5 years ago my penis is working very very fine and super good with my ex gf.
After 5 yrs, I found a new love & the shitty thing about it was I cant seems to get an errection to stay long enough.
No sex for 5 yrs but I still masturbate frequently, although the hardness is different fro the past..
Everytime when I tried to enter her, it just soften, I tried many times and its the same old thing.
What happened? This is really depressing...
When we were foreplaying, the hardness is there, it just happen when Im always going to enter, it soften..
Im 21 this yr, any ways to help overcoming this problem?
I workout frequently & is of an average build.
Please help me :(
here are the possibilities, pick one
1. Your yang has been depleted (shouldn't have wanked 10 times a day the last time)
2. You're not that into your new gf
3. You're turning gay
4. You kenna gong tau by your ex
5. You're destined for celibate monkhood.
I used to wank 4 times a day (not everyday)...
My gf is pretty hot and seductive.. as I said when durnig foreplay it still works.
Not sure if my last yr's ex have to do with it anot, we only pet and didnt have sex.
wanking desensitizes the shaft you know ......
that's probably the reason ......
who ask u to pcc so many times in one day
see la, cock spoil already
But during foreplay still can leh... & i just now go wank to test the machine and it still works... Just that somehow the blood flow got some problem...like become soft demn fast... It really tarnished my ego, I used to tell her how gd mi on bed...and this happened...I cant face her anymore...argh
I don't think being stress will help since that might make things worse.
When you mentioned a difference in hardness, how different do you mean it is?
Do you soften just as quickly if you were to masturbate and just stop, watching porn etc or is it just before you are attempting to penetrate only?
1) How old are you and I mean how old are you?
2)Are you presently suffering from any ailment?
3)What is your stress level like these days?
4)Have you visited a Urologist lately?
If for some reasons you refuse to answer any of these questions then just let the blue wonder pill answer them for you.
It can go up to solid hard but it will soften itself within seconds. Just before penetrating it soften itself.
21 years old, was on medication on antidepressant for ard 4 mths and stopped 2 mths ago. No much stress actually...until this problem surface when we trying sex. & nope I nv visit a nrogist b4.
I think it's pretty sad to have to rely on viagra at 21 yrs old... v throw face...haiz..
Originally posted by ReallyNeedHelp:It can go up to solid hard but it will soften itself within seconds. Just before penetrating it soften itself.
21 years old, was on medication on antidepressant for ard 4 mths and stopped 2 mths ago. No much stress actually...until this problem surface when we trying sex. & nope I nv visit a nrogist b4.
I think it's pretty sad to have to rely on viagra at 21 yrs old... v throw face...haiz..
Does it only happens for sex only or do you soften easily in other cases as well?
The drugs might have effects but different drugs affect the body for different durations so its hard to say. After the initial failure, do you keep having the thoughts and worries that you might fail again in subsequent tries since having such thoughts would likely affect your concentration etc.
it also happen during masturbating as well, it just not as gd as how it used to. The anti depressant I had will affect sexual performance, but I stoppe for 2 mths already so I don't know why is this happening. The thought is running in my head for the past few days, I keep on finding solution to it on the internet...
Do polyclinic take such cases?
Originally posted by ReallyNeedHelp:it also happen during masturbating as well, it just not as gd as how it used to. The anti depressant I had will affect sexual performance, but I stoppe for 2 mths already so I don't know why is this happening. The thought is running in my head for the past few days, I keep on finding solution to it on the internet...
Do polyclinic take such cases?
Maybe give yourself abit more time to let the drugs be cleared from your system. Some drugs can take 6 months to a year even before its throughly cleared.
If you still masturbate very frequently, maybe cut it down abit as well. Too much masturbation and the degree of force you use when you do it might make your penis requires high amounts of physical stimulation to maintain the erection.
I don't really think polyclinic would take such cases since they would likely have to sent you to a specialist in such areas.
i understand it would be a huge blow to a guy's ego for such a thing to happen. Just let more time pass and see whether theres any improvement in the situation.
get urself drunk then have sex la..
maybe is tat pills u're on previously?
the side effect might not go away tat fast?
Originally posted by Cool-gal:get urself drunk then have sex la..
maybe is tat pills u're on previously?
the side effect might not go away tat fast?
my dear .... there's the whiskey dick syndrome ....
that's why being drunk is not an admissible defense for rape; drunken men can't get it up .....
By right you should have a hard on often even while sleeping.Please don't forget to buy a copy of Men's Fitness Magazine from time to time I am sure some answers found there is better than taking crap advice here.I also think you should learn to relax first before trying to screw somebody>LOL
TS, maybe u can try to target guys? if u can stand then its normal XD
Originally posted by ReallyNeedHelp:5 years ago my penis is working very very fine and super good with my ex gf.
After 5 yrs, I found a new love & the shitty thing about it was I cant seems to get an errection to stay long enough.
No sex for 5 yrs but I still masturbate frequently, although the hardness is different fro the past..
Everytime when I tried to enter her, it just soften, I tried many times and its the same old thing.
What happened? This is really depressing...
When we were foreplaying, the hardness is there, it just happen when Im always going to enter, it soften..
Im 21 this yr, any ways to help overcoming this problem?
I workout frequently & is of an average build.
Please help me :(
See a doctor.
Give the drugs more time to clear out of your system and stop "masturbating" so much.
Originally posted by Babelfish:TS, maybe u can try to target guys? if u can stand then its normal XD
Wah, don't say like that le, like that hurt him a lot lol. Anyway, you might be too nervous. And pls don't mastubate so much, it's not good for KKJ.
Workout frequently in gym center doesn't mean you can workout frequently in your bed. If your energy is use for the whole body, do you think your DD have energy to raise up its head?
Erm... you think ppl here can help? Even can, they would need to see what happen... so... care to show?
I guess I will stop mast for the time being.
I may try some health supplements too..
I think doctor/viagra will be my last resort :/
Originally posted by ReallyNeedHelp:I guess I will stop mast for the time being.
I may try some health supplements too..
I think doctor/viagra will be my last resort :/
TS, it wont work de..
Do you have an erection when you see hot, muscular guys?
poor boy, bring it back to live~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~