Singapore women want rich husbands?
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Originally posted by jennmisscs:
sorry, nothing personal. I can only say you are so short-sighted.
ONE DOES NOT MEAL ALL, I hate to repeat.
the title ended with a questions mark that means there is something left to debate.
then why are you here?
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Originally posted by Wiser:
So does it sound all right like this
China Women want rich husbands ?
Taiwanese Women want rich husbands ?
Vietnamese Women want rich husbands?
In the context of Singapore "Foreign Brides ", yes to all the above questions.
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Originally posted by Wiser:
then why are you here?
haha wow, personal attack.
so any girl who is not a Singaporean on this forum means she is going for rich man.
where got the analogy from media to this forum.
sorry I really don't understand in the 'context of Singapore "Foreign Brides."
now i understood.
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How come China has a open selection for a wife by the millionaires leh ?
And how come so many rushed to apply and die die must guarantee they are Virgins ?
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Aiya argue for what
Every woman will want a rich husband if possible
Likewise men also want to snag a rich wife if possible because it opens up so many more opportunities for them
End of the day we are wired biologically to find the best possible person to mate with
You don’t even need to look at nationalities because it’s the same across every country and continent.
It only looks different due to differences in living standards
I think most people these days marry only if they can have a better standard of living together
The world is a very harsh place and it seems quite stupid to marry for worse standard of living
The very least is to maintain your current standard of living.
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Originally posted by jennmisscs:
haha wow, personal attack.
so any girl who is not a Singaporean on this forum means she is going for rich man.
where got the analogy from media to this forum.
sorry I really don't understand in the 'context of Singapore "Foreign Brides."
now i understood.
well guess i burst your bubble for you. It's also a personal attack on Singapore Women when the same title applies to us.
I have already being factual by putting " in the context of foreign brides". Maybe i should add one more word " foreign purchased brides".
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Originally posted by elindra:
Aiya argue for what
Every woman will want a rich husband if possible
Likewise men also want to snag a rich wife if possible because it opens up so many more opportunities for them
End of the day we are wired biologically to find the best possible person to mate with
You don’t even need to look at nationalities because it’s the same across every country and continent.
It only looks different due to differences in living standards
I think most people these days marry only if they can have a better standard of living together
The world is a very harsh place and it seems quite stupid to marry for worse standard of living
The very least is to maintain your current standard of living.
true...but don't limit it to "Singapore Women " .
Now i want to ask this question to the men here, why rich husbands must want a pretty sexy wife who is a VIRGIN leh ?
why rich husbands can't marry a woman same age as them, not sexy and not young leh?
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Originally posted by Wiser:
well guess i burst your bubble for you. It's also a personal attack on Singapore Women when the same title applies to us.
I have already being factual by putting " in the context of foreign brides". Maybe i should add one more word " foreign purchased brides".
HAHAHAHA. you should ask why Singaporean women now are viewed the way they are as described on the article in the post.
But I guess in some parts you were right, Singaporean women are more educated thus can be more financially independent.
You sound like you are not married nor young.
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Because men are visual creatures and a young girl will definitely look better than a older woman though I find lately a lot of men tend to go for older women as they find them more stable emotionally and less prone to childish outbursts (and from what I heard also because they are better in bed)
The virgin thing is more of a ego conquest thing where he is the first to de-flower her and that she belongs to him only because no other man has touched her before and he can so-called train/teach/tailor-make her to please him in the bedroom.
Though some men prefer non-virgins because they want instant gratification and someone who knows what to do.
Also this is a public forum. No need to take things personally.
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Originally posted by elindra:
Because men are visual creatures and a young girl will definitely look better than a older woman though I find lately a lot of men tend to go for older women as they find them more stable emotionally and less prone to childish outbursts (and from what I heard also because they are better in bed)
The virgin thing is more of a ego conquest thing where he is the first to de-flower her and that she belongs to him only because no other man has touched her before and he can so-called train/teach/tailor-make her to please him in the bedroom.
Though some men prefer non-virgins because they want instant gratification and someone who knows what to do.
Also this is a public forum. No need to take things personally.
i think the person who takes thing personally here is that jenmisscs up there.
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Originally posted by elindra:
Because men are visual creatures and a young girl will definitely look better than a older woman though I find lately a lot of men tend to go for older women as they find them more stable emotionally and less prone to childish outbursts (and from what I heard also because they are better in bed)
The virgin thing is more of a ego conquest thing where he is the first to de-flower her and that she belongs to him only because no other man has touched her before and he can so-called train/teach/tailor-make her to please him in the bedroom.
