Husband prefers matsurbation to sex

• Jermainetohtoh

  5 Apr 10, 11:24

  I am a married woman in my late 20s.

  I am now in my 2nd year of marriage, and lately I find that my husband prefers to matsurbate rather than have sex with me.

  We have sex like for once a week or so, then most of the time I will catch him masturbating in the middle of the night.

  Even when its weekend and we don’t have to work, even when I am lying next to him, he will choose to masturbate over having sex with me.

  I do not find myself ugly, instead I find myself fairly attractive and slim.

  I take care of myself, I smell good and look good for him.

  I feel very unattractive when he does that, I have told him before, but he still does it after apologizing.

  We do not have kids for now, I do not get why he finds me undesirable anymore.

  He used to do it with me a lot, but lately, we only do it at most once a week.

  So guys, can you help to advise me?

  Will like to know why would a man want to pass sex with a young woman and masturbate instead?

  I am miserable. 

• Shoomburger

  5 Apr 10, 12:38

  Maybe you can find someone else instead of him, or have a hard one for onces....

• TTFU

  5 Apr 10, 12:44

  Did you ask him the reasons ? I guess you should take initiative if you want sex. I guess you should communicate more with him. Maybe find some time to go on a romantic holiday together, to bring the passion back.

• FireIce

  5 Apr 10, 12:50

  there are times when man need to bond with himself

• littlemissbonkers

  5 Apr 10, 13:05

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  there are times when man need to bond with himself

  
  o_O

  how you know?

  

• theme_and_guess

  5 Apr 10, 13:07

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  
  o_O

  how you know?

  

  
  bcos baby are u down down down down down... downnnn

  even if the sky is falling down..

  juz let it be.. come here bring yr body next to me.. i take u away..HEY!!

  lets get on our private gateaway.. so leave it behind cos we have a great escape....

   

  so baby dont worry... u are nobody even if the sky is falling down

• littlemissbonkers

  5 Apr 10, 13:11

  Originally posted by theme_and_guess:

  
  bcos baby are u down down down down down... downnnn

  even if the sky is falling down..

  juz let it be.. come here bring yr body next to me.. i take u away..HEY!!

  lets get on our private gateaway.. so leave it behind cos we have a great escape....

   

  so baby dont worry... u are nobody even if the sky is falling down

  ...

  what the hell was that about?

  

• Fuck PAP & Lee Kuan Yew

  5 Apr 10, 13:12

  you worry too much, it is normal for men to matsurbate. I don't think it has anything to do with you.

• gunner77

  5 Apr 10, 15:22

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  there are times when man need to bond with himself

  
  X2

  This is true. Don't think too much Jermainetohtoh.

• BadzMaro

  5 Apr 10, 15:31

  i tot topic was

  "Hundreds prefer masturbation"

   

• Forbiddensinner

  5 Apr 10, 15:35

  Originally posted by Jermainetohtoh:

  I am a married woman in my late 20s.

  I am now in my 2nd year of marriage, and lately I find that my husband prefers to matsurbate rather than have sex with me.

  We have sex like for once a week or so, then most of the time I will catch him masturbating in the middle of the night.

  Even when its weekend and we don’t have to work, even when I am lying next to him, he will choose to masturbate over having sex with me.

  I do not find myself ugly, instead I find myself fairly attractive and slim.

  I take care of myself, I smell good and look good for him.

  I feel very unattractive when he does that, I have told him before, but he still does it after apologizing.

  We do not have kids for now, I do not get why he finds me undesirable anymore.

  He used to do it with me a lot, but lately, we only do it at most once a week.

  So guys, can you help to advise me?

  Will like to know why would a man want to pass sex with a young woman and masturbate instead?

  I am miserable. 

   

  Talk to him about it.

  No communication = Problem won't get solve

   

• As romanista2001

  5 Apr 10, 15:37

  Originally posted by Jermainetohtoh:

  I am a married woman in my late 20s.

  I am now in my 2nd year of marriage, and lately I find that my husband prefers to matsurbate rather than have sex with me.

  We have sex like for once a week or so, then most of the time I will catch him masturbating in the middle of the night.

  Even when its weekend and we don’t have to work, even when I am lying next to him, he will choose to masturbate over having sex with me.

