There are too many aliens in that forumOriginally posted by the Bear:that guy is also another person from outer-space..
i have a feeling he was one of those idiots who were thrown out by either WP or NSP because they told him to stop writing BS in public forums and go do proper work for the people...
another space cadet is adobe
depends on what you mean by achieve i guess.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:There are self interests, and there are self interests.
The difference would be is it solely self serving interest, or can it be a societal contributing self interest.
Becos we live in a system, a society, a community - an individual's actions can have the power to affect and influence the rest. You choose how much you can do in order to serve your neighbour. Question is - why do I want to do that?
When u only serve yourself, you are simply a selfish individual. Selfish individuals rarely achieve much, simply because they are not willing to step out of their own comfortable zone to risk what they have because they are not able to see how actions can benefit a larger good.
Because of this, the lack of impetus to actually TAKE action is not there. Compared to someone who realise that a single action from him, may ripple out to cause a much further bigger benefit to the rest of his fellowmen. Serving people MORE than yourself can be empowering in this sense. Becos you act because you believe that your actions have effect beyond yourself, and not simply becos only u benefit by them.
nah i never expect everyone to do so. Not everyone has the passion to love life enough to do it.Originally posted by hisoka:yupz some do. I never said they don't.
but you cannot expect every one to do so. other pple have other priorities.
the more you put energy and time and efforts into your cuase, the more "risk" is put to your other priorities due to lack of management.effort into those areas. I'm not talking just about being in danger or jail or such.
I'm sure there will be more than enough people to help carry the food..Originally posted by the Bear:btw.. on barbeque day, just how much tonic water should i buy?
and.. at fatum's place, can someone help carry the food?
Originally posted by bluejuice:I'm sure there will be more than enough people to help carry the food..
I see what you are getting at. I think the main problem is not that they whine and complain. its that alot of them are pretty idiotic i their complains(points to UN thread).Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:nah i never expect everyone to do so. Not everyone has the passion to love life enough to do it.
But for these people to spend so much time on complaining and whining and not on the real acts of 'contribution' i find it hypocritical and self absorbed.
It creates a negative atmosphere, makes people fearful and suspicious all for nothing.
It detracts onlookers from real deeds of 'valour', from the people who HAVE been contributing but don't like to blow their own trumpet. If you look out there, there are so many Singaporeans who are quietly working to benefit others. why is it worth it for them? It's because the energy and time and effort they put in the cause put meaning in their life.
And here we have a bunch of people who complain abt insignificant things when really we have much better and bigger problems to worry about. This things get drown out by the 'mosquito buzzing'.
Originally posted by elindra:I think I have to take a cab down
The Ham, Asti and Saba and condiments
And if no one is bringing chicken wings I wanna bring some
There should be no bbq without chicken wings!!!!!
Kk will doOriginally posted by the Bear:aha! i see a volunteer!
also.. uhh.. pinkybear, the last 2 weeks of december, i'll be on leave.. so just tell me when the ducks are ready for collection and i'll go get them
carry food means when you drive there unload from your car? If so i don't think will be a problem. I'll help if I'm there already.Originally posted by the Bear:btw.. on barbeque day, just how much tonic water should i buy?
and.. at fatum's place, can someone help carry the food?
Originally posted by elindra:Kk will do
Originally posted by tare:i went for lunch and some grocery shopping and the thread jump 5 pages
gonna bath bubble b4 sunset and after tat munch on the 4 season durian puffs in the fridge
Originally posted by the Bear:maybe i'll give you a lift home too... coz you'll be with a bunch of frozen ducks too right?
wat's on wed??Originally posted by the Bear:i'm dying of hunger now
btw, coming on wednesday? if so, i bring the electro-zapper
Originally posted by tare:wat's on wed??
yeah... not sure how to get rid of that look.Originally posted by the Bear:4th pic macam mutantdude
nice
but has the feel of those irritating 'inspirational posters'
Originally posted by kopiosatu:yeah... not sure how to get rid of that look.
but the layout serves its purpose : simple and not distracting.