Why my colleague act like this?
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Recently found out that one of my colleague has a bad evil intention.
Always ask me to send mail or make suggestions to other section. (esp when things are not going smooth among other section).
Always dare not ask manager when not sure, always wait for me. So that manager assume he knows.
Always teach him again and again and yet he treat me unfairly.
Sorry Clive for using yr thread over here.
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And I have to be on my guard when working with him as my colleague will try to catch my off guard. Very stressful. And I have the habit of letting my guard down.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
And I have to be on my guard when working with him as my colleague will try to catch my off guard. Very stressful. And I have the habit of letting my guard down.
dun worry, sometimes it might be a blessing.
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just be yrself
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new colleague? His lack of capability will show over time.
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don;t bothered too much and make you stress even after work. if cannot work just move on. life in a dot sg is like this. esp when you work with foreign pigs. lazy people out company one mail only can sent to group all people. lazy IT guy. they think i like them also arh? when i first come for interview only ask me from where do what? can seet my visitor pass meh? can't see i wait at rceptionist meh? if i stranger security will let me in meh? want me toput out my IC and see whose blu whose pink or not?
the other 1 is idea king. lots of idea. always want peopl to join department tem building activities, so we can see he tok lot and act idea king. sorry you arrange one hiking trip topo to ulu places you will see who is the one in command. i miised my NSF and NS days. That type of team building activities you will see who is the true commander
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do not understand your definitation of bad or evil intention...
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Originally posted by caleb_chiang:
do not understand your definitation of bad or evil intention...
In front of you, acting good, behind trying to set you up unknowingly to your notice.eg. asking u to send mail (where matters might do you unfavourable towards other section colleages.
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Originally posted by Clivebenss:
dun worry, sometimes it might be a blessing.
Care to explain more?
Thks Clive.
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when u free, go find and read the book �拉拉��记
there is english translated book titled Go! Lala!
there is oso movie version -
Originally posted by FireIce:
when u free, go find and read the book �拉拉��记
there is english translated book titled Go! Lala!
there is oso movie version
What book is that?Teach one how to be on guard in the office?
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He is using you as a cats paw.
A story goes like this. A farmer put some ground nuts by the fire to roast it. Soon it was done. A monkey came saw the nuts, but cannot pick them because the fire was very hot. His fur would catch fire. The monkey saw a cat sleeping nearby. The monkey caught hold of the cat, used the cat's paw to flick the nuts away from the fire. The cat's fur got singed, and the monkey got the nuts.
So he get you to send the e-mails, and to ask the manager questions, eh?
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Originally posted by Clivebenss:
dun worry, sometimes it might be a blessing.
the worst thing that happen might bring the best of you.
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Originally posted by mancha:
He is using you as a cats paw.
A story goes like this. A farmer put some ground nuts by the fire to roast it. Soon it was done. A monkey came saw the nuts, but cannot pick them because the fire was very hot. His fur would catch fire. The monkey saw a cat sleeping nearby. The monkey caught hold of the cat, used the cat's paw to flick the nuts away from the fire. The cat's fur got singed, and the monkey got the nuts.
So he get you to send the e-mails, and to ask the managenr questions, eh?
Hi ManCha, thanks for your insight. Yes, trying to get me send the emails and he sit there keep quiet. Very stupid of me to do this unknowingly. That is one his best evil weapons. As it saying: "Push you down the bridge, he get the cossing safety"
He wont ask mgr questions cos he dont want mgr to know that he dont know his work. That is why he will wait for me. Kind of very cunning colleague..
Sometimes very tiried facing him whole day. You nvr know when he backstab you. Unknowingly.
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Originally posted by Clivebenss:
the worst thing that happen might bring the best of you.
Thanks Clive.I hope the bad evil intention will befall on him. Not I am evil hearted, I just dont want him to make use of me anymore.
I treat him good,teach me again and again, check his doc, yet he treated me like this.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
Thanks Clive.I hope the bad evil intention will befall on him. Not I am evil hearted, I just dont want him to make use of me anymore.
