What will u do if this happen on u?
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U juz coupled wif a gal..then 2nd day the gal went to her ex bf hse on the 2nd day of their relationship..the gal ask for sex from her ex bf, stay over night to 3rd day, they haf sex again and stay overnight again then 4th day she went home..
Part A-----On the 5th day, the gal told her new bf tat she haf sex wif her ex bf.
If u are the new bf-
1-forgive her wholeheart
2-nv forgive her at all
3-forgive her with motive
Part B-----Lately, the new bf got to know that the gal actually is the 1 who ask for the sex.
If u are the new bf-
1-forgive her wholeheart
2-nv forgive her at all
3-forgive her with motive
Please ans in truly.
to me, i dont believe this kind of guy exist.
for those chose 3 for part A or B, please add on what kind of motive..
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forgive with motive...hmm, what's my motive?
to marry her lor -
both answer r 2 for me. how to forgive a slut?
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Just go watch Italy vs new zealand lor.
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Rofl.. I can smell the fail
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forgive her wif motive? treat her as a sex toy while two timing her
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I gotta give the girl some honesty brownie points for telling the new bf. lol
What happened to the options of
A) Back hand slap the girl
B) Bitch slap the guy down.
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LOL..
the bf noe his gf keep on meeting the ex bf
the power is the guy even noe tat ex bf nt only fk his gf..oso shoot loads inside..
Part C--
If u are the new bf-
1-forgive her wholeheart
2-nv forgive her at all
3-forgive her with motive
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then i will tell her
wth
Juz becoz for sex
u go for ur ex
let Break Up
and go find ur ex lar -
Why still asking for advice ? Wanna play with her continue on, feel sick then break up. Simple
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LOL
relax..the prob is the bf dun wan break up wor..still say 4give her wor
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The guy got seriously some problem, dont tell me its you.
Well since the guy wanna do it the wei da way, then he has to pay for it. Either his gf stops all this, and all happy ending. Or the gf continues this and one day still break.
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definitely nt mi..coz im nt so wei da..im selfish ppl in love..
4 wat love some1 tat can haf sex wif ex bf and nt urself
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Same. Perhaps last time when i am young i did the same mistake. Now never again. love a girl that loves you. Thats all i can say.
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No 2
No 2.
Pui Chao nua!!!!!!!!
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i understand mayb it bout age..but i tin tis kind of ppl who will so wei da 4give tis..mayb nt up to gd ba..LOL
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Part A-----
If u are the new bf-
Ans: Ask the gal and her ex-bf want to have 3 some sex togethers loh.
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Ignorance is bliss..........
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D = bend her over and fuck her hard like a bitch.. after that tell her to go back to her ex bf... then tell her to come back asking u for sex.... then it will be even...
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hmm.....old uncle share my personal life story here....going 30 this year...
together with this girl 3 years, total time i caught her cheating on me, 8 times with 6 different guys...i forgave her every single time.
call me a cuckold? maybe....
i cannot satisfy her? not being egoistic, but she has an orgasm at least once everytime we are making love. how sure am i that she is not faking it? let's just say i am not a novice when it comes to love making....i still get ' invites' from ex gfs....
i am too soft? i assure you, i can be very ' hard' on her. (no pun intended)
the fact is? she is too spoilt and tends to do whatever she likes...this, she admit herself, not i say one. Yet, she really wants to change. Again, not i say one, she said it.
before you judge however, lets get something straight:
i enjoy sex with her, but it doesnt mean that i wun enjoy sex with another gal. was she the best sex partner i had? No. if the opportunity presents itself for me to have sex with another girl, would i do it? Definitely MAYBE....Why? my life is too short not to experience different things...no human likes to eat abalone every day.....including girls.
So, ask yourself this: if you put urself in the same environment with the same thinking and brought up in the same manner like her, would you have succumbed? if the Answer is YES, then you better know that you are no better then her. if you are no better then her, then don't judge, yet.
a good litmus test: answer yourself honestly on the following 3 questions; in succession:
1. do you love him / her and see him / her as a possible companion for life?
2. can he / she fullfill your sexual desires totally? if its a hesitant maybe not....
