stress affect sex??
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hello all this is my first post. Hope i dun bored u guys about my question. cause i have been with "my wife to be" for almost 8 yrs. we do sex etc, but recently i dun seem to.... eh hrm. what i mean is i can stand but the cherry just dun pop.... issit because of work stress. or because we been doing the same thing over and i feel numb about it??
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both, one extreme case i know cannot even erect when facing his wife cos always quarrel when at home plus work stress...... but when outside he straight away become "dragon"
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thot is the other way round....i headache'd how to sex...veri stressed
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Har? Cherry dont pop, then how u just have sex for the past 8 yrs?
U mean ...
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i think he used the wrong expression. He meant that he just can't climax... as for the cherry, he popped that long ago lol
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lol yeah sorry for my bad english. but just to ask do u guys thinks sg girls mostly are still quite conservative?? i mean still quite shy about this topics??
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Originally posted by tobachidu:
lol yeah sorry for my bad english. but just to ask do u guys thinks sg girls mostly are still quite conservative?? i mean still quite shy about this topics??
yes and no, its depends on upbringing. after that depends on who you are to them. some of my friends regard the ability to talk about this topic as a sign of maturity. others think its evil. but those that are willing to talk about it only do so with friends and not every tom dick and harry.
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Stress can sabotage sex drive
Imagine this scenario: You and your dream lover are naked in bed together. Then, all of a sudden, a stranger barges into the room with a gun. You've just lost all interest in sex, and now the only plan you have for your privates is keeping them out of harm's way. In short, you've reprioritized your activities as a survival instinct.
This is an extreme example, but any kind of stress -- whether related to work, relationships or any other area of life -- that preoccupies someone is going to diminish that person's sex drive. In order to have a healthy libido, one has to be engaged in the moment -- not angry or hurt. For example, says Milsten, "If you're having shouting matches with your partner," your libido is nearly certain to take a nosedive. Fortunately, if you work on your differences and good feelings are restored, sex drive is likely to return to baseline levels.
Some problems, however, such as depression or anxiety, intense job stress, family worries, serious marital conflicts, experiences of past abuse or conflicts about sexual orientation may require professional assistance. It is essential to seek such help if negative feelings interfere with the rest of life, if they are overwhelming, or if you are no longer able to experience pleasure.
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Or could it be ur age... ie.... u need viagra?
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i thot sex relieve stress
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Originally posted by tobachidu:
hello all this is my first post. Hope i dun bored u guys about my question. cause i have been with "my wife to be" for almost 8 yrs. we do sex etc, but recently i dun seem to.... eh hrm. what i mean is i can stand but the cherry just dun pop.... issit because of work stress. or because we been doing the same thing over and i feel numb about it??
8 years , sex life going down hill ? . Stress can make you lose your sex drive, if you're doing the same thing over and over isn't it about time you tried something new ? -
I agree with yan yan
Gotta spice up your sex life. Bring sexy back! LOL!
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time to do something else
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Originally posted by tobachidu:
hello all this is my first post. Hope i dun bored u guys about my question. cause i have been with "my wife to be" for almost 8 yrs. we do sex etc, but recently i dun seem to.... eh hrm. what i mean is i can stand but the cherry just dun pop.... issit because of work stress. or because we been doing the same thing over and i feel numb about it??
yes stress can affect... but also bcos no freshness... tats y both of u need to inject some live back to it... try different things... do it somewhere... buy her sexy lingerie... role play... SM, watever u can come up with...
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Stress. Definately stress.
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Originally posted by Evangel:
I agree with yan yan
Gotta spice up your sex life. Bring sexy back! LOL!
Yezzir !! -
Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
i thot sex relieve stress
got mood then can what... sometime real stress really no mood.. or stress for long long also make mi weak in bed lor... then bang already also not shiok one.. like doing hard chores like that.. sianz..... -
You can't even get in the mood if you are stressed out.
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I think your just stress because of work.
Time to move countries, head down to Australia :)
It's a good place to chill and relax.
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are u poppiong the right cheery at the 1st place?
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Stay calm. Maybe you should do yoga.