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• oliodome

  8 Apr 10, 16:37

  Ok..thanks..

• littlemissbonkers

  8 Apr 10, 16:38

  welcome :)

  Hope your hubby is telling the truth

• Saltiga

  8 Apr 10, 17:54

  much to the common myth.. such places dun always tends to leads to guys bring gals out for a bang.. places like Pudong, Macau, Dongmen are relatively cheaper and those gals are indeed more willing to go out even during "working hours" places like TAM, LV, DC, Lido Palace and so on tends to have gals of slightly higher standard and most of then time they dun really hanky panky.. maybe a couple of guys do touch them (probably they see their 50-200 bucks bigger then cow wheel) to just make their spending worthwhile, but generally most just sit and chit chat.. however, its still not healthy for a married man to be always at such places as they might just lost control of themselves in time to come..  even thou 65% are make up of married man... and when they lost control even afternoon might no longer be safe... they can just go and bang those KTV gals during the afternoon..

• multipleviews

  8 Apr 10, 18:01

  u know wat u can do to avoid ur husband from going to those place??? simple. go and work there urself.. if ur husband and frens visit go and seat on the friend's lap.. see if ur husband still wanna go or not.....   

• Rooney9

  8 Apr 10, 18:08

  if it doesnt bother you, close one eyes lar. peace at home.

• oliodome

  8 Apr 10, 18:49

  Thanks all for the info and advice..

   

  I already close 2 eyes liao..he go at least once a week sometimes twice..If go once a month still within my acceptable level but weekly I can't help but think why...

   

  I know men don't like women to nag esp this type of things but sometimes really hard to tahan..

   

  If not because the kids are young, divorce is my immediate solution liao coz meaningless relationship like that.

• Rooney9

  8 Apr 10, 18:51

  make him feel guilty. if he is guilty, he will treat you better. ask him to buy you LV bag or expensive shoes lar, since he can afford to go ktv and tip the hostess.

• oliodome

  8 Apr 10, 19:10

  

• multipleviews

  8 Apr 10, 19:17

  Originally posted by oliodome:

  

  
  do u still have sex with husband?? this will shows lot of things.. from this can deduce if ur husband doing hanky panky... 

• oliodome

  9 Apr 10, 09:05

  Sex is once a month, twice max. He sway sway one day I asked him for it then he say too tired, later in the night I woke up and found him looking at AV jap gals and masterbating at the same time. That really put me off for quite some time.

   

  Maybe he's got taste for young fair gals..

• TTFU

  9 Apr 10, 09:10

  Thats bad, maybe can go on a holiday together or what loh, bring back the fire again

• oliodome

  9 Apr 10, 09:49

  Just came back from a Phuket trip in Jan, dun seem to have improvement..

   

  See how la..take things as it comes..

   

  命里有时终须有 命里无时莫强求

• TTFU

  9 Apr 10, 10:19

  If like that really very wat.... or talk to your hubby about it loh, treat it as a final de salvage to this marriage. Or try to change your style, wear more sexy, does it help ?

• oliodome

  9 Apr 10, 10:26

  Am changing my style..In the making

   

  Changing for my own good also..

• TTFU

  9 Apr 10, 10:27

  Yup, theres some marriage counselling hotline i think. Get some professional help there loh

• Briandeegan2010

  11 Apr 10, 14:14

  ask me about anitin.. i noe evrything about ktv and e girls.. service, tipping and all..

  ask me ok..

• Briandeegan2010

  11 Apr 10, 14:23

  ask me about anyting.. i noe ktv girls well.. ask me n dont be shy.. i can xplain to u in evry dtails..

• Saltiga

  12 Apr 10, 14:27

  Originally posted by Briandeegan2010:

  ask me about anyting.. i noe ktv girls well.. ask me n dont be shy.. i can xplain to u in evry dtails..

  whats the going for Lido Palace? and whats the going for Dynasty Classic singer??

• As romanista2001

  12 Apr 10, 14:32

  Originally posted by multipleviews:

  u know wat u can do to avoid ur husband from going to those place??? simple. go and work there urself.. if ur husband and frens visit go and seat on the friend's lap.. see if ur husband still wanna go or not.....   

   

  sound advice.....................some more can earn extra money at the same time hor..................

• chase788

  12 Apr 10, 17:18

  how about just asking him direct on his activities? if he is adult he will not shun.

   

  how about his friends? what are they like?

• Edwin78

  14 Apr 10, 14:37

  try going out to clubs on the days he goes, an eye for an eye that's what i think. at least, let him have a taste himself. just tell him you're not doing anything 'FUNNY' like he is not doing.

• kopiosatu

  14 Apr 10, 14:43

  $20-30 isn't gonna get you any service from the girls

• troublemaker2005

  14 Apr 10, 15:47

  Got problem getting attention from your husbands getting them jealous? Pm me i can help with advices Practical and theory

• Veggie Bao

  14 Apr 10, 17:00

  I think u must do something drastic....

  Because otherwise it will drag on.....and will last for years.....so u will suffer for a long time....for many years.....

  You wil be like Irene Kg (wife of Jack Neo) who become a long-suffering wife.....

  So I hope u can become like Elin Woods (wife of Tiger Woods) who did something drastic and made her husband break the habit and enter a rehabilitation centre.

  Well.....Im not saying u should make him enter a rehab centre....but definitely...u must do something drastic and strong......to force a change......If u dont steer the change now....and affect a change in direction.....it will be bigger and bigger and suck u worse into a dark pool.....

  Dont worry about causing fights or arguments....its temporary and its for a good purpose....

  You may want to talk to some relatives and friends and get a plan.......