  I do not find myself ugly, instead I find myself fairly attractive and slim.

  I take care of myself, I smell good and look good for him.

  I feel very unattractive when he does that, I have told him before, but he still does it after apologizing.

  We do not have kids for now, I do not get why he finds me undesirable anymore.

  He used to do it with me a lot, but lately, we only do it at most once a week.

  So guys, can you help to advise me?

  Will like to know why would a man want to pass sex with a young woman and masturbate instead?

  I am miserable. 

   

  if this is not another load of bullcrap then you oughta be ashamed of yourself since you say you're quite attractive................reason can only be that you're a ''dead fish'' in bed.................

  solution ? you gotta pay and seek advice from those women of ill repute on howto brush up your skills in bed...................watching porn for reference simply will not do................

  also, you can seek out helpful male members of this great forum to be your practice partners.........after all nothing beats practice...............your hubby will reap the benefits and your marriage will improve !

• Junyang700

  5 Apr 10, 15:40

  Try to get an answer from him the next time he rejects you?
  
  Anyway, probably it hurts doing with you, rather than masturbating, cos he may be just fondling.
  
  Some men have tight foreskin, so they prefer fondling only.

• allulu69

  5 Apr 10, 15:45

  Originally posted by Fuck PAP & Lee Kuan Yew:

  you worry too much, it is normal for men to matsurbate. I don't think it has anything to do with you.

  
  "Normal" ?

  NO way man! the guy must be sick to matturbate infornt of his wife.

• _Da_Dood_

  5 Apr 10, 15:45

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  ...

  what the hell was that about?

  

  
  tng..save ur breath...missbonkers' cheena dun understand one =D

• As romanista2001

  5 Apr 10, 15:47

  can pull foreskin back behind the ''head'' mah..................that's why the jews and muslims do circumcision.............the guy can last longer plus both guy and girl will feel a whole lot better.................of course the jews and muslims give a bogus reason for circumcision.

• Junyang700

  5 Apr 10, 15:49

  Originally posted by As romanista2001:

  can pull foreskin back behind the ''head'' mah..................that's why the jews and muslims do circumcision.............the guy can last longer plus both guy and girl will feel a whole lot better.................of course the jews and muslims give a bogus reason for circumcision.

  Its painful. I cant do that. =X

• toasty

  5 Apr 10, 21:25

  Post a pic and we will be the one to judge your appearance

• TTFU

  5 Apr 10, 21:27

  

• laurence82

  5 Apr 10, 21:28

  Originally posted by toasty:

  Post a pic and we will be the one to judge your appearance

  

• I-like-flings(m)

  5 Apr 10, 21:31

  Originally posted by toasty:

  Post a pic and we will be the one to judge your appearance

  
  X10000000..... trouble shoot what... step by step finding out the problem....

• ChoCoChips

  5 Apr 10, 21:37

  er i guess

  everyday eat chicken rice will sian one.

   

   

• dibilo

  5 Apr 10, 21:44

  did you always reject his advance, giving excuse like tired or too busy before? Or do you always tie sex with a condition? If you do, then men will slowly lose interest in having sex with you.

• caleb_chiang

  5 Apr 10, 21:53

  Most probably thinking of another person while doing it...

• I LOVE LIVERPOOL SO MUCH

  5 Apr 10, 22:30

  Originally posted by Jermainetohtoh:

  I am a married woman in my late 20s.

  I am now in my 2nd year of marriage, and lately I find that my husband prefers to matsurbate rather than have sex with me.

  We have sex like for once a week or so, then most of the time I will catch him masturbating in the middle of the night.

  Even when its weekend and we don’t have to work, even when I am lying next to him, he will choose to masturbate over having sex with me.

  I do not find myself ugly, instead I find myself fairly attractive and slim.

  I take care of myself, I smell good and look good for him.

  I feel very unattractive when he does that, I have told him before, but he still does it after apologizing.

  We do not have kids for now, I do not get why he finds me undesirable anymore.

  He used to do it with me a lot, but lately, we only do it at most once a week.

  So guys, can you help to advise me?

  Will like to know why would a man want to pass sex with a young woman and masturbate instead?

  I am miserable. 

   

  u must be animal.u sex like monster.no wonder ur hubby scared