Though some men prefer non-virgins because they want instant gratification and someone who knows what to do.
Also this is a public forum. No need to take things personally.
you need to differentiate a mistress, one night stand sex from that of a wife.
I am asking why rich husbands only want young sexy VIRGIN WIVES, not girl-friends, not mistresses that they can laid easily with money.
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Originally posted by Wiser:
you need to differentiate a mistress, one night stand sex from that of a wife.
I am asking why rich husbands only want young sexy VIRGIN WIVES, not girl-friends, not mistresses that they can laid easily with money.
think u need another life time to understand manjust blame yrself that u r stupid
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Originally posted by Wiser:
i think the person who takes thing personally here is that jenmisscs up there.
Sorry if I said anything that offend you. But I just find the way that you stereotype woman based on where they are from quite offensive.
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x2...i get the impression tat she stereotyped it this way cos she herself is a singaporean woman
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Originally posted by jennmisscs:
Sorry if I said anything that offend you. But I just find the way that you stereotype woman based on where they are from quite offensive.
this is already a stereotype question from the beginning. Women from Singapore do not need to be subjected to this type of silly stereotyping. Women from Singapore are more financially able than those from China, Vietnam, Taiwan, Philippine and Indonesia. -
Trophy ma. And the above reasons I stated applies.
Like you say money can buy anything. It can buy them a young, sexy and beautiful virgin wife
But that doesn’t mean they stick to their wife. They can still have their numerous gfs and mistresses outside
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Originally posted by elindra:
Because men are visual creatures and a young girl will definitely look better than a older woman though I find lately a lot of men tend to go for older women as they find them more stable emotionally and less prone to childish outbursts (and from what I heard also because they are better in bed)
The virgin thing is more of a ego conquest thing where he is the first to de-flower her and that she belongs to him only because no other man has touched her before and he can so-called train/teach/tailor-make her to please him in the bedroom.
Though some men prefer non-virgins because they want instant gratification and someone who knows what to do.
Also this is a public forum. No need to take things personally.
Well, seem that men also have plenty of conditions for selecting their wife or girl-friends when they are rich.
Men can have their conditions, Women similarly can also have their conditions for selecting a man. Nothing wrong with that.
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Originally posted by elindra:
Trophy ma. And the above reasons I stated applies.
Like you say money can buy anything. It can buy them a young, sexy and beautiful virgin wife
But that doesn’t mean they stick to their wife. They can still have their numerous gfs and mistresses outside
ya lor. So all the problem actually start with MEN. hahahaha....
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The other side is rich women also have their fair share of toy boys
Both genders have their own set of terms & conditions. They can’t really be compared because what men want and what women want are very different.
For example,
A woman might be attached and still have an affair outside because her bf/husband don’t fulfill her emotional needs and is taking her for granted and to feel good about herself, she turn to other men who give her attention and seem to appreciate her more.
A man might be attached and still have an affair outside because his wife/gf is not willing to have sex with him as often as he likes or he just likes to “sample” and “conquer”; that he can still get other girls to bed with him despite being married or sometimes it’s because he’s a hound. It’s just the sex.
One goes for emotional and self image kind of satisfaction, the other go for ‘conquests’ and basically prove to himself that he is still virile.
So the thread starter being a guy is questioning about the female set of conditions. You can always start a thread questioning the male set of conditions
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nothing wrong with women wanting rich men.
its just like men wanting beautiful women.
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then men shld ask if they are rich enuff to deserve beautiful women and women shld ask themselves if they are beautiful enuff to deserve rich men...
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Originally posted by despondent:
then men shld ask if they are rich enuff to deserve beautiful women and women shld ask themselves if they are beautiful enuff to deserve rich men...
its exactly because of this reason that many are singles.
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Originally posted by Wiser:
you should say it to the one who post this OFFENSIVE title .The title and article is from Straits Times.
If you find it offensive please write to the Straits Times.
I only put it up here for the forummers to read and comments.
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Originally posted by despondent:
then men shld ask if they are rich enuff to deserve beautiful women and women shld ask themselves if they are beautiful enuff to deserve rich men...
your wife must be a ugly one. -
any gender can have their set of conditions....but the outcome of the gender policies must be balanced...
else, this would only aggravate at social psychological levels and we will only see more dissent and lopsided growth for families….
I am glad that some light has been shed by AWARE (finally) on this issue which I have highlighted from my earliest posts till now….