How will an average married girl react?
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How will you feel if you were me?
When going out with my husband and my husband's buddies of 20 + years and their wives,
1) The wives don't talk to me unless I talk to them but usually is just Q & A sessions.
2) One of my husband's buddy has a Bimbo wife (call him X), always dress up like she is a model and some high class chic. One day, as usual during an outing, she dressed up like she is some Miss Singapore Universe, my hubby's buddy ask my hubby to bring some ice cream for his bimbo wife. (Like what the hell ?! So are average girls ok with that??)
3) This X, at times for whatever reason, will raise his voice at me. Got one time, when X and his Bimbo Wife sat in our car and as I saw that my seat was pushed too far back, I asked them are they ok, feel comfortable or not if not I adjust my seat, my husband said in a rude voice, 'no need' and then X added in another rude voice, ' no need la'.
4) One day, we go to pub to chill, after that, I casually asked my hubby whether we sitting in X's car, my hubby say, 'still sit in his car?' Then X raised his voice at me, 'No la, not sitting in my car !' (Cos X fetched us to the Pub in the first place so I thought he was going to fetch us back too).
5) And that was not a once in a while thing, it was quite frequent whenever I attend the outing. Recently, when visiting another friend for his house warming, out of friendliness, I show X a friendly smile, X gave me a 'heck care' expression. When coming to evening, X suddenly raised his voice in a rude manner at me asking, 'how is the house?! '
6) Bimbo wife has a daughter and so I exclaimed , 'Cute daughter' and Bimbo wife threw me a nasty look. That was not an isolated case. Even I don't talk, she also throw me nasty looks at times. I may not be able to mix with other wives but I seem to have more nasty encounter with X and his Bimbo wife. When I told my hubby I do not want to go out with them anymore, it will upset him and he will throw tantrums.
Haiz, but really ....... how will an average married woman react?
(Mod Yunhaier: have edited for you)
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Next time your hubby goes out with X, don't go along.
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so difficult to read
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Originally posted by FireIce:
so difficult to read
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Originally posted by Papwasewgolum:
Next time your hubby goes out with X, don't go along.
Precisely. Don't know is my EQ is too high or I am just plain stupid. Until today, I recall I haven't even raised my voice back at him to retaliate. -
I guess I should just avoid outings with them any more. Today I just told my hubby, it is absolutely ok that he go meet them himself and don't involve me as I really cannot click with those girls as well. What for going out to a supposedly happy outing and turn out like a bullying session. lol.... haiz.
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Don't know how to read your message.
if I read it correctly, don't worry. every relationship sure got problem one. don't like in-laws, don't like best friend, etc....
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dont get mad at me for saying this but, perhaps you are alittle bit sensitive? maybe they dont mean to sound rude or give nasty looks but is just that you interprited it that way. anyway, just do whatever that makes you happy lah. next time if really nochoice have tohang out with them just focus on enjoying activties at hand and not dwell too much on how they treat u.
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Originally posted by Aussiepizza:
dont get mad at me for saying this but, perhaps you are alittle bit sensitive? maybe they dont mean to sound rude or give nasty looks but is just that you interprited it that way. anyway, just do whatever that makes you happy lah. next time if really nochoice have tohang out with them just focus on enjoying activties at hand and not dwell too much on how they treat u.
One time two times maybe you can say I sensitive but it is OUT OF THE BLUE type one leh. Even I many times convince myself that I was being sensitive but it isn't ! If you were me, I very sure, you go out with them only one time you will don't feel like joining them anymore. I have been going out with them several times either closing one eye or forcing myself to get over those bad experience but I end up becoming ... err... bullied (?) So easy for you to say cos you not in the real situation. Enjoy activities? Sorry la, I get headaches at times due to the weird treatments, how to enjoy, you tell me. And what do you mean by 'they don't mean to' ? You mean they don't mean to give me nasty expression and don't mean to raise voice at me rudely ? Are you kidding me? -
don't go out with them la
go out with me
