Week 28/7/03

• the Bear

  28 Jul 03, 14:50

  i'm kinda lucky too i have 9.5 working digits
  
  my left thumb isn't very strong but it works well
  
  after 10 years, you'd think i should see a doc about it? probably get screamed at
  
  

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Uh.... Ok. Lucky those I know have their 10 digits in full working condition then.
  
  

• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 14:51

  Originally posted by choco B:

  I got different opinion. Married women (let's talk about women since you're a guy) who are open to flings have already made up their mind and are available before they even get to know a guy. So once you approach her and she likes you, she's OK to start almost immediately.
  
  It's this emotional detachment that makes her open to extra marital affairs.
  
  

  nah, not really..u dun understand women enuff...unless the gal is a slut, most woman must get emotional with u b4 having an affair..dun believe ask beanie lor..
• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 14:52

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  if one day your gf/wife is to come to me for advice whether to do it or not, i shall quote you

  tat's partly y i m not keen into settling down..n tat's wat i told my mom as well, judging by how many married women having affairs these days..
• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 14:57

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  nah, not really..u dun understand women enuff...unless the gal is a slut, most woman must get emotional with u b4 having an affair..dun believe ask beanie lor..

  i think you are right that most woman needs emotional closeness b4 having an affair. But i've came across women who just wanna have thrills but ended up being emotional involved and hurt themselves badly.
• the Bear

  28 Jul 03, 14:58

  that's cynical...
  
  it's like saying "lots of people are committing suicide, robberies, rape and murder, so i've decided not to live life and lock myself in my room"...
  
  

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  tat's partly y i m not keen into settling down..n tat's wat i told my mom as well, judging by how many married women having affairs these days..

• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 14:58

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  tat's partly y i m not keen into settling down..n tat's wat i told my mom as well, judging by how many married women having affairs these days..

  what's the main reason for not being keen to settle down? no confidence in yourself, or in the female population?
• sillyme

  28 Jul 03, 15:01

  choco is quite right about women wanting to have affair.. the emotion is sometimes just an excuse..
  
  what it boils down to is each own's moral principles.. too many a times, the media has made "loving with one's heart" an ideal to be followed.. and it is more and more seen as an okay things to let go the sanctity of marriages.. it's so sad..

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  i think you are right that most woman needs emotional closeness b4 having an affair. But i've came across women who just wanna have thrills but ended up being emotional involved and hurt themselves badly.

• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 15:01

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  i think you are right that most woman needs emotional closeness b4 having an affair. But i've came across women who just wanna have thrills but ended up being emotional involved and hurt themselves badly.

  tat's wat i said MOST lor, cos there're bound to be others who sleep ard for thrill...but most of this women are experienced enuff to not get emotional one lar..those who got emotional are those need love one.
  
• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 15:03

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  what's the main reason for not being keen to settle down? no confidence in yourself, or in the female population?

  i think both play a n equal part also....but most impt is cant find someone i wanna take the risk to settle down with..
• choco B

  28 Jul 03, 15:03

  Dunno about you, but I base my comment on women I know who are having or have had extra marital affairs. They first detach themselves, then become emotionally available so that they are receptive to other men.
  
  Besides, if a married woman who has an affair is a s|ut, then all of them are, regardless whether she's emotionally involved or not. What difference does it make?
  
  

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  nah, not really..u dun understand women enuff...unless the gal is a slut, most woman must get emotional with u b4 having an affair..dun believe ask beanie lor..

• sillyme

  28 Jul 03, 15:03

  btw, coco the choco.. have u decided to join us on wed?
• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 15:04

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  choco is quite right about women wanting to have affair.. the emotion is sometimes just an excuse..
  
  what it boils down to is each own's moral principles.. too many a times, the media has made "loving with one's heart" an ideal to be followed.. and it is more and more seen as an okay things to let go the sanctity of marriages.. it's so sad..

  yes it is.... and they ended up hurting themselves and their spouses badly.
• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 15:05

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  tat's wat i said MOST lor, cos there're bound to be others who sleep ard for thrill...but most of this women are experienced enuff to not get emotional one lar..those who got emotional are those need love one.
  

  my fren was loved by her hubby, all of us can see it. It's just tat she expected more. And her main folly was to think tat she'll never get emotionally attached, tat it's just a fling. She paid a huge price for tat lesson
• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 15:09

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  i think both play a n equal part also....but most impt is cant find someone i wanna take the risk to settle down with..

  i hope you'll find someone whom you think is worth taking the risks
• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 15:09

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Dunno about you, but I base my comment on women I know who are having or have had extra marital affairs. They first detach themselves, then become emotionally available so that they are receptive to other men.
  
