Why Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm?
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According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!
A lot of flack fall on men on why women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.
6 Reasons Why Women DON’T Climax
There are many reasons why women don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men’s faults but a lot can be because of her too…
Foreplay? What foreplay?
Foreplay is extremely important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don’t ‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances are she won’t be sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your way of extending your own sexual stamina.
She’s thinking too much!
Women are natural multi-taskers. Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing several things at the same time that they find it hard to simply be ‘in the moment’ during sex. If most men can be very ‘in the zone’ during sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’ homework, dirty laundry, etc.).
She’s full of… insecurities.
Women have many body image issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at least three different things as you undress her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love handles’ protruding? Does he think my breasts are too small/big?
If body image anxiety is not in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as “I didn’t shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially down there.”, or “I didn’t pee. I hope I don’t embarrass myself.”
ALL these thoughts are making her focus on the wrong things! It’s taking attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it’s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!
She really doesn’t know her own body.
There is a certain art form to making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don’t indulge in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it comes to sex. As such, it’s hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on. And really, if she doesn’t know her own body, how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure, right?
The best thing is… it’s never too late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her body? Don’t rush anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest! However, here are some clues to save you a few steps...http://www.TheFemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
You are not paying attention!
True, men are not mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’. As a result, YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in reality you may not even be close!
To solve this particular problem, try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means “You’re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails on your skin or arm mean “enough of that!”. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important facts. Click here to learn more: http://www.TheFemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
YOU’re changing ‘techniques’ too fast.Men like to try different sexual positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain ‘rhythm’ before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused again.
So keep this in mind: when it comes to female orgasm it’s not just location, location, location… it’s also about repetition, repetition, repetition.
Hopefully this list of potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don’t focus on why she’s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her climax. That’s a more positive approach and lot more fun too! Learn creative and easy ways to do it here: http://www.TheFemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
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7. You guys have no clue what you are doing in the bedroom ?
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i know i know.. but.. recently.. i really like it to just bend them over and ram them hard.... what foreplay?? i like the animal instinct kind of feeling...
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Lol , always blame us girls, change topic name to "Why guys can't satisfy girls "
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Lol , always blame us girls, change topic name to "Why guys can't satisfy girls "
u try with mi lor.. if u not happy... i return the money lor.. no shiok no money -
Yes, i will ask for refund
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Yes, i will ask for refund
u try first then u say... maybe u will pay mi for another round lor.. -
Ooooh rly ah , how much is your lesson ? .. haha
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the penis not enough contours
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too small
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Ooooh rly ah , how much is your lesson ? .. haha
first lesson free.... so where and when? -
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just watch sex and the city
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
7. You guys have no clue what you are doing in the bedroom ?
lolololol!+1
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haha. i agree with XxYaNxX. the topic name should be changed to "Why guys can't satisfy girls " heh
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Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
first lesson free.... so where and when?knn...
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Originally posted by rachel:):
haha. i agree with XxYaNxX. the topic name should be changed to "Why guys can't satisfy girls " heh
u never met the correct one yet lah
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:
knn...
si mi?? ... truth what..... u wan to try is it? -
haha
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Video speaks a million words. Let me share this.
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Originally posted by Evangel:
Video speaks a million words. Let me share this.
win already lor... really GVGT now.. -
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
win already lor... really GVGT now..Hope it enlighten some guys who dont know how to....
I-like-flings(m), im sure you know already haha...
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Originally posted by Jaycnce:
There might be problems with you guys.
oh, i dunno .... but everyone keeps coming back ... so i guess I must have been doing something right ? ....
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Not difficult for gals to orgasm la...jus tat many gals haven fully explore their body yet..