I treat him good,teach me again and again, check his doc, yet he treated me like this.
It doesn't matter if there is karma of evil befalling him. At least you can sleep well than those that do evil to you.
I fell, but now I have a strong family, thanks to those who stabbed from behind and those that laugh when I bleed.
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Originally posted by Clivebenss:
It doesn't matter if there is karma of evil befalling him. At least you can sleep well than those that do evil to you.
I fell, but now I have a strong family, thanks to those who stabbed from behind and those that laugh when I bleed.
Ok thanks for your advise.He told me scare of ghosts and dare not go toilet at night in the office. Probably his mind too evil and wanted to harm me too much.
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the question is why do you need to do what your colleague ask you to do?
or you can always try writing your email in this format
Dear ABC (where ABC is your section colleages/manager)
As requested by 123 (where 123 is your colleague), please assist to update 123 on the following
1. xxx
2. xxx
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Originally posted by PedoBear:
the question is why do you need to do what your colleague ask you to do?
or you can always try writing your email in this format
Dear ABC (where ABC is your section colleages/manager)
As requested by 123 (where 123 is your colleague), please assist to update 123 on the following
1. xxx
2. xxx
Thanks Bear, noted, will add his goddanm name in the mail. I am fedup being use make use of me now.
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this type of pple i call extra, they are always taking for a free ride. they around or not around make no diff one.
every time meeting with the boss u can see their face one. nothing to contribute, talk cxxk only. when come to work they taichi here and wayang there one.
when task completed they will show face again but if the task fail, they dont know go where and hide liao and they can even say that not their problem one.
if i see this type of pple, the most i will only say good morning to them only, i dont waste my time talking to them one. if they dont know i will also wont teach them and i wont share any info with them, when the boss want them to work, i will ask the boss to confirm that the person really know the work cos i dont want to teach them again and again or in the end clearing up their mess.
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Thanks Bota. Yes, during meeting,he keep quiet. I do the talking. He very smart type. I do the dirty works lah. While he keep quiet .
Recently my manager asked me "Does het know how to do the job?" I replied "No, he dare not ask you fearing you know about it" My manager look at me shell shock.
And he loves to put words in my mouth when he talk to other colleagues.
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Tell me guys, how to work with himy knowing he always wanted to harm me now and then? By pretending nothing happen? Just talk to him in a normal way but try not to talk too much with him?
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There is some issue involving him and another colleague about leave planning. I am not going to suggest or say any thing when this guy gonna tell me this evening. I am sure he will want to use my name again to tell that collague. Damn, must be very high alert when working with him, making me easily stress out. SigH!
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Originally posted by likeyou:
In front of you, acting good, behind trying to set you up unknowingly to your notice.eg. asking u to send mail (where matters might do you unfavourable towards other section colleages.
yeh lor do tell you do this do that, when his own thing cannot do already. things he in charge cause line down no revenue.another one idea king always tell you to do tthe wrong thing when one though know is wrong already. tok her enad there type here nad there.
recommend scrap don;t dare to put his own name put my name.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
Thanks Bota. Yes, during meeting,he keep quiet. I do the talking. He very smart type. I do the dirty works lah. While he keep quiet .
Recently my manager asked me "Does het know how to do the job?" I replied "No, he dare not ask you fearing you know about it" My manager look at me shell shock.
And he loves to put words in my mouth when he talk to other colleagues.
come one he this type cannot get job outside 1. have to stay in this company and gossip tok rot everyday. like my example. never tok to supplier before supplier come hide. let supplier screw him good good then he know. reject reject reject what? the other one is his comondity also cannot move, stuck still got cheek to idea my comodity. then his stupid suggestion let supplier replace one critical part once in 3 months die like that. i must change it, even if it means losing my job. do i need a job anyway?
my gambit is dispensible wghile he cannot afford to not even work for 1 day.