no sex with my gf.
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Hi All,
I am new here, pls do help me if you can.
I am 26 years old and have been with my gf for 2 years. So far, I have no sex with her yet... not my problem, I discussed with her a few times regarding this before, it seems she is very traditional and keep saying "it should only happen after marridge"...
I understand her and don't want to force her, but to me, a healthy man, how to live like that for 2 years...
I read it from somewhere "love should be separated from sex", not qualified to judge it, but now I can see it is quite useful to men like me...I am not going to Geylang as that is not my intention. I went through some topics and found it is a good place for you escape from real life. It is true that no free lunch in the world, that is why "commision" is OK to me.
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like tt then got something to look forward to on the wedding nite mah.
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I don't understand what you're trying to say...
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admire your gf can control herself for 2 years
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Originally posted by JerryYan:
admire that ger can control herself for that 2 years
i can control myself for 14 years, going 15 years dis year
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xavier1979, to make it short, I am looking for girl / lady to have one night stand. Paying is OK to me ($200?)
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Originally posted by men_sword:
xavier1979, to make it short, I am looking for girl / lady to have one night stand. Paying is OK to me ($200?)
$200 isnt enough for ONS. (unless you are looking for 40yrs+ old auntie)If i am not wrong, according to my friends, even those geylang prostitutes commands S$200+ overnight.
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O.. nice.. ~ such will power. lol!
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Originally posted by men_sword:
Hi All,
I am new here, pls do help me if you can.
I am 26 years old and have been with my gf for 2 years. So far, I have no sex with her yet... not my problem, I discussed with her a few times regarding this before, it seems she is very traditional and keep saying "it should only happen after marridge"...
I understand her and don't want to force her, but to me, a healthy man, how to live like that for 2 years...
I read it from somewhere "love should be separated from sex", not qualified to judge it, but now I can see it is quite useful to men like me...I am not going to Geylang as that is not my intention. I went through some topics and found it is a good place for you escape from real life. It is true that no free lunch in the world, that is why "commision" is OK to me.
knn...... u twist ur story here n there up down left right end up is jz saying u looking for sex partner and dun mind a paid FL.... jz go geylang la... here is tok sex only not a FL forum....
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u love ur gf or not?
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Originally posted by men_sword:
xavier1979, to make it short, I am looking for girl / lady to have one night stand. Paying is OK to me ($200?)
wah got money big fark...anyways, wear helmut hor...pity your gf. -
Originally posted by FireIce:
u love ur gf or not?
dun tink he even has a gf.... now sch holiday... -
can find escort, more expensive.
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ke ke ke
straightaway deny its not "your problem" so fast.
Dont try to justify and bend words to suit yourself. Love being separated from sex doesnt mean that you can have sex and still be regarded as faithful
And $200 cannot buy you overnight.
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Guys, don't be so quick to judge this guy. I think he's simply frustrated with the lack of action with his girlfriend. By respecting her decision not to have sex and most importantly not forcing her, I think he cares for his girlfriend quite a bit already. However, you cannot blame him for feeling down despite abiding his girlfriend's wishes. Ask yourselves people, how would you feel if you are standing in his shoes, and how would you deal with it?
Having said all that, I do not advocate sex as a monetary transaction though.
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Originally posted by Viva Voce:
Guys, don't be so quick to judge this guy. I think he's simply frustrated with the lack of action with his girlfriend. By respecting her decision not to have sex and most importantly not forcing her, I think he cares for his girlfriend quite a bit already. However, you cannot blame him for feeling down despite abiding his girlfriend's wishes. Ask yourselves people, how would you feel if you are standing in his shoes, and how would you deal with it?
Having said all that, I do not advocate sex as a monetary transaction though.
Nah. its not that i blamed him for "feeling down". "feeling down" does not mean he can do what he want and hurt someone in the process.
If he really respect her, he should not be seeking paid sex while still in a r/s with her.
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Originally posted by Viva Voce:
Guys, don't be so quick to judge this guy. I think he's simply frustrated with the lack of action with his girlfriend. By respecting her decision not to have sex and most importantly not forcing her, I think he cares for his girlfriend quite a bit already. However, you cannot blame him for feeling down despite abiding his girlfriend's wishes. Ask yourselves people, how would you feel if you are standing in his shoes, and how would you deal with it?
Having said all that, I do not advocate sex as a monetary transaction though.
c'mon la. sex is not everything in a relationship la.
just because nowadays couples are doing it doesn't mean you have to do it in your r/s too.
to me, hes letting that dick take control of him.
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Originally posted by Ferret:
Nah. its not that i blamed him for "feeling down". "feeling down" does not mean he can do what he want and hurt someone in the process.
If he really respect her, he should not be seeking paid sex while still in a r/s with her.
Yes precisely, that's why I said what I said - "Having said all that, I do not advocate sex as a monetary transaction though." I do not think he should be seeking paid sex either.
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Originally posted by men_sword:
xavier1979, to make it short, I am looking for girl / lady to have one night stand. Paying is OK to me ($200?)
hmm, like that.. are you loving your gf?
if you love her, you wouldn't want to hurt her wat. will she be hurt if you do this?
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Originally posted by Ferret:
Nah. its not that i blamed him for "feeling down". "feeling down" does not mean he can do what he want and hurt someone in the process.
If he really respect her, he should not be seeking paid sex while still in a r/s with her.
correct, come come ferret, reward you with duck rice
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Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:
c'mon la. sex is not everything in a relationship la.
just because nowadays couples are doing it doesn't mean you have to do it in your r/s too.
to me, hes letting that dick take control of him.
Yes, I agree sex is not everything in a relationship. I was just trying to see things from his perspective. I concur with your last sentence, but it IS a sad fact most guys think with the head down there rather than the one with the brains in it.
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u got a rare girl lor
treasure it
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
u got a rare girl lor
treasure it
Why rare?
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Originally posted by Viva Voce:
Yes precisely, that's why I said what I said - "Having said all that, I do not advocate sex as a monetary transaction though." I do not think he should be seeking paid sex either.
so. why are telling us not to judge too quickly... ?
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Originally posted by Viva Voce:
Yes, I agree sex is not everything in a relationship. I was just trying to see things from his perspective. I concur with your last sentence, but it IS a sad fact most guys think with the head down there rather than the one with the brains in it.
i tried looking at his perspective. but i just don't see any validity in his reasoning.