Husband prefers matsurbation to sex
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try some toys with him .new positions n ask him to go for lessons or u should get someone older with xperience
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Originally posted by Junyang700:
Its painful. I cant do that. =X
try harder lah, sure can one.................and it'll be worth the effort..............
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Originally posted by TTFU:
omg nice necklaces
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Maybe i can help Pm me please JermainToh.
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
Maybe i can help Pm me please JermainToh.
Your name suggest otherwise
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
er i guess
everyday eat chicken rice will sian one.
oh oh chicken rice is so scary -
Hmm.....i wonder how this wife looks like that till her own husband does matsurbation next to her in bed ????? OMG
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Originally posted by HKFS88:
Hmm.....i wonder how this wife looks like that till her own husband does matsurbation next to her in bed ????? OMG
erm... she has already said she is fairly attractive...
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Originally posted by goofyzell:
erm... she has already said she is fairly attractive...
Very attractive
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Very attractive
OMG... didnt know your taste is so unique...
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then you matsurbate infront of him as well lor.. that should makes him horny and comes to you.. you know, it can be fun playing with yourself while the other party looks on.. sure he'll have a hardon.. if this fail then start divovice proceeding.. he might have someone behind you...
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Hi....
I think......
For once a week......it is still considered normal.....
So when you say "husband prefers masturbation to sex"
Maybe it is not 100% correct.
Maybe he "performs masturbation in conjuction to sex"
I believe the sex frequency and the intimacy is still normal.
After 2 years, it is possible that the frequency decrease, that is also normal. But at once a week, it is still Ok.
As to why he masturbate and how to make him stop.....mmm....this is difficult to say....maybe you can have a chat with him? Ask him deeper......why he like to masturbate at night......is he having insomnia or what....
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To masturbate, imagination is needed. When he is masturbating he is having imaginary sex.
Instead of masturbating he should be banging you, at least every other day, at times even twice a day.
You say you keep yourself, very clean. That sometimes work against you, as you also wash away your body chemical thats sexually attractive.
On his part he is horny, no doubt about that. But he need to bother you. To ask you to engage in sex. Annoying you should be a secondary concern.
Previously, it has been one thing that leads to another, and end in sexual intercourse. There is petting, kissing, and rubbing, erection, arousal, and then penetration. This is slowly truncated to, "Want to ____x-x_____?" (whatever is your pet word for sexual intercourse), and as laziness sets in, he don't want to bother anymore. The more he masturbates the less sex he performs. Actually each masturbation should be one round of sex.
The thing is now to spice things up, experiment with more sexual activities whatever, it is now ok between consenting adults within the privacy of you own home, and see what he like. Has he perform cunnilingus on you? Its addictive to some men simply because it gives the women a body shaking tickle and this is extremely arousing. Maybe he likes a blow job, but don't let him ejaculate, tell him he must do the conventional way.
He must want to ____x-x___ with you. You have to find out what he finds irresistable
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talk dirty to him. sure can!
like...
"dear.. i want you to f*ck me good....."
see. so many guys reading my previous sentence having a hard-on now. -
Originally posted by FireIce:
there are times when man need to bond with himself
LOOOOL. Self-bonding xD
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Originally posted by Jermainetohtoh:
I am a married woman in my late 20s.
I am now in my 2nd year of marriage, and lately I find that my husband prefers to matsurbate rather than have sex with me.
We have sex like for once a week or so, then most of the time I will catch him masturbating in the middle of the night.
Even when its weekend and we don’t have to work, even when I am lying next to him, he will choose to masturbate over having sex with me.
I do not find myself ugly, instead I find myself fairly attractive and slim.
I take care of myself, I smell good and look good for him.
I feel very unattractive when he does that, I have told him before, but he still does it after apologizing.
We do not have kids for now, I do not get why he finds me undesirable anymore.
He used to do it with me a lot, but lately, we only do it at most once a week.
So guys, can you help to advise me?
Will like to know why would a man want to pass sex with a young woman and masturbate instead?
I am miserable.
Ask him what he wants. Some people prefer... variety. If the normal sex you have is boring, maybe he's too shy to lazy to bring it up to you. What for bring it up if he thinks you won't be receptive to his fantasies? Might as well DIY mah.
So yups. Maybe you and your husband might share the same fantasies... do yourself a favour and ask him what he wants. ;)
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Sex has to be spontaneous.
One party must want it. Be horny.
Then schemes about how to "get" it.
When this initial stage is settled positively.
Then only variety can be considered.
If you want to try kinky sex from the onset, to arouse the uninterested party, then the performance anxiety sets in and this would affect arousal.
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MAYBE YOUR HUSBAND HAS A FLING. OOPSS...
I KNOW THERE ARE MANY MARRIED MEN OUT THERE LOOKING FOR FLING.
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Have you ever seduce him after marriage? If not, do that, don't wait for him to make the first move.
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i think any normal guy will prefer sex than to masturbation right???
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If the guy is not interested in the girl. He wont
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I am generalising. maybe the hubby sexed too many times and get bored? with the same women every night, every week, every months and every year. got to the point that he cant get erected and stimulated even.
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no comments from TS le....
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She prefers masterbating instead of posting in forums
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Originally posted by TTFU:
She prefers masterbating instead of posting in forums
oic... hee hee...