so the idea of this question is because....?
cb kia.
yawn
pcc save your from getting aids, rather than visiting red light.
pcc save your from getting aids, rather than visiting red light.
pcc save your from getting aids, rather than visiting red light.
Originally posted by jaseph:Just to share with y'all
Here are the top 10 reasons why men cheat:
1. Because they had the option. The old saying 'men are only as faithful as their options' can sometimes ring true. Men don't get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.
2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men don't feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex any more and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There's nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.
3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn't have as much in common as you thought. He's met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.
4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.
5. He's fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don't know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.
6. Your sex life sucks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn't getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from getting boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old fashioned sex'
8. It's new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That's why men don't necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.
9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of 'what she doesn't know, won't hurt her,' he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.
10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them.
haha...this is very well researched...no:3,4,5 & 8 make the most sense...especially no: 4.
Basket....Am going to off the lights at my section, where it does not receive sunlight.
And since no one is here.....might as well lay my head on the table to sleep to catch up.
Nitez....morning all!
Originally posted by Kimosabe83:haha...this is very well researched...no:3,4,5 & 8 make the most sense...especially no: 4.
Cause you fulfil all those points mah.. hahaha..
Originally posted by jaseph:Cause you fulfil all those points mah.. hahaha..
but it makes a lot of sense either way...nothing to do with me ma..
How come jaseph know the reason y guys cheat on their wife n stil asking for is it acceptable if guys cheat on their wife leh?? swtz....
Originally posted by eXia:How come jaseph know the reason y guys cheat on their wife n stil asking for is it acceptable if guys cheat on their wife leh?? swtz....
That info is googled and shared, and I'm asking whether is it acceptable for men to cheat is because I want to know the public views. Geddit?
Also "why guys cheat..." and "Is it acceptable for men to cheat" is TWO DIFFERENT THING!
TS, are you here to garner support for your already existing extramarital affair or contemplation of extramarital affair???
i dun think married man should play after marriage. if you still wanna play why even get married in the 1st place?
Originally posted by goofyzell:i dun think married man should play after marriage. if you still wanna play why even get married in the 1st place?
It is unfortunate for wives to have such husbands. These guys need to be castrated
Originally posted by Fantagf:
It is unfortunate for wives to have such husbands. These guys need to be castrated
Agree.
lol.. but u and i know.. these guys always manage to spread thier seeds one. So no matter how u look at it, thier genes will survive.. hahaha
Originally posted by Fantagf:TS, are you here to garner support for your already existing extramarital affair or contemplation of extramarital affair???
No. not married yet.
Originally posted by jaseph:No. not married yet.
whatever, it is good to practise restraint. take care of your body and the body of the gals as well. YOu don't know if the sex partner you are going to bed with have Aids or not
Originally posted by Fantagf:
whatever, it is good to practise restraint. take care of your body and the body of the gals as well. YOu don't know if the sex partner you are going to bed with have Aids or not
wad? u think i'm male?
Originally posted by TonyG:so the idea of this question is because....?
May be TS plan to "tou chi" after marriage and come here ask for feedback
Originally posted by jaseph:wad? u think i'm male?
sorry, if you are female.
you did not make known the gender
Originally posted by Fantagf:
May be TS plan to "tou chi" after marriage and come here ask for feedback
yayayayay you're right.
I just assume everyone here is male. lol
Originally posted by BadzMaro:I just assume everyone here is male. lol
+1