Why am I shivering when he touches me?
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I m just seeking some personal view..... and tat wat i recd.
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Originally posted by Sl belinda:
I m just seeking some personal view..... and tat wat i recd.
he wants sex, u resist and hestitate. u r not sure if he is the one.
anyway, this is lust... once he poked u, can say bye bye liao... u r dumped... -
u mean he is not serious with me ?
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Originally posted by Sl belinda:
u mean he is not serious with me ?
love doesnt equal to sex, sex doesnt equal to love.
u say classmate, means still schooling.
will u meet his parents? will he meet your parents?
typical schoolboy tactics to get schoolgirl to bed...
anyway, i don't see anything abt love in ur posts... -
Originally posted by Rednano:
love doesnt equal to sex, sex doesnt equal to love.
u say classmate, means still schooling.
will u meet his parents? will he meet your parents?
typical schoolboy tactics to get schoolgirl to bed...anyway, i don't see anything abt love in ur posts...
yup dun sound like a courtship... -
lol i m getting blur n mixed up. sorry...
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next time he touch u
punch his balls
he wont dare to touch u anymore
really.
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i know why you shiver. its cos you are virgin and he is going to eat you up
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wrong!
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Seriously we do not know why you are shivering....maybe u are excited or maybe you are scared or maybe both....
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maybe the air con is too strong la.
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lol!
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or maybe u dunwan him to know that you're actually a male???
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how to 'warm up' sia?
anyway you spelled 'quite' wrongly
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Originally posted by Sl belinda:
After several window shopping with him, he invited me over to his home over the weekend. I do not kown why am I shivering when he touches me. Is it that I dont love him ? My classmate said that because he did not do much "warming up", is that true?
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Belinda dun so stress & think too much, a man always think about sex & like to proceed futhur & faster step...mayb into sex. If you feel shivering dosent means your are abnormal, coz ur normal. mayb he act too fst. so before you do any plan or conclusion ask your self few question: 1st)Do you like ( not love, dun think love will go so fst) him? 2nd)Do you feel comfortable when you with him? 3rd)Do you feel safe while with him 4th)Do you think about him when he is not around? If all your answer is YES! then you can follow the question, if All is Not, Then juz ignore him any thing he say he plan & stop to date with him if YES: 1)When he touch you, not sexual contact, like hold your hand, do you feel heart bit or shy?( anyway tats normal - juz get use to it when time goes by ) 2)Can you accepted sex before married? ( if yes no more question, if not then tell him about what you think, although futhur down the road may not wat u expected :P ) 3)what you think wat u feel juz tell him, if he is so means to you.Originally posted by Sl belinda:
wrong!
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u said far.. how far?
at 1st i was thinking... touching as in holding hands hahaha...
as i read on, i found that he is touching more intimately than what i had expected.
there is no right or wrong, or when you can or cannot. its all up to the both of you.
Some couples can be together but nothing happen for a year and some maybe couples for 2 hours and they are on the bed.
Guys have urges and at adolescence, its common for teens to want to explore more. Trust your own feelings and please exercise some common sense. If all he wants is sex then maybe you should wait till you get to know him better 1st. Don't live to regret.
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some posting here r by 'joker', some r sincere. whichever grp u belong to, tks, it brightened up my day and help me to look forward in life.
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erm.. i think most who post here are sincere in helping u but we dunno to wad extent is did he "touches" you..
if is jux hug, hold hand etc it is normal tat u shiver as it is the first time a guy hold your hand or hug u..
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Cold hands ?
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he has the heebie jeebies and he's about to pass them to you
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Touch you ? Where ?
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Originally posted by Sl belinda:
some posting here r by 'joker', some r sincere. whichever grp u belong to, tks, it brightened up my day and help me to look forward in life.
im the sincere onethe rest all jokers, all give complicated advices
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
im the sincere onethe rest all jokers, all give complicated advices
the one who said they are sincere not sincere de...thick skin...lol... -
His hands is cold mah.