How many of you here are single by choice or by no choice?
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Single by choice:
- still too young
- can't find better half
- concentrate on study
Single by no choice:
- family restriction
- age gap
- personal reasons
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Women are visual animals as well lah, just that it's harder to be female with the amount of upkeep and grooming society has come to demand.Originally posted by Nata|ie:Men are visual animals.
Given a good looking one with avg character and a below avg looking with a good character.
Which will they choose?
I suppose at first glance they will choose good looking ones with an average character over the plain looking one with an excellent personality. Which means average ones with average personality get tossed. Such is life. -
Ya...Originally posted by soleachip:Women are visual animals as well lah, just that it's harder to be female with the amount of upkeep and grooming society has come to demand.
I suppose at first glance they will choose good looking ones with an average character over the plain looking one with an excellent personality. Which means average ones with average personality get tossed. Such is life.
No wonder so many ppl going under the knife.... -
imo, u r half right.Originally posted by soleachip:Hmmm... so at the end of the day I guess most guys will still go for looks. Which leaves us average looking ones (genetically cursed) with no choice but to forge a better personality. Quite sad really but such is life.
most guys go for looks -> half correct
most guys go for at least shun yan or pleasant look -> correct
it's nearly + almost lust at first sight.
first impression determines whether one wld like to know the latter more and vice versa.
after that, character and personality comes in.
and no gers are born ugly, like wad u say genetically cursed. hahaha..
they can stand out among the rest if they know how to dress.
i believe 90% of the chio bu that you see on the street are not natural borned chio bu. -
indeed.Originally posted by Nata|ie:Men are visual animals.
Given a good looking one with avg character and a below avg looking with a good character.
Which will they choose?
given tom cruise with avg char and mark lee with angel char.
Which will they choose? -
Wa.. girls different...Originally posted by extrinsic:indeed.
given tom cruise with avg char and mark lee with angel char.
Which will they choose?
Of coz like men, they are quite visual. But I trust that quite a number will choose Mark Lee over Tom Cruise. -
well, probl is, are the average ones with average personality willing to go for also average ones with average personality?Originally posted by soleachip:Women are visual animals as well lah, just that it's harder to be female with the amount of upkeep and grooming society has come to demand.
I suppose at first glance they will choose good looking ones with an average character over the plain looking one with an excellent personality. Which means average ones with average personality get tossed. Such is life.
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Different people different perspective...
Not every1 choose looks as first prioty
and not every1 choose character as first prioty
There is always a beauty side of a person....
Mark Lee n Mo Xiao Ling dont look bad at all... it is just tat they advertise themself as tat bad ... -
just like i think there are ppl who will chooce mou xiao ling over ruby lin...Originally posted by Nata|ie:Wa.. girls different...
Of coz like men, they are quite visual. But I trust that quite a number will choose Mark Lee over Tom Cruise.
haha, but the percentage cld be like 1%: 99%
i'm sure this percentage applies to Tom Cruise: Mark lee too
and of cuz, i 'm saying Tom Cruis 99% : Mark Lee 1% and not vice versa -
i am single by no choice.
guess i dont have the qualities a girl looks for in a guy -
Hmm... actually Mark Lee is ok looking de... But I feel freaked out by Tom's obsession in scientology.Originally posted by extrinsic:just like i think there are ppl who will chooce mou xiao ling over ruby lin...
haha, but the percentage cld be like 1%: 99%
i'm sure this percentage applies to Tom Cruise: Mark lee too
and of cuz, i 'm saying Tom Cruis 99% : Mark Lee 1% and not vice versa
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ispyyy, yup, i agree with u.. but generally having a good looks helps.
and having a good looks makes u attached by no/little choice sometimes.. sighz.
heng i have bad looks. haha -
What are the qualities you think that a girl goes for in a guy??Originally posted by thehappybunny:i am single by no choice.
guess i dont have the qualities a girl looks for in a guy -
the usual...honesty, faithfulness, caringOriginally posted by Nata|ie:What are the qualities you think that a girl goes for in a guy??
i don't know about being faithful or caring, but i know that i lie on several occasions, and sometimes i can be quite dishonest -
ya... generally, having a good look helps... but to me, it is not everything... coz, nothing in these world lasts... People character change... Look changes after age n blah.... but however, as I say I m feels more than I see... so generally I will look one for character than looksOriginally posted by extrinsic:ispyyy, yup, i agree with u.. but generally having a good looks helps.
and having a good looks makes u attached by no/little choice sometimes.. sighz.
heng i have bad looks. haha -
Lie and dishonesty.. Hmm.. depending on the situation why u commit?Originally posted by thehappybunny:the usual...honesty, faithfulness, caring
i don't know about being faithful or caring, but i know that i lie on several occasions, and sometimes i can be quite dishonest
If u know its wrong and u still like tat.. then nothing to say liao lor -
Interesting. Then what defines a good personality?
For example, caring, gentle, nurturing etc and what else? -
great, thumbs up again. if the world is more of such guys like u, then tats great. anyway, looks is perspective. often i find a ger nice, but my frds thinks she looks like shit.Originally posted by ispyyy:ya... generally, having a good look helps... but to me, it is not everything... coz, nothing in these world lasts... People character change... Look changes after age n blah.... but however, as I say I m feels more than I see... so generally I will look one for character than looks -
lied to parents on several occasions...mostly telling them i had been studying when i in fact had not beenOriginally posted by Nata|ie:Lie and dishonesty.. Hmm.. depending on the situation why u commit?
If u know its wrong and u still like tat.. then nothing to say liao lor
or saying i had CCA when in fact I headed down to the arcade.
its become a very bad habit, and im really trying to get rid of that -
These type hor... anyone wld have done it before lor.....Originally posted by thehappybunny:lied to parents on several occasions...mostly telling them i had been studying when i in fact had not been
or saying i had CCA when in fact I headed down to the arcade.
its become a very bad habit, and im really trying to get rid of that -
Reminds me of the swan and duck debate. What constitutes a swan and what makes a duck? Or the stallion and the frog.Originally posted by extrinsic:great, thumbs up again. if the world is more of such guys like u, then tats great. anyway, looks is perspective. often i find a ger nice, but my frds thinks she looks like shit.
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Neither! Why settle for the lesser when u can try to own the best of both world while u can? At least till the clock stop ticking. Superficial beauty might be skin deep and fade with ages, but ugliness is ever lasting.Originally posted by Nata|ie:Men are visual animals.
Given a good looking one with avg character and a below avg looking with a good character.
Which will they choose?
Look, wealth, intellectual, health, wit, humour, personality are just some of the ingredients used for the selection of a mate. If lacking in some, make it up in others. At the end of the day, it all bot down to ur concoction, a nest, a companion, fun or just life style, and thus ur criteria. -
actually, there are many guys tat think like me... right now... the guy tat is sitting besides me is one of them..Originally posted by extrinsic:great, thumbs up again. if the world is more of such guys like u, then tats great. anyway, looks is perspective. often i find a ger nice, but my frds thinks she looks like shit.
Probably, u will experience more of these guys in an older age grp lah... -
Define ugliness?Originally posted by EarlNeo:Neither! Why settle for the lesser when u can try to own the best of both world while u can? At least till the clock stop ticking. Superficial beauty might be skin deep and fade with ages, but ugliness is ever lasting.
Look, wealth, intellectual, health, wit, humour, personality are just some of the ingredients used for the selection of a mate. If lacking in some, make it up in others. At the end of the day, it all bot down to ur concoction, a nest, a companion, fun or just life style, and thus ur criteria.
And why ugliness is ever lasting?