How to make friend with a girl?

• Cupidnine

  20 Jan 09, 18:14

  Ok,many times I failed to have girl friend because I didn't know how to talk (chat up) a girl.

  First stage, my eye contact to a number of girls is really ok. But I am really blurred to go on next stage.

  Help me, love experts!

• ChingAlvin

  20 Jan 09, 18:39

  Act as per normal, you would have to when u are with her in the future right?
  
  Unless u can act for the entire lifetime.

• Cupidnine

  20 Jan 09, 18:48

  Act as per normal, you would have to when u are with her in the future right?
  
  Unless u can act for the entire lifetime.

  Yes,act as per normal as u told. but what is nice words to start a good conversation with that girl. is that "hi,how r u?"? or "Nice to meet u"?

   

• SBS261P

  20 Jan 09, 19:05

  must be yourself... juz talk normally and must smile.

  but what do i noe? i'm super single

• Detached

  20 Jan 09, 19:08

  You: Hi

  Girl: Erm... Hi?

  You: You had me at "hi"

   

  

• Daisuke-kun

  20 Jan 09, 19:08

  u wan sex den just say lar.

   

• caleb_chiang

  20 Jan 09, 19:10

  You want to be friends or pick up a ONS?

• BrUtUs

  20 Jan 09, 21:09

  Originally posted by Cupidnine:

  Ok,many times I failed to have girl friend because I didn't know how to talk (chat up) a girl.

  First stage, my eye contact to a number of girls is really ok. But I am really blurred to go on next stage.

  Help me, love experts!

   

  where u intend to do it? go watch tv n learn... before u act, ask urself if u r presentable 1st?

• jondizzle foshizzle

  20 Jan 09, 21:14

  You've come to the wrong place for relationship advice. This is an internet forum, home of geeks who live with their parents and lacking in social lives. You will find no help with girls on the internets so don't bother.

• Daisuke-kun

  20 Jan 09, 21:15

  Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:

  You've come to the wrong place for relationship advice. This is an internet forum, home of geeks who live with their parents and lacking in social lives. You will find no help with girls on the internets so don't bother.

  how do you know?????

• kelvintwt

  21 Jan 09, 01:02

  i also cant talk much to girls.....only know that...just talk like normal..like talking to normal human lor..correct?

  lol

• seotiblizzard

  21 Jan 09, 01:08

  Originally posted by Detached:

  You: Hi

  Girl: Erm... Hi?

  You: You had me at "hi"

   

  

  . You had me at hello.

• Leroy Brown

  21 Jan 09, 21:33

  1st things 1st.. Be yourself... and try to stay confident about yourself... charm and a good sense of humor for me, have always been a good partner when approaching the opposite sex.. what you need to keep in mind when you walk up to the opposite sex is that you already have a definate "No" for an answer what you need to do is create an opportunity for yourself. You do not need to be necesserily need to attractive, usually what most women in my experience like are men who are confident about themselves and take the lead BUT in addition to this treat them with equal respect.. and alway be the Gentleman

   

  Good luck..!!

• facetiousness

  22 Jan 09, 03:44

  You must be bold first.

  Initiate a conversation with her, don't be scared. Then slowly, find a common topic that both of you are interested. Chat for quite awhile, then slowly ask for number/email/blog. This should be the basic.

• udontknowme

  22 Jan 09, 06:20

  Originally posted by Detached:

  You: Hi

  Girl: Erm... Hi?

  You: You had me at "hi"

   

  

  not 'you have me at Erm...'???

  i really don't think there's a standard formula >.<

  the only formula ones i've had are guys wanting to make friends, then saying wanting an asian gf, then an asian wife. omg...

• Yomigaeru tsubasa

  23 Jan 09, 14:02

  Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:

  You've come to the wrong place for relationship advice. This is an internet forum, home of geeks who live with their parents and lacking in social lives. You will find no help with girls on the internets so don't bother.

  On the contrary.

• jondizzle foshizzle

  23 Jan 09, 14:58

  Originally posted by Yomigaeru tsubasa:

  On the contrary.

  I was merely playing on stereotype.

• suxpervert

  25 Jan 09, 20:15

  if all the guys in this forum knew that, they wont be here at all. they will be romancing their gf's. bro.. we hav the same prob.its all part of luck..

  let me tel sum thing..trust me..girls always fall for the wrong guy. they fall for bulky wallets now. so dont waste your time..wasted species..

• bus555

  25 Jan 09, 20:17

  TS, you have hands for a reason!

• dj woody

  25 Jan 09, 20:17

  Originally posted by Cupidnine:

  Ok,many times I failed to have girl friend because I didn't know how to talk (chat up) a girl.

  First stage, my eye contact to a number of girls is really ok. But I am really blurred to go on next stage.

  Help me, love experts!

  i guess knowing what girls want is important?

• FBI

  25 Jan 09, 20:18

  be funny and initiative

• dj woody

  25 Jan 09, 20:21

  Originally posted by FBI:

  be funny and initiative

  yup, you are so right.

• maskedangel

  25 Jan 09, 20:22

  Originally posted by suxpervert:

  if all the guys in this forum knew that, they wont be here at all. they will be romancing their gf's. bro.. we hav the same prob.its all part of luck..

  let me tel sum thing..trust me..girls always fall for the wrong guy. they fall for bulky wallets now. so dont waste your time..wasted species..

  romancing 24/7?
  
  please
   even superman need a break!

• maskedangel

  25 Jan 09, 20:22

  Originally posted by FBI:

  be funny and initiative

  cocky funny is awesome

• FBI

  25 Jan 09, 20:25

  Originally posted by maskedangel:

  romancing 24/7?
  
  please
   even superman need a break!

  
  yeah wo shi superman, ni shi loser~