China has passed the million mark for divorces this year, a number higher than their marriages.
You can't stop a divorce or a marriage but the law can protect the women.
As for the $200 crystal nails, i bet most of the Singaporean women used their big FAT bonuses to pay for it. That's how capable we are.
surely u can improve on things...but if any intervention caused it to be lopsided...the problem will overflow...and its time the system should review on what went wrong...
any imbalance is bound to cause greater problems...
women will also have sons...if they do not voice out for more balanced policies...they are doing a disservice for them and future generations....
all their entitled protection is perceived as just plain selfishness....no cause to celebrate...
the point here is that they value their crystal nails than doing the family proud with more household inputs
Originally posted by Wiser:why are the maids doing the work ? because the wife is also working to bring back her salary to pay for the flat, the maid's salary, the household expenses and the children's expenses.
Go and get a China wife but better marry in China . That country has no protection for women in a divorce, it's a man's heaven but a woman's hell. I think mynmar, thailand , philippine also has no protection for their women. Go and find a wife there but don't expect these foreign brides to be able to share the household expenses with a Singaprean man. Worse scenarios, they can only work in sleezy pubs and KTV and give you more headaches.
I am glad i am a Singaporean Lady. With this Woman's Charter, i feel more protected and secure .
Haiz, very soon, you will be protected by FTs soldiers, this country locals are dying out and very soon, only a piece of paper called Women's Charter and a country devoid of citizens but only PRs and the Habsburgic PAP. This paper will turn to ashes along with the last of true Sinkaporeans.
ya ya ...we are already immune with the malaysians and the malaysians PRs. They are the original and earliest FTs. Why nobody mention them?
Originally posted by Wiser:China has passed the million mark for divorces this year, a number higher than their marriages.
You can't stop a divorce or a marriage but the law can protect the women.
As for the $200 crystal nails, i bet most of the Singaporean women used their big FAT bonuses to pay for it. That's how capable we are.
Yes, women are capable but it is all misguided.
Originally posted by Fcukpap:the point here is that they value their crystal nails than doing the family proud with more household inputs
that's not the point.
How many mothers/working Singaporeans ladies wear crystal nails to work? and you want to single out one case?
also fyi crystal nails can only last one week. So give the poor girl a week break.
Originally posted by Askingyouto:Yes, women are capable but it is all misguided.
that's precisely why they need the protection of the law.
criticising others nationality....one has to observe their own faith prior to to the understanding if they deserve that very faith they uphold...perhaps on the front...thats all..
u see....they are bred to be spoiled....
all sides need protection....
not just one side....
thats where women fail to see that point....
they only see theirs.....which is the root cause of the issue
Originally posted by Wiser:
that's precisely why they need the protection of the law.
Government policies have to be balanced and in tune with the present society's needs. Nobody is saying men should not pay alimony or things like that but an adulterous woman can still be paid alimony under the Women's Charter Law.
Too loopsided, forget it, just leave this Sinkapore Inc to its' own eventual money soaked demise.
well said.....they just cannot get it....
no point arguing if it is a one way traffic.
there is no give and take in Woman Charter.
Originally posted by Fcukpap:all sides need protection....
not just one side....
thats where women fail to see that point....
they only see theirs.....which is the root cause of the issue
then it is for the men to fight for their side. Why blame women ? Go and fight for your men's right with the law.
Throughout history, women stand up for their rights and fight for it.
How come you guys only know how to whine ?
its men that fought for women ...which is the original story of women charter.....its a cycle where both sides need to fight for all...for a balance....
that way the country will progress towards greater equality and sustained social stability...
its not whining...aiyo....its a view for a balanced perception for greater good for ALL
Originally posted by Fcukpap:its not whining...aiyo....its a view for a balanced perception for greater good for ALL
greater good for the men, you mean ?
then stop whining and blaming the women. Only useless cowards do that.
Originally posted by Fcukpap:its men that fought for women ...which is the original story of women charter.....its a cycle where both sides need to fight for all...for a balance....
that way the country will progress towards greater equality and sustained social stability...
are you sure it's men who fight for the women ? then these are the real men.
Their perception must have changed after seeing how many women suffered in a marriage and suffered more from a divorce.
Originally posted by Wiser:Throughout history, women stand up for their rights and fight for it.
How come you guys only know how to whine ?
That's why this country cannot be saved, once certain group gain that advantage, they will never cede this advantage, they will adopt a stance that PAP did with great success.
That is ,"You die, your business." Even when the ship is sinking.
There is even a lacking of a shared goal of a common destiny under the country of Sinkapore.
The numbers don't lie, more and more people are not getting married. There's no momentary incentive and there's not even any spiritual values in it at all here.
Humans here are measured by their money earning abilities.
Originally posted by Askingyouto:That's why this country cannot be saved, once certain group gain that advantage, they will never cede this advantage, they will adopt a stance that PAP did with great success.
That is ,"You die, your business." Even when the ship is sinking.
There is even a lacking of a shared goal of a common destiny under the country of Sinkapore.
The numbers don't lie, more and more people are not getting married. There's no momentary incentive and there's not even any spiritual values in it at all here.
Humans here are measured by their money earning abilities.
isn't this the same all over the world? lesser people are getting married in Korea, in Japan.
Cohabitation is a norm in the States and Europe.
at least we do not die of hunger like the South Africa country.
Originally posted by Wiser:
Cohabitation? Good
ya....see that is a loophole from women charter. Cohabitation. Exactly what men want.
But the smart one will get their marriage song.
Originally posted by Wiser:ya....see that is a loophole from women charter. Cohabitation. Exactly what men want.
But the smart one will get their marriage song.
Go fight for that loophole to be closed then,
I will be waiting for capable women to do that.
I think by that time monasteries will be full of men.
There will also be smart men in response to smart women, all this smartness, what will happen to love?
Love is dumb, irrational, repels reasons and reign only in the heart not the brain.
no need la...if a woman is so dumb in love to cohabitate with a man in the name of romance,sex, whatever, then she has chosen to forfeit her right and status of a wife.
like that dumb jack neo's girlfriend lor.
why need to fight for dumb women like them. Let them learn a lesson from the "romantic" men lor.