that's their choice. If they choose to marry a deadbeat ex husband, that's their choice... If they want a diehard Mama boy, they better be informed well ahead of time.
Buying a bride doesn't allow the woman time to get to know the man, that's why men and women date...to get to know each other before the big leap.
Marriage after some time of dating is already a gamble. Marrying blind is a BiGGER gamble... Now why would any man fresh out of divorce want to jump into it again?
yes they are. if not why cum here and hook sg men? don;t tell me their homeland no men? or really our pehs and uncles cum more thick? no way i even wna to to associate with them. as for the rest of your comments no ideal why you quote my words and write them. but really the rest about those cheap labor charbor i not intereste. also not interetsed about their what exotic culture? exotic my foot
I would say, no. There are many stories about foreign spouses cheated Singaporeans a considerable amount of money. Furthermore, is it extremely difficult to find a local wife in Singapore? If is it difficult, perhaps you might want to visit some dating sites to look for a local partner who you might find it suitable to date. TS, if you are not afraid of being cheated by foreign spouses, by all means, do so.
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
yes they are. if not why cum here and hook sg men? don;t tell me their homeland no men? or really our pehs and uncles cum more thick? no way i even wna to to associate with them. as for the rest of your comments no ideal why you quote my words and write them. but really the rest about those cheap labor charbor i not intereste. also not interetsed about their what exotic culture? exotic my foot
Because SG men easier to hook.
Men in these women homeland got so many women to choose from, women are a dime a dozen there... Third world country people tend to reproduce more....
SG men like cheap cheap , as long as is cheap and easy to get, they will take. They don't really care about quality lah.. You get what you pay for lor. That's why BATA is so popular in SG. - Buy And Throw Away.
BAta is low and cheap quality shoes in Singapore. When I went to switzerland it's a expensive high quality boutique brand.
European men like high quality. SG men like cheap low quality.
Pardon me for using wrong quote, this website not very mobile device friendly.
Originally posted by Tcsaaa:hi to all. male, next yr 41. recently divorced. thoughts of getting a foreign wife. i shd say, buying a foreign wife. stepping into unknown area. very hard to decide..zzzzz
I think you shld do what ur heart tells u and ignore those negative comments. I have colleagues who are even younger than u married foreign ladies. So far i don't see any side effects and he's more happy than before :) as he has a son to take care of so finding him a 2nd mother will be essential.
for your case, i'm not sure..but if u're looking for a lifetime partner and lost hope in local women, please go ahead and look for foreign ladies. :) all the best!
dont ever believe that this sort of matchmaking will definitely workout.
nowadays even if they are brought to singapore, they also feel they have the choice to accept you or not
i had a friend who was matchmade to a vietnamese lady.
the lady didnt really want him and just wanted to go back to vietnam
but in the end he manage to win her heart.
trust me, nowadays you have those who believe that such things are mutual
http://sgforums.com/forums/3317/topics/462210
this thread tells all. the cheena woman married already, and why still got 'lover' and not 'husband'? if divorced or widow ten remarried lah, why still can keep lover?
lover is psycho maniac, top swirdmen of an era forgotten started welding twin blades and taking lives.