Prefer handjob to sex, is there anything wrong with me?
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I am 27 years old male.
Currently I found I prefer hand job to real sex with my girlfriend.
Before I have sex with my girl, I did masturbation quite often. I have a high sexual desire. Normally I shot around 10 times per week. At that time I was thinking if I can have sex with a girl, which would be wonderful.
After I have sex with my girl, I found I enjoy hand job more than sex. Currently she just helped me to do hand job everyday. And I like it very much.
Is there anything wrong with me?
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U masturbate too much liaw brudda..
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Maybe you are too used t having a handjob and the feeling of real sex is new to you. It might also be that you use too much force when you pcc and the actual sex is unable to give you as strong a feeling as you do with your hand which makes it less pleasurable.
Maybe try a few more times and tell your gf what makes you more high and horny might help.
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Originally posted by zuouz:
Before I have sex with my girl, I did masturbation quite often. I have a high sexual desire. Normally I shot around 10 times per week. At that time I was thinking if I can have sex with a girl, which would be wonderful.
Wah seh...
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interesting...
handjob is much safer...
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Heard of this condition & agree with dkcx - u prob use too much strength when u pcc. No matter how strong or tight the vagina is, it can't compare with the grip of a human hand (& a male one at that).
U could try masturbating with a 'light' hand - use less strength lah..Let your dick get used to the feeling of less 'force' or 'grip'. Be gentler..
In the meantime, maybe u & yr gf could also try out different positions? Different postitions - yr dick gets rubbed different ways & it shd feel gd for yr gf as well.
Does she feel lousy that she's not getting sex? Be sensitive to her feelings as well, yah..
Good luck!
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Wah...interesting answers here!!
Like what Miss Z said:
"Does she feel lousy that she's not getting sex? Be sensitive to her feelings as well "
Becareful of her feelings....
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no bj?
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hj good. help the penis to grow bigger
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Actually, she doesn't want to have sex with everyday.
That's why she can only help me to do hand job everyday.
Sometimes we only have sex twice per month, the rest are all hand job.
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And you never service her back?
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think u are doing it wrong....
or she din enjoy while doing it with u.....
trust me... if u are doing it rite....
hand job will b the last thing both u and ur gf want.....
try doing some reading on how to improve ur sex life.... and seek frens advice or help.....
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Your Gf got big hands or small hands?
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down there not tight enough is it?
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you see kids .... that's why masturbation is baaaaaad ......
makes you unable to enjoy normal, straight forward sex ... in addition to causing carpal tunnel of course ......
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u shld totally stay away frm such activities.
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Originally posted by zuouz:
Actually, she doesn't want to have sex with everyday.
That's why she can only help me to do hand job everyday.
Sometimes we only have sex twice per month, the rest are all hand job.
I think she also like to use her hand??? Both way, you happy, she also happy mah... -
next time ask her to use her mouth la