How do I approach girls at public swimming pool?

• BeingLucifer

  27 Apr 10, 01:37

  Guys guys... approaching girls is damn easy its all in the mind. AT MOST, get rejected. So what? You think the world so free stare at everything you do? No one even knows la and you will prob never ever meet the girl again. So just be cool, confident and most importantly have the "it doesn't matter" mindset. Just go with the be friends attitude and don't expect anything. Make it look effortless and just a "oh, I needed to talk to someone just anyone, you happen to be around so i'll talk to you". One example of an opener is:

  "I need a female opinion on something. My friend's girlfriend found this box of his that contains all his ex's gifts and wants him to throw it away. do you think thats fair?"

  So the point is the get a female opinion, insert whatever issue you want. But please, focus on topics like relationship, gender issues, controversial issues. NO F&*KING WORLD OF WARCRAFT.

   

• Rooney9

  27 Apr 10, 13:21

  Originally posted by BeingLucifer:

  Guys guys... approaching girls is damn easy its all in the mind. AT MOST, get rejected. So what? You think the world so free stare at everything you do? No one even knows la and you will prob never ever meet the girl again. So just be cool, confident and most importantly have the "it doesn't matter" mindset. Just go with the be friends attitude and don't expect anything. Make it look effortless and just a "oh, I needed to talk to someone just anyone, you happen to be around so i'll talk to you". One example of an opener is:

  "I need a female opinion on something. My friend's girlfriend found this box of his that contains all his ex's gifts and wants him to throw it away. do you think thats fair?"

  So the point is the get a female opinion, insert whatever issue you want. But please, focus on topics like relationship, gender issues, controversial issues. NO F&*KING WORLD OF WARCRAFT.

   

  what about sex topics like how is your sex life and things like that? like how old did u lose your virginity?

• Samthorn

  28 Apr 10, 01:36

  Wear a Rolex while you are swimming.

• theme_and_guess

  28 Apr 10, 09:07

  its always the appearance that is important la.....  cmon, between 19 yr old look-alike brad pitt and a 19 yr old look-alike nerd got maple story logo tattoo on his skeleton chest..... who u tink the girl choose?

• Samthorn

  15 Jun 10, 03:00

  

• I-like-flings(m)

  15 Jun 10, 03:04

  just swim over.. then rub ur cock against her butt... then see what her reaction lor. if she let u rub... that mean on already lor.. u can just take ur cock out and stuff it into her cb from behind lor... if she dun let u rub and scream loud loud and swim away.. that mean u better run away as fast as u can lor.....

• xXLimitXx

  15 Jul 10, 09:50

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  just swim over.. then rub ur cock against her butt... then see what her reaction lor. if she let u rub... that mean on already lor.. u can just take ur cock out and stuff it into her cb from behind lor... if she dun let u rub and scream loud loud and swim away.. that mean u better run away as fast as u can lor.....

  haha agreed ill probably let the guy rub...shows high confidence in themselves lol

• Fenixx

  15 Jul 10, 09:57

  Just walk up to them and then point at your cock : "Excuse me arh, are you responsible for the pointy lil thing down there?"

• ditzy

  15 Jul 10, 09:58

  Wear a rolex.

• -StarDust-

  15 Jul 10, 10:38

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Wear a rolex.

  
  haha lol

• xXLimitXx

  17 Jul 10, 13:10

  Originally posted by Fenixx:

  Just walk up to them and then point at your cock : "Excuse me arh, are you responsible for the pointy lil thing down there?"

  oh sorry i accidentally dropped a needle...

• XxYaNxX

  19 Jul 10, 01:36

  Drown.

• Just_do_it_lah

  19 Jul 10, 01:43

  Originally posted by XxYaNxX:

  Drown.

  
  the lifeguards are all guys....

  the girls will *phui* at you... thinking that u are a louzy swimmer... lol.

• Just_do_it_lah

  19 Jul 10, 01:44

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Wear a rolex.

  wear a LV swimming trunk...

• Just_do_it_lah

  19 Jul 10, 04:54

  give them these...

• Jacky88

  19 Jul 10, 21:28

  Here the tips http://d622aecb.linkbucks.com :D

• littlemissbonkers

  20 Jul 10, 16:14

  Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:

  give them these...

  

  Go geylang la

• iceFatboy

  20 Jul 10, 16:22

  well, a smile if ur eyes meeting during swimming and best is if U can approach her after you two have swam.

  then just wait for her outside the changing room and just chit chat.. maybe a drink @ nearby starbucks or something.

   

• Edward.yeo89

  23 Jul 10, 00:47

  Give them a confident smile.

   

  Dont focus on yourself, focus on them,

   

  If u see them wink at you, or show a positive facial expression,

   

  go over, Imagine yourself on a Beach with or whateer, make it a calm place

   

  Remember, imagination will give u energy and motivation to do what u want.

• Just_do_it_lah

  23 Jul 10, 01:25

  better don't

  the swimming pools authorities have been catching these "pervs" and hanged them ....

  

  are u one of these BUAYAs ???

• Just_do_it_lah

  23 Jul 10, 01:33

  wear this... be frank to the ladies....

  

• Paulsing

  23 Jul 10, 17:37

  Try a mankini........it worked for him

• Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1)

  23 Jul 10, 17:45

  Pretend to drown
  
  if fail
  
  
  u suay

• Uraniumfish

  1 Aug 10, 20:40

  When they are walking, walk towards them from the opposite direction. From about 2 metres  away, act like you have slipped and then "fall" towards them making sure that your hands grab on to their boobs for support. 

  THAT is how you approach them.

• Hugh Hefner

  2 Aug 10, 12:50

  Fran,

  You should try underwater sex. It is very safe because all the STD germs die in the clorine. Plus it is very suspense to have sex underwater while everybody is on the surface. Make sure you bring your snorkel.