Such 'tensed-up' relationship requires mutual understanding and tolerance when it approaches sensitive issues like this.
Although she abides by pre-sex notions, the extent of intimacy can still be explored with further discussion on how to make it, well, lively for both without venturing into danger zones. You need to voice out because this concerns with your discomfort (or in your case, the primitive needs) too. If you are not vocal and would err some times down the road, who's to blame?
If she refuses to acknowledge and listen to what bothers you as a man, it's obviously meaningless to maintain a relationship that is strung by one-sided communication.
The relationship is heading for its doom since day one when one refuses to listen or tolerate with the other.
Cheers.
Sorry, I meant "she abides by post-marriage sex notions" and not the abovementioned "pre-sex notions".
Strike while the iron is hot!
dont need pay $200.
pay $80 for one time sex with prc can liao
1.63/48kg and C cup!!
Originally posted by FirePig:
$200 isnt enough for ONS. (unless you are looking for 40yrs+ old auntie)If i am not wrong, according to my friends, even those geylang prostitutes commands S$200+ overnight.
Are u asking for a solution for ur Gf...or looking for a pros in here..? Seems like u making up a story for urself...ehh?
drug her lor. then can do watever u wan.
Some things are hard to achieve but once you achieve it, it will become a rather frequent thing.
U need to speak to your GF seriously. Tell her your needs. At this day & age no one keeps their virginity for the wedding nite anymore. besides u need to find out if u guys are sexually compatible.
Originally posted by natas666:At this day & age no one keeps their virginity for the wedding nite anymore.
Originally posted by antievildoer:
There are, although rare.
seriously there r... majority of church going virgin ladies.
and self proclaimed Jade Seah.
Originally posted by Rednano:
seriously there r... majority of church going virgin ladies.
and self proclaimed Jade Seah.
Tell your GF how u feel. It's a natural act when a couple is in love. Are u?
can't she help you with something else ie handjob or blowjob?
Originally posted by rainee:can't she help you with something else ie handjob or blowjob?
I guess TS wants the real thing. Any other substitute may not satisfy him.
I used to have a GF which wouldn't allow me to fuck her but would allow anything else. We would go down on each other. She would blow me and hand job me till I cum. I would go down on her till she cum but she would just not let me fuck her. I respected her wishes. But to be honest what's the difference anyway.
Originally posted by cherrycola:
I guess TS wants the real thing. Any other substitute may not satisfy him.
Then too bad, if the gf already willing to do what I have mentioned for him and he is still not satisfied, he is better off going out with someone who is willing to put out.
Relationship is always a compromise...if he can't respect her wish and just bent on getting his own way, they wouldn't last long anyway...
Originally posted by rainee:Then too bad, if the gf already willing to do what I have mentioned for him and he is still not satisfied, he is better off going out with someone who is willing to put out.
Relationship is always a compromise...if he can't respect her wish and just bent on getting his own way, they wouldn't last long anyway...
He will probably say that she is the one who cant compromise. lol......
Originally posted by cherrycola:
He will probably say that she is the one who cant compromise. lol......
Erm, you know what is the meaning of compromise?
I said if she is willing to perform handjob and blowjob for him, that is already compromise on her part. If she doesn't want to compromise means she will stay off all sexual acts altogether...
Originally posted by rainee:Erm, you know what is the meaning of compromise?
I said if she is willing to perform handjob and blowjob for him, that is already compromise on her part. If she doesn't want to compromise means she will stay off all sexual acts altogether...
ah.. ok... think i read too fast...
Each to their own eh?
Originally posted by men_sword:Hi All,
I am new here, pls do help me if you can.
I am 26 years old and have been with my gf for 2 years. So far, I have no sex with her yet... not my problem, I discussed with her a few times regarding this before, it seems she is very traditional and keep saying "it should only happen after marridge"...
I understand her and don't want to force her, but to me, a healthy man, how to live like that for 2 years...
I read it from somewhere "love should be separated from sex", not qualified to judge it, but now I can see it is quite useful to men like me...I am not going to Geylang as that is not my intention. I went through some topics and found it is a good place for you escape from real life. It is true that no free lunch in the world, that is why "commision" is OK to me.
Good lah.. I also don't have... So we blow each other want....??
this is where porn and diy works for you
Originally posted by Hanagata:this is where porn and diy works for you
The last thing we ever want is TS being addicted to porn.
It's normal for guys to DIY even when married or have a live in GF.