3. do you find it worthy to stick to 1 partner for sex for the rest of your short life & deprieve yousrlef of other possible experiences in life?
if the answer to qn 2 is a RESOUNDING yes, then you are definitely ready for a lifetime commitment...but whether your parter is or not, that is a different story.
if you had proceeded to qn3, whatever the answer maybe, that answer and the reasons behind it, is YOU; it is who you are and you should NOT be ashamed of who you are.
continuing the long story short: we are still together today, and she is really making a lot of effort to change....and it is really working ....everyday she finds ways and means to prove to me she is trying (or maybe, proving to herself). she has gone 'clean' for the past 1 year. (i assure you, i conduct very very stringent surprise checks on her)
will we get married? we don't know.....but what we do know, is that we probably will never be fully seperated for the rest of our lives, no matter what kind of relationship we will have in future.
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SERIOUSLY YOU ARE A LOSER IF YOU ACCEPT HER PERIOD.
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when i decided to post my life story, i already accepted i would get snide remarks like small-man's, thus am not surprised.
naturally, a man's first instinct would be to say: tell her to fuck off. or be revengeful and create a set up where the girl's life can be destroyed, permanently. i can assure you, having personally lived through this experience, its a mental torture to me, and i have to admit that i sought professional counselling at a point in time.
let me just pose 1 qn here for all to think: take 1 step back and look at the entire thing. you know you would have done the same thing if you were her; so, what is it going to be? it is acceptable for you (the guy) to have sex with others (if you are the kind that will succumb) & still hope she will forgive you, but you will not forgive her if she did the same to you? that's not so much of a man isn't it? more like an egoistic walking piece of meat.
if however, you answered a resounding YES to qn3 (in my previous post), you are obviously a very faithful and principled centred person and hence the above question would not have been applicable to you because you belive in sticking to 1 partner and will feel betrayed if your partner does not do the same. it would be natural.
Thus, small-man; a REAL man don't just see every girl as an outlet of your sexual needs; they see girls as humans who make mistakes too. Period.
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Yeah just blackmail her for sex to mend your broken heart. Elementary, my friends. There's not much emotion left in this world with all the random sex flying around if you ask me.
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Originally posted by Armenium:
hmm.....old uncle share my personal life story here....going 30 this year...
together with this girl 3 years, total time i caught her cheating on me, 8 times with 6 different guys...i forgave her every single time.
call me a cuckold? maybe....
i cannot satisfy her? not being egoistic, but she has an orgasm at least once everytime we are making love. how sure am i that she is not faking it? let's just say i am not a novice when it comes to love making....i still get ' invites' from ex gfs....
i am too soft? i assure you, i can be very ' hard' on her. (no pun intended)
the fact is? she is too spoilt and tends to do whatever she likes...this, she admit herself, not i say one. Yet, she really wants to change. Again, not i say one, she said it.
before you judge however, lets get something straight:
i enjoy sex with her, but it doesnt mean that i wun enjoy sex with another gal. was she the best sex partner i had? No. if the opportunity presents itself for me to have sex with another girl, would i do it? Definitely MAYBE....Why? my life is too short not to experience different things...no human likes to eat abalone every day.....including girls.
So, ask yourself this: if you put urself in the same environment with the same thinking and brought up in the same manner like her, would you have succumbed? if the Answer is YES, then you better know that you are no better then her. if you are no better then her, then don't judge, yet.
a good litmus test: answer yourself honestly on the following 3 questions; in succession:
1. do you love him / her and see him / her as a possible companion for life?
2. can he / she fullfill your sexual desires totally? if its a hesitant maybe not....
3. do you find it worthy to stick to 1 partner for sex for the rest of your short life & deprieve yousrlef of other possible experiences in life?
if the answer to qn 2 is a RESOUNDING yes, then you are definitely ready for a lifetime commitment...but whether your parter is or not, that is a different story.
if you had proceeded to qn3, whatever the answer maybe, that answer and the reasons behind it, is YOU; it is who you are and you should NOT be ashamed of who you are.
continuing the long story short: we are still together today, and she is really making a lot of effort to change....and it is really working ....everyday she finds ways and means to prove to me she is trying (or maybe, proving to herself). she has gone 'clean' for the past 1 year. (i assure you, i conduct very very stringent surprise checks on her)
will we get married? we don't know.....but what we do know, is that we probably will never be fully seperated for the rest of our lives, no matter what kind of relationship we will have in future.
u need help to confirm she have changed??? maybe she havent met a guy that seduce her enough nia... -
I choose both number 2. And will just fk her that day and say bye bye!