  Besides, if a married woman who has an affair is a s|ut, then all of them are, regardless whether she's emotionally involved or not. What difference does it make?
  
  

  i dunno...there's this saying..its best to have an affiars involving 2 married pple..cos at the end of the day, the guy goes back to her wife n the gal goes back to her hubby...
• choco B

  28 Jul 03, 15:10

  From a gal's point of view, the thumb is not that important. So, you can save the doctor's fee. Hehe!
  
  

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i'm kinda lucky too i have 9.5 working digits
  
  my left thumb isn't very strong but it works well
  
  after 10 years, you'd think i should see a doc about it? probably get screamed at

• Taufiq

  28 Jul 03, 15:11

  sleepy
• sillyme

  28 Jul 03, 15:12

  the new Jazz Bistro compilation CD came out.. some tracks are good except that some had dance music mixes.. so yucks.. but i like this song..
  
  Time After Time
  Lying in my bed I hear the clock tick,
  And think of you
  caught up in circles
  confusion Is nothing new
  Flashback warm nights
  Almost left behind
  Suitcase of memories,
  Time after
  
  Sometimes you picture me
  I'm walking too far ahead
  You're calling to me, I can't hear
  What you've said
  Then you say go slow
  I fall behind
  The second hand unwinds
  
  Chorus:
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  
  After my picture fades and darkness has
  Turned to gray
  Watching through windows
  you're wondering If I'm OK
  Secrets stolen from deep inside
  The drum beats out of time
  
  Chorus:
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  
  You said go slow
  I fall behind
  The second hand unwinds
  
  Chorus:
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  
  Time after time
  
• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 15:14

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  my fren was loved by her hubby, all of us can see it. It's just tat she expected more. And her main folly was to think tat she'll never get emotionally attached, tat it's just a fling. She paid a huge price for tat lesson

  oh well u c!!...of cos i m not trying to blame on all female population..but these things are getting more n more....
  
  i can tell u tat, no matter how much love a gal has taken, she will wan more..no matter how pretty the gal is, she wont mind another guy praising her!!..u just need a guy who is really good at it to knock at u for a persistent time, she will give in..
• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 15:14

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  i dunno...there's this saying..its best to have an affiars involving 2 married pple..cos at the end of the day, the guy goes back to her wife n the gal goes back to her hubby...

  ahem, i've known of a case where the married woman refuses to go back to her hubby and instead tried to sabotage the guy's marriage by poisoning his wife's mind. Fatal attraction?
  
• the Bear

  28 Jul 03, 15:15

  to steal a line from your past sig.. i don't get it
  
  

  Originally posted by choco B:

  From a gal's point of view, the thumb is not that important. So, you can save the doctor's fee. Hehe!
  
  

• skinnybeanie

  28 Jul 03, 15:15

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  the new Jazz Bistro compilation CD came out.. some tracks are good except that some had dance music mixes.. so yucks.. but i like this song..
  
  Time After Time
  Lying in my bed I hear the clock tick,
  And think of you
  caught up in circles
  confusion Is nothing new
  Flashback warm nights
  Almost left behind
  Suitcase of memories,
  Time after
  
  Sometimes you picture me
  I'm walking too far ahead
  You're calling to me, I can't hear
  What you've said
  Then you say go slow
  I fall behind
  The second hand unwinds
  
  Chorus:
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  
  After my picture fades and darkness has
  Turned to gray
  Watching through windows
  you're wondering If I'm OK
  Secrets stolen from deep inside
  The drum beats out of time
  
  Chorus:
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  
  You said go slow
  I fall behind
  The second hand unwinds
  
  Chorus:
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  If you're lost you can look and you will find me
  Time after time
  If you fall I will catch you I'll be waiting
  Time after time
  
  Time after time
  

  original performer cyndi lauper my idol during teenage years
• Inzaghi

  28 Jul 03, 15:16

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  i hope you'll find someone whom you think is worth taking the risks

  dunno, i think marriage in sg is quite a risky biz..last time got pple said the woman charter here are putting lotsa male off marriage....
• choco B

  28 Jul 03, 15:17

  Mai KK.
  
  Hey how was Friday's SUE outing.
  
  

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  to steal a line from your past sig.. i don't get it
  

• M

  28 Jul 03, 15:17

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  Time After Time
  

  enjoyed the acoustic version by matchbox20..